Girlfriend Broke Up With Me

I'm not surprised she left you.
You've shown the emotional backbone of an earthworm by coming on an IM forum bitching about your love life.
Women want an alfa male that gives them stature among their peers. Once you start
pandering to their every need they realize you're a wimp and not fit to father their children
even if they say they don't want any.
You have to go back to the natural order of things and if you ain't man enough to step up to the
plate you better move out the way because big man will take over and once she's
experienced a real man and told all her friends you'll have to look in another
town to beg pussy.
I'm not being horrible mate it's just the way it is.
Woman are herder/nestbuilders men are hunter/protectors and if she don't
feel that you can fulfill your role in your relationship it's the big elbow!

Take some time out and realize what you need to bring to a relationship and the next one will be 1000% better.
This is the exact reason why women will always take the roughneck who treats them mean over the wimp who buys them everything and jumps at their every whim.
 
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LMAO! This guy has a point:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV2lzgThAFk&feature=fvwrel

I also recommend watching this:

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Enjoy. :D
 
It's simple. She wasn't the right one for you. she don't like what you do so find someone BETTER! :)
 
Well i dont belive that the right choice is to get back with her , when its done its done , there is nothing more to search there , as you are saying it was her choice , respect it , and the new one will come that u will like even more :P
Good luck
 
Try to Find out some Lady IM'er Impress them, then flirt with them. then propose some of them, whoever says yes, go for a trip with her. have bonding and then, announce your new Love Story here on BHW with a title of " A Couple in BHW "

I am sure, Diamond Dave will send you a Great Gift you can do something like this.. :)

Go Buddy Go. Its time to move on. and Life is like a wave of an ocean, One finishes its journey, by that time other one finishes too on its shoulder.
 
What do You need girlfriend for when You have money? Just work and forget about her.

Good luck :)
 
It's always really hard for sure.

I have never broken up with anyone as I haven't ever been so hurt or whatnot in a relationship that I wanted to break up with someone.

It's tough being the one that gets broken up with especially (like it is for me most of the time) when I don't even expect it at all.

I hoped that as I got older and started to date guys in their 30s that the breaking up process would be a bit more mature with better reasons. It's still the same stuff as it was 10 years ago.

The most hurtful thing to me is that some boyfriends have had issues with me that they kept to themselves for a number of months which lead to a breakup. It's hurtful to think that I could not be communicated with.

Life stands still for awhile after it happens but then starts to get better. It sounds stupid to type it out but it does get better.

You should focus on doing all the things you love doing and pack your days as full as possible.

I typically will wake up early early early in the morning as I hate being in bed all alone at night not being able to fall asleep. The early mornings with something like work or exercise are easier to manage for me than late nights letting my mind wander to a hurt place.

I hope for your best.

SaraJ
 
Oh my God...

A Place where people support to the extreme for the one who lost his love.. This is why i love BHW..

And infact i am very very happy to be a part of this team. Hope if i have any problem in future, i am having some buddies here to share..

And my advice...

Mate think that you are gonna have a lovely girl in future.. It ll pain if you keep on thinking of her.

Rather put yourself on work and be happy with ya friends moving out.. keep yourself busy.. You ll have a better future ahead.. Dont worry.. May be she is not lucky enough to get you...

:beach2(2) Cheer up Budd!!
 
There isn't many problems that money can't solve. Never, ever forget this tidbit.
 
Just continue on your work. Be a better you and she'll realize she lost something precious.
 
ya, it hurts only time will get you over it. But trust me you gotta go for what you want first or you won't be happy later and it will suck even more. Just focus on what you want to get first and the girls will come. Sucks ass right now but it will get better for sure.
 
ohh ya and best thing you can do if you want her back is to ignore her. don't try and call/text or email and if she calls ignore her for awhile it's the last thing they expect. I did this with a couple girls and they ended up trying to call me all the time but I realized they weren't right and were biatches and moved on. Now I'm with a pretty cool girl but took me awhile to weed out all of the bad ones.
 
JohnnyRabbit said:
Yeah but I was at my hands and knees for her and she wasn't for me.

I felt like I was giving more of the relationship in doing things and buying things for her but myself was still involved with doing work on the computer and not going out, just staying home....

Also she never bought me anything and she is just my girlfriend for 1 year and I buy her every lunch/dinner :(
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Sorry for being straight to the point but you are stupid. Do NOT EVER buy someone lunch/dinner. If you do and she doesn't refuse, it means she never really liked you (but she liked your money). What's the difference between her and a whore? (except the STDs lol). Well if you buy her lunch today and she buy you dinner at the other day, that's fine. I just don't get it why most guys buy their girlfriends dinner and lunch all the time and never knew they were being used. If it's just for sex i understand...but if it involves feeling, you are dumb.

Personally i wouldn't ever do that. And yeah there are still beautiful women out there who can still like you even though you never buy them dinner/lunch. Buying a drink/meal for a girl sometimes is fine but every time? What a joke.

I never bought anyone lunch/dinner/anything (except gift). And yeah i have a GF now.

I can see from this case alone that your ex never really liked you. Get over it.
 
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Sorry to hear about your loss buddy. Do yourself a favour and google:

Boozing Through a Break Up - Modern Drunkard Magazine

Helped me through a few.
 
is this BHW? no wonder i stopped using this public part of the forum.get cry on your mommys shoulder, not here
 
throw yourself into a money making project like an IM campaign or start up a blog of an interest of yours and give it 100% attention and promotion and make it grow in pagerank and ad revenue, you find you wont have time to worry about the girls you'll be too busy making sure your direct deposits went through... then when you go out to celebrate your earnings... more will come to you. Such is the laws of nature and science.
 
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