Giving up? Feeling that stuff wont work? How do you...

I think the main reason why I have not made big money quick is due to the fact that I cannot and will not lie to people.. I know what most blackhatters will say "Oh if you can't lie or bend the truth then IM is not for you"..

I disagree.. I believe with honesty and hard work loads of money can be earned through IM using all kinds of techniques.. the guilt and religion holds me back from scamming people to be honest.. but yeah dcgaming.. you'll get far bro I know it!.. just grind out the hours and make a few bucks and in a day or two you will be smiling and full of motivation.
 
Offline is the easiest thing if you r in usa uk ca or au, or else pure IM is not tht fast, i m in usa but not motivated enough n not native English speaker, so i am not good at telemarketing, but have few clients n not trying to hard to get new clients but i should.
 
And there's another thing you should think about. Try to feel positive most of your time. If you feel positive you have positive thoughts. If you feel negative you have automatically negative thoughts. Negative thoughts are not the thing you want.

You must become OBSESSED by your dream. I personally think / imagine about 24/7 new lamborghini, new house, swimming pool etc. Just everywhere - when i'm driving, when i'm sitting on the toilet, when i'm eating.

I can't do otherwise, cause I really(!!!) want it. And the result is : I am FULL of ideas. Really. I get thousands of ideas everyday. The only thing i have is to test my ideas and if they work - scale them up. I really believe i will achieve my goal and this is the reason why my motivation will never end.

Think about it
 
I started a thread similar to yours recently when i felt down after my sites dropped in rankings. I got some good advice and its simple really.
Learn from your mistakes, think positive, have a goal, dont try and do too many things at the same time and most importantly, as has been said earlier, treat it like a job and be disciplined, then you WILL find a way to make money by IM.
 
I need to stress out one thing that I believe will help you:

The tread "Never Give Up". You've probably read it already, if you haven't Do, it's a sticky, easy to find.

The point there isn't how to succeed after you get a head start, it's how to struggle to get where you want to be when there is no reason to think you will ever get there.

That's what makes winners, believing, succeeding where people quit. 5% of people who try succeed in IM. Why is that? It's because most people, when they are in your position, they lose hope, they lose self confidence and think they will never make it. The people that pass this barrier are successful because they dont see their short term failure as an obstacle but rather an indicator that they are either doing something wrong or not enough.

First see if you are doing it enough, over do it, do it so much it's ridiculos! If it doesn't get you where you want, change it a bit, tweak it until you get what you think would work, and go back to overdoing it again.

Work more, write more articles, do more high quality backlinks...... If you think you are doing something wrong, PROVE that it's wrong to the point where you know 100% that something is wrong. Chances are you will not reach this stage as all you need to do is work more, be more dedicated. By trying to prove it's wrong, you will either be right (and you need to tweak) or wrong (and you will reach your goal).

Hope this helps your mindset
 
A couple of things that always motivate:

1. Making your first Buck online.. It gives you a confidence that you can really do it. I remmeber how happy I was when I started making $1/day in my adsense.. I conquered $200/day 2 months back :D

2. Stay among people who tell you how good you are rather than pointing the issues you have.. cause honestly who doesnt have issues.

3. When I was opening my own company, I knew squat :D. Can you beat that opening an internet marketing company where you have a monthly expense of more than 2K without even knowing anything(apart from just 1 month research). What kept me going was people who believed in me and a little help from my cousin.
Almost everyone I shared my plans with said I am going to succeed big time.. and Guess what in last 24 hours I have made 1K :).

Positive attitude brother, just stay positive.. listen to good music.. Plan , experience even if you make a mistake.. learn from it and keep moving on..

Making money online is the simplest way of making money.. anybody who puts in a couple of months and is hard working will get through to riches

Personally let me know if I could help you with anything at all.. I am here for any advice that you may need.

All the very best..

To your success :)
 
Ah yeah motivation + trust in your self = success!

But if you're missing one of these "internal" factors you can still create it externally.

Years ago when I first went on a diet because I was fat and felt miserable (I'm a girl so give me some credit :o ) I decided I was going to make it. Enough was enough.

A few weeks went by and I didn't look any better so I started to get frustrated and was almost gave up on it all.

And then I lost my first pound - was not really much and I busted my @ss trying to make it (was doing it all the wrong way) but it was a progress.

So I duplicated what I did and lost 2 the following week.

Got all excited cause of my success and tweaked the program a little. Learned, experimented, asked questions and found a way to lose 3 a week.

At this point I was SO motivated I knew I can't fail.

Years later I'm a personal trainer and an (ex) gym owner and I don't have to think about it any more. I have no need to get motivated (externally or internally) to work out or eat healthy, it's just who I am and a part of me.

It comes natural without thinking about it like breathing.

Same thing with making money - when you make you very first dollar on-line get excited over it. It's one more then you had yesterday.

There are "wrong" ways to make money online too, well not wrong but hard. And they will help you make more the easy way.

Experiment, ask questions and fail a million times - this is what's going to make you successful in the long run.

You most likely won't have a lucky break but learn it on your own and this will make you invincible - knowing you made it on your own and know what it takes to make it.

You'll have the know - how and this is gold.

Like you I still didn't reach my IM goals but I'm one step closer ever day and making much more then I did a few months ago. And if I could tell you all my mistakes so far you'd be laughing all day :)

Good luck to you... but then again, luck has nothing to do with it, does it ;)
 
I just remembered an awesome quote I think you'll like:

"It took me 1 year to create a million dollar company.
It took me 33 years to start believing I can do it."

 
BTW, OP, give up now. Get a job flipping burgers or selling burritos. Problem solved.
 
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