Help me, I'm facing a horrible self-esteem problem
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erickishere
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keep working out, trust me. The gym will definitely boost your confidence and you will succeed. Once you see some gains and you loss some weight no doubt you'll gain confidence
bertbaby
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As others have said action and execution is the key to your body image and your work. Start by taking a ten minute walk, get some daily exercise and you'll be surprised at the results physically and mentally. I can't imagine getting through the work week without exercise. Blood flowing to your brain will provide a lot of answers and inspiration.
Stop thinking too much, just do it. The problem is that you think too much about your problem. Keep your mind busy all the time and start working hardcore to solve your problem. Just think about how much time you think about this shit. Stop it. Never doubt yourself. Results won't come overnight but they will come!, and maybe next year you will be on a beautiful island just checking how much money you make each day just by doing nothing.
I was in your position 1 year ago. Penguin hit all my sites and 3 days later the company that was supposed to pay my 3 months commission(BidRivals fuck you), $21k, went bankrupt. A reminder to never keep your eggs in one basket and if you are getting delayed with the payments redirect your traffic someplace else ASAP. I had no money saved so I had to start all over again not to mention that I was getting fat. You know what I did? Sleep 5 hours, work 15 hours, 1 hour jogging, 3 hours eat/shower etc. Saturday/Sunday OFF. A few months later I lost the fat and I was making money again. Simple as that. It was hard but I was 100% confident that I will succeed all the time. Did I? Yes. Can you? YES! Nothing should stand in your way.
I was in your position 1 year ago. Penguin hit all my sites and 3 days later the company that was supposed to pay my 3 months commission(BidRivals fuck you), $21k, went bankrupt. A reminder to never keep your eggs in one basket and if you are getting delayed with the payments redirect your traffic someplace else ASAP. I had no money saved so I had to start all over again not to mention that I was getting fat. You know what I did? Sleep 5 hours, work 15 hours, 1 hour jogging, 3 hours eat/shower etc. Saturday/Sunday OFF. A few months later I lost the fat and I was making money again. Simple as that. It was hard but I was 100% confident that I will succeed all the time. Did I? Yes. Can you? YES! Nothing should stand in your way.
Motivational words brother, that's why I love BHW members, I can always find help here. I'll follow your advice, sleep less, work more, dream bigger, succeed faster.
There seems to be some disparity between people suggesting to just put all doubts aside and plunge and those advocating reflection. Based on what the OP said I would suggest the latter. Before they can be really motivated to do something most people need to do some soul searching first to make sure that this path is really in alignment with your fundamental values and self-image. If you don't do this first (and it can be the hardest part), then you're bound to have self-doubt later on.
