Ken Ferrer
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- Mar 7, 2020
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thank you
Girlfriend
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monstersmallBro
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- Nov 14, 2020
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Girls are not needs they are wants.
dontfarm
Banned - shit list accumulation.
- Feb 6, 2019
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As they say in our country: the power of nine gloves. You need to sleep with nine girls in order to forget the one you were with. (Of course, these girls don't have to be ugly.) ou will feel better, you can safely develop and communicate with other girls. Just don't drink too much alcohol
Sheriff13
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- Apr 5, 2021
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Delete your ex off of all social media, any pictures, memories etc erase them all! delete her number or block them. You need to get rid of anything that will make you remember the times you spent together. It's not the be all end all trust me I've been through this. I stopped eating and felt so low but this is just a phase. You will soon realise and laugh about it when you meet someone better. Now no more feeling sorry for yourself, go out and get some!
Nash Commerce
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- Jun 29, 2020
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Get to 10k / month and work on your body.
you’ll be just fine boss.
you’ll be just fine boss.
Nash Commerce
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I second this big time.
kvvni
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I would follow @bartosimpsonio advices about relationships.
Do a fucking gangbang.
In general I have been in it since February but after 4,5 years. Painful, but not the end of the world. Meet new people, get drunk (not often), go out with your friends (even with ex friends), lift and run. You will be better bro!
Do a fucking gangbang.
In general I have been in it since February but after 4,5 years. Painful, but not the end of the world. Meet new people, get drunk (not often), go out with your friends (even with ex friends), lift and run. You will be better bro!
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Yeah
Gangbangs and sports.
Gangbangs and sports.
alias2002
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Sorry to hear about your story here. Though I didn't face this kind of issue yet. Yeah, it's definitely hurting someone to lose his/her dearest one. You can find out a new one now. I think it's a better option for you. Though totally depends on you. All the best!
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@Sheriff13 speaks gospel.
This is my proven technique
- No explanations, no conversations, no second chances. You owe her nothing more.
- Delete her from everything Social/Phone/Chat/Forums etc... - eliminate ANY contact FOREVER
- The relationship is dead, it ended for a reason. Fuck her. She had her chance. You're better than this
- Start going to the gym. It fills the time you would have spent with her and builds confidence
- Find one other hobby that helps you improve - mntn biking, wood working, fishing - anything to engage your brain to learn something new and have to study. Personally, I gravitate to the outdoors
- Embrace being single more than you loath losing her, life will reward you.
- If she tries to contact you through friends, block them too. NO CONTACT. Being ignored will be the hardest thing for her. Bitches crave attention.
- Have fun
- Never look back, this is not a curse, it's a gift that will continue to unwrap over time
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Throw yourself into your work, take this as a life lesson and move on. Eat some chocolate, have a wank, tomorrow is a new day.
t2van
Banned - Constantly insulting other members
- Feb 18, 2018
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Wish I saw this earlier...
I won't joke.
Lifting advice from @Blackhat Lifter is sound HOWEVER..
If you are hurting that much you will end up putting all your focus into something to distract from here ie weights and if you have never lifted before or used a gym you can be prone to overdoing it, go in too hard and then you cause pains and problems. Can't go back to the gym and end up eating, you get comfortable associating pain and heartbreak with food as eating shit food makes you feel better. Then you become fat or the process of getting in shape becomes harder.
Gyms might be closed and buying plates at a sensible price is impossible - just wait till next year when covid "goes" and people lose interest the amount of 2nd hand gear on the market will be insane with insane prices to go with it anyway.
My advice.
Get a skipping rope and learn to skip, do press-ups, sit-ups and buy a long mirror and teach your self to shadow box, start running to shit music that makes you cry on loop and once you start to get upset spring between lamp posts. Your shadow boxing form will be shit unless you trained before and you will build habits until you can get to a boxing gym but its a bit of a lower impact training to get a new habit built until you can either get to a weight lifting gym or buy some home weights.
When my first long term girlfriend dumped me I jumped on a plane and spent 6 months training in a Muay Thai camp. Best time I ever had, best breakup as well.
I won't joke.
Lifting advice from @Blackhat Lifter is sound HOWEVER..
If you are hurting that much you will end up putting all your focus into something to distract from here ie weights and if you have never lifted before or used a gym you can be prone to overdoing it, go in too hard and then you cause pains and problems. Can't go back to the gym and end up eating, you get comfortable associating pain and heartbreak with food as eating shit food makes you feel better. Then you become fat or the process of getting in shape becomes harder.
Gyms might be closed and buying plates at a sensible price is impossible - just wait till next year when covid "goes" and people lose interest the amount of 2nd hand gear on the market will be insane with insane prices to go with it anyway.
My advice.
Get a skipping rope and learn to skip, do press-ups, sit-ups and buy a long mirror and teach your self to shadow box, start running to shit music that makes you cry on loop and once you start to get upset spring between lamp posts. Your shadow boxing form will be shit unless you trained before and you will build habits until you can get to a boxing gym but its a bit of a lower impact training to get a new habit built until you can either get to a weight lifting gym or buy some home weights.
When my first long term girlfriend dumped me I jumped on a plane and spent 6 months training in a Muay Thai camp. Best time I ever had, best breakup as well.
Ken Ferrer
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- Mar 7, 2020
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Thank you so much.
Myself Green Bean
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- Oct 5, 2020
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Hey man that was my dialogue once upon a time. But whatever happens life has to move on. If you can't trust a girl leave that, take a bike go on ride to different places, it will disappear.
annabelle_
Newbie
- Apr 3, 2021
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Sorry pal. I hope your pain eases as soon as possible. Don't make decisions when you are sad. It gets better. It really does. A hug for you.
thedestroyer
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- Jul 16, 2014
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One of the best ways to recover is to shift your focus on something else. Play a new game, start a new hobby that could drift away these thoughts. Aswell as writing on a journal your feelings if you can't find someone else to talk to.
MgicalaEarner
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- Jul 8, 2017
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Same Happened to me 2 days ago but she came back yesterday and i know how it feels i was not able to eat properly things were getting worst
time will heal you
