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Guy Blackmailing my GF, What to do ?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by bullseye123, May 14, 2011.

  1. bullseye123

    bullseye123 Regular Member

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    Ok , here is the story My Girlfriend came to me this morning Crying.

    Very shocked I asked here what is happening, and she said she have something to tell me but did not want me to get upset.

    Im like you know you can tell me anything.

    After she calmed down the following was explained to me.

    In 2009 before I knew here she said a very good lady friend of here started a modeling agency and asked if some of here friends can pose for some pictures.

    All of them had a small get together and had a underwear photo shoot.

    Pretty Kinky hey.... ???!!! ;-) lol

    Ok so here is the problem apparently these emails were send to somebody, and it was the wrong email account.

    No a Guy for the past few months is Blackmailing here. He is like I will post the pictures on something like people.com if you don't get a camera you will see what I do. and she deleted the emails, don't know why!!! but there is one email that I have seen just now Reading this :

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    " you are a whore!!!!

    This is the last take!!!

    1. you will call me sir
    2.you will do as i say
    3. you will like it
    4.if i say jump , you say fuck

    why? because you thought i was joking

    you have one chance to fix it

    if i say take a photo you will take a photo, if i say take a naked photo you will take a naked photo

    there is a new profile on person.com , the profile name is "sexycharne", on sunday it will become "sexycharne" with a shaven pussy in a white panty, the next profile will be a facebook profile with your friends

    are you going to ignore me????? "

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    You don't know how fucking bad Id Like to get hold of this fucker.

    Anyway is there anything I can Do about this ??


    She is really worried, and I can't understand why she did not tell me this sooner.

    The name of the Guy is : From: Matthew Diggins <matthew.diggins@live.com>


    That includes his email account.

    He is apparently from Denmark.

    His skype name is matthewdiggins .


    Anybody Please give me some advise. Thank You. !!!!
     
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    Report a cyber-crime and let the proper authorities and then the inmates take care of his pervert imagination. Be persistent and get it reported and follow up.
     
  3. charlie3

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    Wow I can't really give advice because I don't have any, but can I just say that guy is a dick! I'm sure with all the people here on BHW he will get what he deserves.

    Fuck him, but I hope it works out for you and your girlfriend.

    Sorry for the profane language :D
     
  4. pavan

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    deleted mails must be available in trash folder
    you can restore them
    and secondly you can get his IP from email headers
    it might help
     
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  5. tymillz

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    Send me the pics and I will try to figure something out for you, asap.
     
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  6. ppyordanov

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    Damm, this guy is pretty sick. I hope you overcome this soon, my friend.
     
  7. bullseye123

    bullseye123 Regular Member

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    Here is the email header :

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    From Matthew Diggins Sat May 14 09:09:22 2011
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    How do I report this as Cyber Crime is there a certain website, as I have found a couple of them but most of them looks like site's that protect only Intellectual Property.
     
  8. bullseye123

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    I will still investigate that, But I mean I don't think she would have ever met the guy as he is in Denmark, we are in South Africa.

    Also Im not sure how the hell did they get those pictures out there.

    Or maybe it is completely nude pictures ?

    mmmm.... But still that sick fuck better not continue with what he is doing as I will fly to denmark and Beat the living shit out of him. Really.

    I don't care if he share's the pictures or not, just the way he is talking to here, that means he is talking like that to many other woman. and probably blackmailing hundreds of other women. Hi maybe has a wife locked in a cage at home, or 10 young chicks picked up from the street.

     
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    M1ndfluX Senior Member

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    Did you check G?

    Code:
    http://www.google.com/#hl=en&sugexp=gsishc&xhr=t&q=matthew+diggins+tucson&cp=1&pf=p&sclient=psy&source=hp&aq=0v&aqi=&aql=f&oq=%22matthew+diggins%22&pbx=1&fp=143c3ea323a465a8
    Check out if the writing style etc is the same and do some investigation.

