i sell different stuff locally and i decide to sell on ebay but i have an issue with the shipping prices e.g. another seller is selling same item as mine $35+8.25 shipping. Me selling that item for the same price but when i go to print the shipping label is like $17+ and i cant seem to find a cheaper option, weight of the item 4.lb 5.oz - how the hell can they ship for cheaper??? And i can't ask the buyer to pay $17 for shipping ???