Give Leith Some LOOOOVEE Advice!

Leith said:

Sorry I couldn't make it work, I really tried. I guess this mistake is a learning experience for me. Im not the usual guy that makes mistakes but I will definitely learn from this one.

Click to expand...

If I learned one thing in life is that there 's no such thing as failure - only practicing for success So, have fun with life!

Leith said:

LOL. I just replied saying,

"fine.. friends... with benefits?"

Let's see what she says. After her reply (which I ALREADY know is gonna be "no").. Im just to simply ignore her for a week or 2.

Click to expand...

That was really stupid. If a girl asks you to be friends don't get angry or at least don't show it to her, that's the worst thing you can do. I can't tell, no one can, but I've got a feeling that if you kept it cool and stayed friends but kept your distance from her, not totally ignoring her but also not staying up her bum, within a few weeks she could be yours without any effort. Some girls like to test guys and I've got a feeling all of this just went way too fast, especially if you expressed your feelings to her and she decided to cross you out. She either thought that you were a player or she thought if I can get him this easily then do I really need him? Hence her attraction for you disappeared, if it was there in the first place. You should have kept it cool when you two went out, then again who knows, it's hard to tell what "they" think, feel, want. Hahaha better luck next time.

Hey Leith. It would be good if you could make friends with her friends. If you could fit in well in her social circle, that would help make things more comfortable for the both of you. Also, if the chemistry is not right then it is just not going to work no matter what you say. So don't worry about what you say. If it is not right, it is not right. But when it is right it will be effortless. Love should flow smoothly.

You even kissed her and she didn't even feel uncomfortable or became hesitant.
After that she said she just wants you to be a friend? May be she thought you
thinking long term... and she didn't want it.
Anyway just keep your cool and have fun. If she asks what you
meant by your last reply.. just say you were just kind of not in good mood.

Keep going.. chill out and make her excited when being with you.
After being little closer I think she'll even go to your room for whatever
good excuse you make. Well from there you should be able to
finish the deal.

Best of luck.
Just keep going.

Leith said:

LOL. I just replied saying,

"fine.. friends... with benefits?"

Let's see what she says. After her reply (which I ALREADY know is gonna be "no").. Im just to simply ignore her for a week or 2.

Click to expand...

Dumb move. Really, really dumb.

10zen said:

You even kissed her and she didn't even feel uncomfortable or became hesitant.
After that she said she just wants you to be a friend? May be she thought you
thinking long term... and she didn't want it.
Anyway just keep your cool and have fun. If she asks what you
meant by your last reply.. just say you were just kind of not in good mood.

Keep going.. chill out and make her excited when being with you.
After being little closer I think she'll even go to your room for whatever
good excuse you make. Well from there you should be able to
finish the deal.

Best of luck.
Just keep going.

Click to expand...

Yeah, thanks for that. I'm not a love professional. I do make mistakes. She replied saying, "what?" and I managed to sly it out so okay I guess.

She just asked if we can be good friends instead. What to dooo?

Leith said:

She just asked if we can be good friends instead. What to dooo?

Click to expand...

Tell her you already have enough friends.


Trust me on this!

marusia said:

Tell her you already have enough friends.


Trust me on this!

Click to expand...

Alright - Il be closing this thread for now until anything else happens. Going to make my own movements from today onwards. Thanks for the help.