Girlfriend Broke Up With Me

Dealing with break ups is hard. If you need to cry, cry man. If you want to drink, go drink wine or beer. Do anything that will make you feel comfortable. That's how I deal with break ups. But no break ups now as I'll be having my first born baby real soon :D
 
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Ok bro, this exact situation happened to me about 2 months ago and I am going to tell you exactly what you should do and exactly what I did. Please follow my advice cause it will work.

Skype/text her and say just chat as if everything is normal then have this conversation:

You: Yeah I'm feeling good about this breakup. Didn't think it would be this quick for me to get over you.

Her: Oh, you're already over me? That was quick..

You: Yeah well I dunno. I went out with some mates and I've gotten my confidence back so it's been pretty easy.

Her: Oh cool. Hmm. I miss us..


Lol probs won't happen exactly like that but I promise you. Act like you don't give a fuck and like you're moving on quicker than her and girls will ALWAYS want what they can't have. I did exactly this and she came running back, I tagged that a couple more times and sent her on her way knowing that I had won the war.

It made me feel soooooo much better so do it man. :)
 
Another way to forget her is to be with someone else and have fun, and it could be one of your friends. And stop listening to love/romance music at the moment as it will make you remember her. And throw away anything that makes you remember her. Good luck on finding a better one. :)
 
cicsmayhem said:
Another way to forget her is to be with someone else and have fun, and it could be one of your friends. And stop listening to love/romance music at the moment as it will make you remember her. And throw away anything that makes you remember her. Good luck on finding a better one. :)
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Dude I tried that one -- being with someone else isn't really helping you. Friends could be of help but not another girl for a night or just to hide those pain. Be a man. Do whatever you want to do and go wherever you want to go.
 
facebookdude said:
Lol probs won't happen exactly like that but I promise you. Act like you don't give a fuck and like you're moving on quicker than her and girls will ALWAYS want what they can't have. I did exactly this and she came running back, I tagged that a couple more times and sent her on her way knowing that I had won the war.

It made me feel soooooo much better so do it man. :)
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Whoever read the above advice and is in a similar situation should definitely follow it. It really does work, and if only I knew this a few years back, I'd be much happier now. Never overreact, or you'll just make a fool of yourself. Take everything calm and although it may seem like you lost, you'll actually be the winner. Just remember not to let your emotions control you.
 
Ever heard the phrase, "pussy moves mountains" ?

I agree with Ericsson. Just be a man and move on. Plenty of fish bro
 
The only thing I can honestly suggest is that if she can't be happy with the fact that your making money, and doing it easily, the way your prefer. Then as cybertron said, many more fish man. It does suck and hurt, gf of 3 yrsa left me 2 yrs ago, and Ive been single since, i stopped caring bout having a gf, now i just wana make money.
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see the positive side: at least you have time for your blackhat stuff now.
remember: more $$$$$ = more women
 
Live god damn it, live.

Facebookdude is right, most women want what they can't have. Don't contact her. If the girl ever asks how you are doing, then your attitude should be upbeat and positive. Tell her you are doing great and you have been moving on. Nobody likes being rejected and the natural tendency for the reject is to "make things rigiht". If she asks, "Can we still be friends?", then your answer is NO. Your reason is, "Do you really think you would be comfortable being friends with me when I'm with another girl?" or "It wouldn't be fair to the next girl I'm with." This will put the thought of you being with another person in her head, and nobody likes to imagine the person they've been with getting it on with another partner. It's all a game really.

Definitely stop thinking about the sex with her. That's using your wrong head and it won't help you move on. In these situations, it's always best to look forward to the future and not in the past.

Also, the people who say money over women are just kidding themselves. The ones who are saying that are the ones who have been burned. There's no point in having tons of money and wealth without a good woman at your side to back you up.
 
I spend my time on BHW after regular office. My day job keeps me very busy. Just started to make few $$ giving a lot of time here at BHW. Now, my wife complaining, I'm not giving her enough time at home.

It's really tough to manage time this way. I feed bad for you. But, you need to go on.
 
facebookdude is right. Move on. Get a new life (not a new girlfriend). Be rich and girls will be coming to your doors unexpectedly. Look man, even if we advice you I know you wont be paying that much attention but just slowly, everyday; read facebookdude's reply and you'll realize how helpful it is.
 
If she is that important to you then get talking to her like the olden times ... give her whole-hearted attention that she deserves and make her feel special; share your time (more appropriately) between you & her, you & your work, and you & whatever without anybody of these losing out to the others.

May be she is still waiting for you to take that important next step first...

If you want to still share the life with her, then being a MCP isn't a priority ATM.

HTH :)
 
Listen up JohnnyRabbit you just need to get out there and find a new JessicaRabit, maybe one who is into IM or Web Design so she will be able to work right next to you and consider it your time together so the rest of the time can be spent doing fun shit...wait a minute...I can see it now...BHW dating forums LoL
 
if i were you i will commit SUICIDE..
hehe just kidding.. smile bro. everything happens for a reason.
 
JohnnyRabbit said:
Yeah it's just like sex was so good I can't imagine it getting any better or with another person :(
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It gets better as you get older.

Women comes and go like business ideas and ventures. Good thing she cashed out now than if you were 40 years old and had already built a life together.

Are you worried about go to sleep alone each night, or are you afraid of not getting to stick your penis in a moist hole every once in a while?
 
It might not be so easy but It's life. Sometimes thing doesn't go like the way we want to...
 
dude...at least keep one of her G String collection for old time sake.
Smell it whenever you miss her
 
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