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Thanks for that. Il wait one day and then ask her out in 2-3 days time.
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Thanks for that. Il wait one day and then ask her out in 2-3 days time.
daserpent
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Man, you were so close to becoming a good friend of hers. She was so interested in you, she even asked you to show her your abs dude! (she still is, but the god thing is preventing her from talking to u now).
Well, since you took the THE MAN-angle , you need to stick to what you said and hangout with the other girls. Let her know that YOUR life doesn't stop if she doesn't talk to you. Have fun with all the other girls but do NOT ignore her completely. Be courteous and act like a gentle man at every opportunity you get.
Btw, more respect to jazzc. Awesome posts dude!
Well, since you took the THE MAN-angle , you need to stick to what you said and hangout with the other girls. Let her know that YOUR life doesn't stop if she doesn't talk to you. Have fun with all the other girls but do NOT ignore her completely. Be courteous and act like a gentle man at every opportunity you get.
Btw, more respect to jazzc. Awesome posts dude!
partymarty4870
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I guess by the length of this thread you ain't got laid yet Leith
portugalkix
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You didn't act like an Alpha. Never ask her something (number) after is pissed off. Also, cuz he is religious is something good because you have a big subject to talk about (no serious, but still good). Just talk with her, ask about relg, why she thinks in God and so on. After that, don't say it direct that you still don't believe in God. You should read some books about people. Tell her what she wants to hear and everything will be simple.
ShadeDream
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It's a he? So Leith is gay? lol
Yes, she will dump him faster than he can fap.
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UPDATE:
Okay, fuck it. I am now gonna literally forget about this chick and move on.
Went to Reg today, sat next to her, said hi, nothing back from her.
Went to Maths and again everything was quiet. I did speak to a ton of other girls in my other subjects/classes.
Lunchtime came and we have a "Pond area" in our school. This is basically a chilling out area with a few sofas and you can just chill out. I was there and then someone pushed her onto me. (One of her mates). This was an awkward situation. I caught her and then like kinda hugged her at the same time. She then sat next to me and started texting. (Yet her phone was "broken" the day before).
That was it. Now guys.. all you have to tell me is if I should carry on or fuck it. I am 99% sure that she is pissed at me and she don't want to talk to me.
I guess it's over - Jazz - I guess you were right
Okay, fuck it. I am now gonna literally forget about this chick and move on.
Went to Reg today, sat next to her, said hi, nothing back from her.
Went to Maths and again everything was quiet. I did speak to a ton of other girls in my other subjects/classes.
Lunchtime came and we have a "Pond area" in our school. This is basically a chilling out area with a few sofas and you can just chill out. I was there and then someone pushed her onto me. (One of her mates). This was an awkward situation. I caught her and then like kinda hugged her at the same time. She then sat next to me and started texting. (Yet her phone was "broken" the day before).
That was it. Now guys.. all you have to tell me is if I should carry on or fuck it. I am 99% sure that she is pissed at me and she don't want to talk to me.
I guess it's over - Jazz - I guess you were right
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10zen
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Say, "let's talk when you cool down" to her. You want to have fun with her not
have headache from her. If she ever wants to talk.. great, if not her loss, you
would've given her some amazing experience
Go out have fun.. chill out with other girls but yeah don't forget to grab any opportunity
to stand out in positive ways. Become someone amazing in your class, in your college
like here in BHW. Soon you will be having a great time while that girl will be holding a phone
in her hand staring at you...
have headache from her. If she ever wants to talk.. great, if not her loss, you
would've given her some amazing experience
Go out have fun.. chill out with other girls but yeah don't forget to grab any opportunity
to stand out in positive ways. Become someone amazing in your class, in your college
like here in BHW. Soon you will be having a great time while that girl will be holding a phone
in her hand staring at you...
IamBlackhatter
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Now this is confusing me why her mates pushed her onto you if she doesn't speaks to you ???? Anyway you are lucky enough to hug her haha...
cromano923
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Tell her that you want to see her whispering eye. I kid, I kid.
Invite her somewhere, but be decisive. Being new gives you all of the ice breaker that you need. Getting to know her and scoring her number will be the easy part, the challenge is going to be shifting gears to let her know your intentions could be more than friendship. Grow a pair - I know you have them. It all comes down to confidence and after you break the ice, you'll laugh at yourself for how nervous you were.
Invite her somewhere, but be decisive. Being new gives you all of the ice breaker that you need. Getting to know her and scoring her number will be the easy part, the challenge is going to be shifting gears to let her know your intentions could be more than friendship. Grow a pair - I know you have them. It all comes down to confidence and after you break the ice, you'll laugh at yourself for how nervous you were.
ja1myn
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To the original post as I don't have time to read pages and pages of replies...
Women like to have a challenge posed to them when they are choosing a guy. If she's hot and knows it, she is probably looking for a guy who can meet her needs but not get attached too fast. Due to this, you need to appear as though you aren't trying so hard. I would wait a bit and just make yourself noticeable to her, but don't talk to her until mid-semester. Just make sure you make a point to sit near her, but only offer help/conversation if she initiates.
