Give Leith Some LOOOOVEE Advice!

I dont see why everyone is so hell bent about falling in love or getting into a relationship. I rather friends with benefits or special friends. In relationships are full of problems; financial, infidelity, time, energy. I would start with friendship and take it from there

Leith said:

Hey mate, I don't have a Facebook ATM. My old acc got hacked and violated big time so I'm staying away.

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Just ask for her number then, or give her yours. If she texts you then you know she is interested, it already sounds like she is

Alot of shit happened. Will report back in a few hours!

Shit doesn't sound good

TODAYS UPATE:

Okay, so today I walked into college and just had the drive and determination to get a nice conversation going. Sat next to her, said hello and so on. She didn't really seem to be in the mood for talking. We then went to Maths and she decided to sit next to me (whoop), but then I found out why.

She asked me why I don't believe in God. Now like you guys said - I should be honest and just stick to what I think. So I literally gave her many points on why there is no God, and so on. At the end, I could tell she got a bit pissed off. I guess she is extremely, really religious. We had break during Maths and she moved to another table.

That was it. Next lesson was Computing and she was not in my class. I was a bit upset, and then randomly these 2 chicks from next to me starting talking to me. I managed to get a nice conversation going and I got one of the girls numbers. However, I was still focussed on getting the main girls number.

After school, I met her and asked for he number > and she said her phone is broken > which I know for a fact is a complete lie and she was texting through Reg, and Maths. So now I probably just got rejected, asking for her number. I'm not upset or anything but I really don't know if this is any worth continuing. I guess I should move on to the other girls I spoke to today? They weren't as hot, but who cares about looks. It's the personality / and just the attitude which matters to me.

However, at the same time, my guts telling me to talk to the main girl again tomorrow. HMMMM

Leith show off tmrw

Now it 's time to let her cool off for a while and display value. Hang around with other girls, in a way she can see you.

Why did you have to argue religion with her? Are you a preacher? :nap:

Stick to your point, but don't argue. You are not going to convince her anyway (she wouldn't convince you either). The reason she asked was so that you could give her an excuse she could use to her friends/family when they 'd accuse her for being with an atheist.

"I don't believe to God, no one show me how or why"

big fat no on being friends first. With hot chicks, guy friends typically end up in the "friendzone". Go for the kill FIRST then if there's nothing there sure why not be her friend.

Maybe you'll get to see her naked eventually.

jazzc said:

Now it 's time to let her cool off for a while and display value. Hang around with other girls, in a way she can see you.

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that would be great for now...

jazzc said:

Now it 's time to let her cool off for a while and display value. Hang around with other girls, in a way she can see you.

Why did you have to argue religion with her? Are you a preacher? :nap:

Stick to your point, but don't argue. You are not going to convince her anyway (she wouldn't convince you either). The reason she asked was so that you could give her an excuse she could use to her friends/family when they 'd accuse her for being with an atheist.

"I don't believe to God, no one show me how or why"

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Jazz - I don't know you in real life but you are one great guy. Thanks for your help throughout this and yeah, Il keep it low and stay away from her until she comes to me.

Time to have some fun with other girls

And yeah, I only argued because I thought this may have worked. She kept bringing the topic regarding religion so I just thought Il tell her everything about why I don't believe in God. Never thought about the other part you just mentioned.

Thanks bro.

Do nothing. Stay an anonymous lover.

Beny

It looks like you blew it with the phone number. You don't ask a girl for her phone number after such drama loool. I think you should chill out and ignore her for a few days and see what happens.

ShadeDream said:

It looks like you blew it with the phone number. You don't ask a girl for her phone number after such drama loool. I think you should chill out and ignore her for a few days and see what happens.

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Yup, that is what Il be doing.

Why didn't you just say "I don't believe in God, that's all, don't worry about it", and then talk about something else. She sounds like she is either on her period or something/has a stick up her ass, OR you tried to give her a religion lecture a la Richard Dawkins.

Why do you need to go and say "ooh can I have your number?" Just go for hanging out and make the phone number a receipt, if you really need it. Nowhere did I say ask for her phone number. What are you going to do, jack off over the numbers? 344384394373232832832 . There is a random string of numbers just typed by myself. Do you find it arousing? Why do you want to get some digits when she is right in front of you.

You are failing fast, it's best to let it cool off for a few days. Failure is not a bad thing, I've had shitloads of failures with women. They helped me learn and I used those lessons to get the wins.

I haven't read any of the other posts because the thread is too big!

However, you dont want to hear this but you gotta make your move fast and talk to her before you get friend zoned. Theres no leaving that place. haha I should know, too many guys have gotten themselves in that place with me and I could never see them in another light because you just don't want to loose your guy friends - theyre so hard to come by!

Ask her out for a coffee, or a walk around campus, anything. Walk each other to classes. Find all the opportunities you can ( without looking creepy ) to have a conversation. And as the old saying goes, nothing can get you into a girls heart like a little laughter. Try to be as light hearted and humorous about things as you can, without pushing it.

And dont seem to available. Its a good idea to hang out with her, but let it be known you have other options. Nothing like a bit of that to get a girl thinking " Hmmm...maybe I should go for him before she does..." haha

From my experience, many really great girls with big G in front are strongly religious. What a pity...

Just go up to her and say:

"hi, i've been trying to come up with an openingsline for days now, but i can't find one that is smart, sexy and funny at the same time, so i just wanted to ask you if i can know your name" ...

And then just take it from there, be yourself, funny, not to pushy and you will be fine! A "no" answer you allready got right now, so it can't get worse!

Dams, i should have read the entire tread! Stupid! Anyway, i think you blew it ...

jb2008 said:

Why didn't you just say "I don't believe in God, that's all, don't worry about it", and then talk about something else. She sounds like she is either on her period or something/has a stick up her ass, OR you tried to give her a religion lecture a la Richard Dawkins.

Why do you need to go and say "ooh can I have your number?" Just go for hanging out and make the phone number a receipt, if you really need it. Nowhere did I say ask for her phone number. What are you going to do, jack off over the numbers? 344384394373232832832 . There is a random string of numbers just typed by myself. Do you find it arousing? Why do you want to get some digits when she is right in front of you.

You are failing fast, it's best to let it cool off for a few days. Failure is not a bad thing, I've had shitloads of failures with women. They helped me learn and I used those lessons to get the wins.

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Yeah, failures are a good thing man. I've been rejected before many times and I take those as an experience - I never cry about it but I really want this girl. Im going to keep it cool for a few days and see if she comes to me at any stage.

Gonna keep it low now for a bit. I really hope I haven't completely fucked up.

Give it up. Plenty of fish in the sea.

I think you should just ask her out and follow my plan exactly. If she resists then back off and try again. After 3 attempts at each step, just give it up.

When I start to think any particular girl is 'special' it's an indication that I'm not meeting enough girls. If you make a hotter girl your girlfriend, you will forget about this one girl, or if you don't forget you will laugh at your epic fail.

There is an old saying that goes "to dare is to do"... I think it is the motto of tottenham hotspur FC. Even if it's scary just go for it, and you wouldn't believe what you can get away with, because women want a guy who is decisive and can lead them. (But not lecture them like richard dawkins). Just go for the win.