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help me on my GF issue :(

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by william n, Jan 12, 2009.

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what should i do according to u?

  1. just forget her n move on.. there are many fishes in the sea..

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  2. try talking to her or something..

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  3. i have a black had idea! read my reply!

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  1. william n

    william n BANNED BANNED

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    hey..

    i wanted to ask u guys what u would have done in my situ for quite long..

    here goes.. from the vry start.. i'll try to make it as small as possible.. i can write a book if i wanna

    i liked a girl.. n well i started talking to her.. n before i even realized it we were talking all day n night.. n we loved talking to each other n stuff..

    i asked her if she would like to be with me.. she initially said no.. but then after 3 months agreed... she is a super hot n super intelligent type of girl... the rare kinds... we were perfect...

    But she had a problem of not being able to take decisions.. she does not take any decision on her own.. n that was her biggest regret.. n she can be influenced very fast... ie.. she thinks bout stuff too much!

    it went ok for 8-9 months...

    then we found out that the semester in which we met n stuff her percentage went down n she was devastated n her parents were too!

    she stopped talking coz a guy who liked her told her that she should not talk to me if her carrier is important to her.. n stuff like that...

    i tried talking to her but she was not ready to... after 15 days... i was desperate.. i loved her a lot.. n stuff... i made a mistake.. i told her i cant live without her n stuff... i said talk to me.. n atleast dump me properly if u wanna... n she said she cant face me n stuff...

    n well BIG SHIT... the guy told her that the best way to get rid of me is to do something big...

    n she went to the police n filed a complaint saying i mentally haress her... n then i had a fight with that guy in front of her... she had a accident d next day coz she was lost n stuff...

    nyways.. i dint talk to her for 10 days n she called n told me everything..

    we were ok for a week n then again she stopped talking.. n this time i dint try talking to her..

    i msg's her sometimes... max of 5-6 in 10 days... n she went to the police "AGAIN"

    i was super angry after that... i dint even msg again..

    her frnd told me... she did that so that i can think she is bad n can get over her...

    she stopped talking to the other guy..

    its been 3 months now.. she had removed me from her frnd lists then... she was online waiting for me to ping her 2ice in 3 months.. she waited for 2 hours.. but i wanted her to apologize.. she dint.. she was only avl 2ice.. she is normally invisible..

    i have not msg's or anything since...

    her frnd told me she cries a lot... n misses me a lot... but she does not wanna talk coz of her parents n stuff...

    now i want her back but i cant talk coz i want her to apologize... which i feel even if she wants to she is scared she will screw up her carrier...

    i dont knw what to do... tell me what would u have done...

    we love each other like crazy.. but the circumstances are just going crazy... my frnd says its better to just forget n move on n stuff... it was just not meant to be... tell me what u think :(
     
  2. unknownn

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    if you want to get her back make her nasty.
    Show her that you are also having fun without her and that you are also having fun with other girls.....I guarantee you if she still feels something to you she will get nasty and will show it to you
     
  3. DrJekyll

    DrJekyll Senior Member Premium Member

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    1 time with the police would be enough for me, drop it, she is nothing but trouble. if she is that easily swayed when a player goes after her she will sleep with em.

    Drop her quick.
     
  4. lewi

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    studying english.... urrrrrrrmmmmm LOL

    You think 3 months or whatever amount of time is bad... i aint talked to my ex for like just over a year now. Think about her now and again but fuck it move on with your life... and she and you are obviously too young if her parents are like that.

    Young love never lasts.... so just move on
     
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    crashed Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    Write her a letter, and hope it isn't returned to sender, with address unknown
     
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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzw-n6N64Ro
     
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    like forget her n stuff. she called the cops on u n stuff.. like... are you dumb. she sounds like a bitch n stuff.
     
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  8. bizkiller

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    yeah.. i had a hard time reading your post...

    but i had a similar situation as yours in the past..

    now i think about it.. i'm a stupid for not moving on quick..

    move on...

    there are lots of girls in the world..
     