I did this "trick" with a girl who was in my Nutrition class and man did it work out. She actually approached me and said something like "hey, I've seen you around and was wondering if you wanted to study together in the library sometime."
I think women like to act like they're all that and make men feel like they're simply invisible to them, when in reality it's a lot different in their minds.
Good luck.
Women like to have a challenge posed to them when they are choosing a guy. If she's hot and knows it, she is probably looking for a guy who can meet her needs but not get attached too fast. Due to this, you need to appear as though you aren't trying so hard. I would wait a bit and just make yourself noticeable to her, but don't talk to her until mid-semester. Just make sure you make a point to sit near her, but only offer help/conversation if she initiates.
I did this "trick" with a girl who was in my Nutrition class and man did it work out. She actually approached me and said something like "hey, I've seen you around and was wondering if you wanted to study together in the library sometime."
I think women like to act like they're all that and make men feel like they're simply invisible to them, when in reality it's a lot different in their minds.
Good luck.
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Say, "let's talk when you cool down" to her. You want to have fun with her not
have headache from her. If she ever wants to talk.. great, if not her loss, you
would've given her some amazing experience
Go out have fun.. chill out with other girls but yeah don't forget to grab any opportunity
to stand out in positive ways. Become someone amazing in your class, in your college
like here in BHW. Soon you will be having a great time while that girl will be holding a phone
in her hand staring at you...
Thanks for your post man, appreciate it.
ShadeDream
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Lmao.
Dude, I think you're delving into this whole thing too much and all of these posts are making it worse. You should focus on being yourself and being funny because when/if it finally comes to some sort of an interaction between you two, you'll end up coming back here because you won't know what to do, you'll be lost, or you'll mess up. To be honest you got to start thinking for yourself, analyze the thread and make up your own mind, if you can't then you might as well say bye bye to her because she's probably not the type of girl that will hold your hand into a relationship, not sure if that makes sense but hope you get the point.
As some have mentioned, you'll end up devaluing yourself through the mistakes you make if you don't get a grip. When she sat next to you and started texting you should have said something along the lines of "Hey, I thought your phone was broken?". If she ignores you or makes another excuse just make some more questions up but don't quit as soon as she makes an excuse, this will show her that you're not confident at all. If you say something stupid, twist it in your own favor, if you can't don't worry, just don't act weird or let silence take over otherwise she'll think your a loser. I know it's easy to say all of this and harder to actually do but if you fuck up treat it as an experience towards a brighter future. I've learned that if you keep asking other people what to do you'll get nowhere in life and you'll always end up asking other people. So your best bet is to analyze what you've been told in this thread and do your own thing. If I were you, I would probably try and ask her out for a coffee or a walk to the park or something like that to start fresh. Be like "Hey I'm going for a coffee, I know we didn't get along too well at first but it would be nice to get to know you better, wanna come with me?". That might not be the best example but you'll have to improvise depending on the situation. Remember never is a good time to ask, so if you're going to ask ask as soon as you see her again because the longer you delay it the lower your success rate will be. Just my thoughts.
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<3 much love for the post man, thanks!
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Alright guys, just an update. I got a message from her just now (she must have got my number from her mates).
She said hey, and I said hey back. I asked her if we could just start from scratch and just chill out at school like before. Waiting for her reply.
I'm going to ask her in a bit if she wants to go Starbucks later on on Monday or even tomorrow, and just chill out. I'm going to make the move and ask her tomorrow, I simply cannot fuck affording to wait. Im going to be straight up today.
She said hey, and I said hey back. I asked her if we could just start from scratch and just chill out at school like before. Waiting for her reply.
I'm going to ask her in a bit if she wants to go Starbucks later on on Monday or even tomorrow, and just chill out. I'm going to make the move and ask her tomorrow, I simply cannot fuck affording to wait. Im going to be straight up today.
walandio
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I read some of your thread about making money online dude.. And i can say that you are one of the best internet marketer in bhw..
I know you can get this girl dude.. Internet Marketing is similar to getting girls..
you need fresh ideas, method, twists, patience, actions, investments, time to get the girl you want.
Bhw is also a good source for this.. lol..
P.s. it's much better if you post the pic of your girl here.. so everyone can give a more precise advice.. But if that's not okay with you.. no worries..
I know you can get this girl dude.. Internet Marketing is similar to getting girls..
you need fresh ideas, method, twists, patience, actions, investments, time to get the girl you want.
Bhw is also a good source for this.. lol..
P.s. it's much better if you post the pic of your girl here.. so everyone can give a more precise advice.. But if that's not okay with you.. no worries..
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Thanks man, and no way. I won't post a pic of her without her approval, and I would only do that once things are going well with us 2.
shaddelick
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Hmmmmm :thinking: i dont think you will... i have a feeling you wont stop till you get it :smileysex
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