help me on my GF issue :(

what a cunt. seriously i used to have an ex gf like that, really easily swayed. She cheated on me with this guy and now shes not "allowed" to talk to me. If a girl cant go steady, you shouldnt be dating her.

Been through similar things when i was a bit younger mate, trust me when I say this "You will not be thinking about her in future". If she is willing to do shit like that then she really cant be worth anything.

If I was you i'd ignore her for a while.. go our with some other girls... play it cool...

If she really wants you.. she will get back to you!

If not, just get on with your life...

move on dude, sink your energy into IM and it will pay you back more than your current drama. A few years you will look back and laugh.

well, I still don't understand, what is "stuff" ?

And also, she already pissed you off, police is a fuck thing that you ever had, and you got it twice? What the hell? You should drop her fast, let her "intelligence" and her "hot stupid feeling" decide what is best for her.

She dumped you, called the police twice, and she still cry because she loves you? I don't think so.

Cash Money over bitches? Get some fucking dude friends and party your ass off man. Theres like 6 billion women all over the world. I know where you are it happens, its not you its her. The person who does the ignoring always has the advantage. Just remember cash money over bitches.

Time to put the revenge site script to work...

n she can be influenced very fast

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You'll never want a girl like that, n stuff.
Sooner or later you'd get a nice pair of horns on your head n stuff (not trying to be mean and stuff)

Man, just move on, there are lots and lots of gals all over the place and stuff like that.

It may be hard and somethinz on the beggining, but you'll get over it and stuff.

Just don't lock your self on home, go out with your friemds and stuff

You don't have to give up on her but you do need to put her in an icebox. Wait, that didn't come out right...you don't have to give up on her but you do need to put her on ice for a while. Just wait until she's matured a little more. You're fine; don't worry about you at all. She's the one with the problem. But, if you give her time to mature without pining over her then she'll see how great you are and want you even more. Get over her insomuch as you should not desperately want her. It will be tough to do but you seem like a reasonably intelligent guy if not completely love-struck. Don't hope for this because zen rules apply. But, as soon as you don't care about if you have a relationship with her she will come back to you. Women are funny like that. Don't be childish; just act as normal and as though you have moved on with your life and when you finally do she will be available to you. Watch the movie "SWINGERS" with Jon Favreau and Vince Vaughn, (it's an oldie but at least it's in color), and you'll know how it works.

Also, thank you for making your post at least semi-readable. I know you were like all:
i wntd 2 ask u wut u wud hav dun n my sitch 4 lng

but then you cleaned it up and were all like:
i wanted to ask u guys what u would have done in my situ for quite long...

chin up and good look.

JD

Hi william_n,

It depends on what Love means to you. Once you figure that out, you will know if this girl fits into your ideal or not. If she does, then pursue her, if she does not then let her go.

Safe guard yourself first, because someone of her capabilities will bring you down. You will be no good to each other if you are both caught in a tailspin.

Love is a complex thing that can be a beautiful when handled the right way.

Hope this helps?

Good luck

Dude you seen what she will do only after 8 months this girl is crazy are you sure its love or lust of being with a hotgirl? Now think about it if you get married your life will be crazy if this girl doesnt make decisions on her own i gurantee she will cheat on you with-in the first year or allready has and feels guilty as shit Reason why she wont talk to you and crys at night just my opion