    If it matches take your car with some friends and pay him a visit.
     
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    M1ndfluX Senior Member

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    Woops, missed that :D
     
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    You'd be surprised how people get ahold of things. I ran into a very similar situation recently with my little cousin. She had semi-nude and nude pictures of herself while she was body building as progress shots. Someone hacked her e-mail and took the photos after she e-mailed them to herself from her phone (she didn't have her data cable at the time)!

    Very similar to your GF, she was asked to take pictures of herself in certain positions (that the guy specified) and they wouldn't "distribute" the photos. In this case, he had her entire address book that he could've sent the photos to so it was looking very bad.

    In her case, she was able to ignore him (even after he sent his "final" threat) and he seemed to back down. She never responded to his e-mails or threats. However, we were able to open up a police investigation since the guy was in the USA.

    It seems like most times if a person just doesn't answer at all, they will get bored and figure you don't check your e-mail and don't even know what's going on. Challenge lost. However, at least your girlfriend only seems to have underwear shots and not nudes? I mean, underwear shots are pretty common for almost all models and it shouldn't be that incriminating depending on the nature of the photoshoot. In reality, it's not much different than having shots of yourself in a swimsuit.
     
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    Go to any local police station and tell them you want to report a very serious cyber crime... try to meet the top officer for your locality.

    They know what to do next.


    He may never have met her ever. He may just be a 12-year cyber punk who has seen lots of porn before and unfortunately got some details about your GF's past life... whatever. Get on top of him and let him go inside at least for a week (he can get a lot more time to spend inside though)... he will never be able to sit properly in front of his PC for a long long time. But take immediate ACTION and see that he is found.
     
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    There, contact the isp provider and see if you can get a trace. If you're serious about this, you can hire a legal firm to get a court order to trace this.
     
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    hold a sec

    you said she was doing a photo shoot and that too in underwears

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    All of them had a small get together and had a underwear photo shoot. 
    Firstly there shouldn't be any nude pics unless your gf is hiding something

    Secondly they took the pictures which they wanted to publish for a modeling agency so what's the problem if that guy publishes them on net?!

    anyway they will be coming to facebook sooner or later

    whatever she did she was aware of the consequences
    consequences are same just through different source
    she shouldn't be worried that much

    I guess your gf is hiding something
    and don't rely on the location of that guy because it can be a virtual relationship or just for fun

    however its just an doubt
     
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    He may be living in your neighborhood too. Some punk who has a bad eye on your GF, whatever. Get him nabbed before he uploads any material he may have -- may be he is just bluffing, but get him at once. You have sufficient material to have the proper authorities catch him and send him on the way. Then just wait till he is out and give him some time before you put him in your workshop. Break his nose or whatever so bad that even the scrap dealer would not give it a second look.
     
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    shes lying otherwise she wouldn't delete the emails, there's more to this story..
    Maybe a love child?
     
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    If she ask money from you, then it's a lie.
     
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    some stupid thing is there find it deeply
     
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    If he uploads the photos on FB or people.com contact the admins and they will remove them. Also I cant see why she is SO worried about underwaer photos. Lots of girls are uploading those on their FB profiles and other places. But ye this guys a dick and I understand why you're mad at him, I would be too. He deserves a good beating.
     
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    You can find him here:
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    http://www.google.com/search?q=matthew.diggins%40live.com&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a
    From a pdf link in that search, I got his phone (Assuming that he is the same person):
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    MATTHEW DIGGINS 520‐624‐1744
    
    ref.:
    www.tucsonaz.gov/water/docs/testers_list.pdf
    
    
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    May be this is his office/home.

    OK, I will admit that I may be totally off the wanted person, so let authorities handle this.

    You may find more such details now from that search.

    If I find anything more on him, I will post it here. But make sure that this is the same man and don't take law in your hands. Let it be handled only by proper authorities. They can zero onto him within minutes.
     
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