Girlfriend Problems

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- This won't work simple as that.

Reason she does not want any is most likely that she has someone else. Gold digger is what I refer to here...
 
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Hello everyone so i just woke up and need help with my life.

I've been together with my girlfriend for 3 years and we are constantly on and off but the last year has been sort of good (we fight less) but...
I don't know what to do. I'm feeling kind of lost in all this , i got the feeling my girlfriend is leeching on me.

I'm a 23 year old guy from Europe who got a under payed dayjob like 7.5 $ a hour (i design, do internet marketing, update the website, play FedEx for the company, need to tow around with heavy boxes all day also and so on) but that's life i guess? I dont want to complain cause im happy that i got a job but now comes to the flip side my girlfriend is kicked out of her parents house and is living with me now and i give her 100$ a week so she also can live from something and feels a bit "independent" which i support and is all good cause im kinda a softy sometimes when it comes to helping others..

Dont get me wrong im a manly man but i've always been a loser for love. i had many girls in the past but when there are no strings attached i just go further easy but this girl caught my feelings and now we are 3 years later down a bumpy road but damn i love her so so much and i know she loves me cause of the conversations we had sometimes.

Now let the madness begin where it's going wrong:
1. I pay her 400$ a month to live
2. I have a underpayed job so i cant save any money
3. She doesnt want to have sex or likes to be intimate
4. She is very bossy
5. She is disrespectful to me at times
6. We are in our 20's

As you can see we are in our 20's and my testosterone level is like a bull in the summer and i do like everything for her and she get's really mad when i thouch her or say like we didnt have sex for a week now !
All on top of that she like things her way so i get the feeling of being used by her.. But then comes my feelings and i know she is always been a b*tch but i don't know why but i cant get enough of it if somebody acts so bad to me? But at the same time i think like fck all this but i cant get my mind clear cause i really am in love.

Then on top of this since Europe is really not the ideal area to live in now with increasing threats here i'm planning to leave to Australia for a year and work there and get away from this grey country.
And if possible to stay there get a visum and so on..

I got the basics of my life on the right rails and got good intentions (job , stay fit , working on IM , ..) but then there is the other 50% that's totally off track and i really need advice on this..


Remind me a song sung by Jennifer Lopez, Love don't cost a thing!!
 
they fell in love in addicts, alcoholics and idiots - so be an idiot in front of them - and you will have succes.
 
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Tell her you need to cut her allowance to $20 a week
as you need to hire a better class of hooker
 
From 1 to 10 I would say CEOSam.

Best Regards,
Jaymien.

Nope. I don't like crackheads rolling around on my floor.

Sounds like you get more excitement than Charlie Floate on a school bus.

Totally. I get to stay up past my bedtime, eat greasy takeout food, drink a bunch of pop and yell at people when they don't do things my way. Charlie doesn't get to do any of that. He's too busy faking an IM lifestyle on Instagram.
 
recently i have a relationship too we've been together for 2 years almost about to make it to three but luckily she left me, and like you OP i gave what she has wanted, I was like walking on glass with our relationship and I'm glad we're over, just think the positive side OP that if she's not around there will be some nice and positive opportunities for you that's when she will left you be happy man don't tie your happiness to individuals who don't appreciate things that you were doing for them.
 
Talking about "couple troubles" on a forum where 99% are virgins....maybe not the smartest idea
 
Buy her chocolates and then ask for a blowjob.

It's the only way she will love you!
 
Congrats for breaking up with her. Has she left your room already? Relationships are like accounting, if the books (give/take) aren't balanced, ditch her.
 
3. She doesnt want to have sex or likes to be intimate

She's a freeloader, mate. #3 should have had her out on her ass within the first year.
 
Just when you thought this thread was over i got a other annoucement to make, the b*tch is a real snake ! When she locked herself up in my room before that psycho did put a freakin keylogger on my pc. (gotta give her props for that though haha) i got freakin keylogged by my own ex and she tried to delete all my IM accounts and google and so on.. Man i just dont get this she uses me and then she tries to destroy me? I think i won the lottery with this ex girl :')
 
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