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    watch man transformation from david de angelo
     
  10. emusketeer

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    I know how you feel kid ;-) but,

    Comon dude ..be a Man!

    Everything you mentioned in post are not YOUR problems. Its hers. Let her deal with them. And she hates you to help her. Though I do feel sorry for your to miss her, I do want to congratulate you ..you now have unlimited access to unlimited hotties. Also, realize that true beauty comes from within :)

    And remember, The world is hugely populated. there are more super hot n super intelligent, rare kinda women than you think you know.
     
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  12. xvoidx

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    Man there seems to be alot of this girlfriend/wife shit going around. Seriously though you guys need to realize that there is an ABUNDANCE on women in the world. Forget her man. Move on and find a better looking one. Get rich. That'll help you out.

    Maybe you need to take a trip to vegas. That'll help you forget all about her. Grab a nice cigar and a glass of walker and play some poker. Thats what I did when one my girlfriend left me 3 years ago. It took a whole 12 hours to completly forget about her. lol. and we were together for about 2 years.

    Seriously though. I'm really not trying to be mean and I trully hope you start feeling better about all of this. You just need to realize that there are so many more better things in life than some piece you were getting with man. If you live your life letting women have this much of an effect on you they will be your downfall.
     
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    Just forget her kiddo. There's literally hundreds of millions of other hot girls waiting for you to bang them. Go get 'em!
     
  14. pdaguy9

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    This is a computer. Not a cell phone. Stop texting on this forum.
     
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  15. singa

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    First, throw away that love for her...

    Make she cry more than you do...

    Intentionally let her friend see your video having sex with other girls, a nice threesome maybe? :D
    Believe me, her friend will tell her even if you beg the friend not to tell her...

    She will cry even more, and when she try to talk to you, file a police report... ;)

    When she try to message you, go to doctor, psico doctor, and pretend to be crazy, and again file a police report, ask for a court order that she must not come nearer than 1KM radius from you...

    Oh yeh, if you don't want to take above step, here's another one...

    Find good witch doctor, buy a nice love potion, buzz her, meet her and let her drink it.
    She will be so crazy over you even her parent can't change her decission.

    Not this one?

    Buy a pestisid.
    The stronger the better,
    then helps poor farmer to work and helps keep the pest away,
    tiredness keep you away from thinkin of her?
    What?
    Are you thinking I'm going to ask you drink it? :D

    Not the above?

    Then don't ask us here...
    You know what you want, buzz her, meet her, kiss her, forgive her, and make love with her...

    And don't forget...

    Learn English... There are so much beautiful sonnet that makes a girl heart melt like a hot chocolate... ;)
     
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    grow some balls and move on or you will be regretting this later
     
  17. bsmokey

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    I would get as far away from her as possible! She's a nut. Do you really want to be with someone who is so weak minded?? You are ALWAYS going to be fighting with her when someone else tells her to do something that you dont agree with.

    My advice is to definitely forget that she exists. Plus, you seem really young. You really need to focus on school, at least until you graduate. There are tons of girls out there. You will find one that is right for you, just be patient. And give it a few years!!!
     
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    Dude, I don't mean to sound rude, but you're literally trying to clean up a train wreck. When a chick goes to the police, it is definitely time to move on.
     
  19. dontcallmebuzz

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    it's too much drama dude- she won't really change and keep dragging you thru crap like this (voice of experience-i learned the hard way)

    walk away and move on
     
  20. th3pwn4grer

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    yah i got a couple black hat ideas...so read my reply...

    1. lern 2 spel.

    2. Grab those 2 things in between your legs that cling and repeat after me: "I AM A MAN!".

    3. If this chick is so easily influenced, why are you not trying to persuade her to your side. BTW, more desperation equals more rejection. So that won't help you.

    4. This case is no longer worth it as she has already filed 2 popo reports. In my book, 1 report is way over the line (my line would have been drawn at the cat and mouse game).

    5. Take your foot and insert it into the troublemaker's cornhole. Bam! Easiest $150 I know how to make...:cool:

    Seriously, if this chick is playing around with you THAT much, that is your que to gtfo.