Hello everyone so i just woke up and need help with my life. I've been together with my girlfriend for 3 years and we are constantly on and off but the last year has been sort of good (we fight less) but... I don't know what to do. I'm feeling kind of lost in all this , i got the feeling my girlfriend is leeching on me. I'm a 23 year old guy from Europe who got a under payed dayjob like 7.5 $ a hour (i design, do internet marketing, update the website, play FedEx for the company, need to tow around with heavy boxes all day also and so on) but that's life i guess? I dont want to complain cause im happy that i got a job but now comes to the flip side my girlfriend is kicked out of her parents house and is living with me now and i give her 100$ a week so she also can live from something and feels a bit "independent" which i support and is all good cause im kinda a softy sometimes when it comes to helping others.. Dont get me wrong im a manly man but i've always been a loser for love. i had many girls in the past but when there are no strings attached i just go further easy but this girl caught my feelings and now we are 3 years later down a bumpy road but damn i love her so so much and i know she loves me cause of the conversations we had sometimes. Now let the madness begin where it's going wrong: 1. I pay her 400$ a month to live 2. I have a underpayed job so i cant save any money 3. She doesnt want to have sex or likes to be intimate 4. She is very bossy 5. She is disrespectful to me at times 6. We are in our 20's As you can see we are in our 20's and my testosterone level is like a bull in the summer and i do like everything for her and she get's really mad when i thouch her or say like we didnt have sex for a week now ! All on top of that she like things her way so i get the feeling of being used by her.. But then comes my feelings and i know she is always been a b*tch but i don't know why but i cant get enough of it if somebody acts so bad to me? But at the same time i think like fck all this but i cant get my mind clear cause i really am in love. Then on top of this since Europe is really not the ideal area to live in now with increasing threats here i'm planning to leave to Australia for a year and work there and get away from this grey country. And if possible to stay there get a visum and so on.. I got the basics of my life on the right rails and got good intentions (job , stay fit , working on IM , ..) but then there is the other 50% that's totally off track and i really need advice on this..