Failure after trying everything, Help Needed

Maybe you just need someone to whoop your ass and wake you up to reality. From what I've read, you're saying: I can do it, I know how to do it, I have everything I need to do it, but I won't.


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Bro I am not taking very high drugs, They are light not coke or anything like that,taking Tobacco,
 
just remember that taking drugs or drinking to escape pain is like taking tylenol for cancer. sure, it will stop the pain for a moment, but your are only delaying dealing with it. in the long run your mind has to go through the pain to get over it. my advice is to stop the drugs and go on a meditative retreat
 
Yes bro I tried this method too when someone whoop your ass and wake up to reality, but I feel like I don't care about society I just want to be alone always :( I want to work but I am near to my goal always and I step back due to some pain in my mind and feeling hopeless and changing my mood, I don't know what is happening, My family is so supportive they also advised me a-lot for Making my career, Career is everything, No one will know you if you are not having money, But I don't know and now also and mind is blank and I don't know what to type and It feels like to stop everything and sleep or to take tobacco but I am controlling my best
 
I am unable to control my Mind, My mind is always changing and running maybe I think due to my age fact as I am under 21, but still I have no option other than career as I had left studies 1 year back, and Business is my life, even when I was too young, I was planning about my career, always I am talking about career with my family, friends everyone as I really want to make good career, I really want to be successful but I am stopping myself and sometimes it feels like doing suicide or something, Tobacco has make my mind 0, I know If I take tobacco now, I will feel better and will be normal not into depression and I will stop talking shit, I know you all want to help me, But don't know maybe few will make fun or me or Don't know, Please advice your best Brothers
 
You have one major problem,
you don't seem to hang on long enough to understand your business model
before moving into something else. IM is never like that. All business models
have it's own unique pattern you must follow to succeed.
 
Yes you are right bro, But I want to study each and everything, My learning or reading power is 0, I tried alot and still I am trying but I always ignore reading or learning new things, I don't make efforts I always learn that things, Which my minds automatically catch even though I am also having very good Ideas, I studies about Business a-lot, even though I can start any business because Business = Sales, and doing something creative and different from others, I am having good ability to create all unique and different products But I am not doing I don't know and always when I take Tobacco my mind and I am in another world, I don't know after that what is society or what is happening
 
rajat said:
Yes you are right bro, But I want to study each and everything, My learning or reading power is 0, I tried alot and still I am trying but I always ignore reading or learning new things, I don't make efforts I always learn that things, Which my minds automatically catch even though I am also having very good Ideas, I studies about Business a-lot, even though I can start any business because Business = Sales, and doing something creative and different from others, I am having good ability to create all unique and different products But I am not doing I don't know and always when I take Tobacco my mind and I am in another world, I don't know after that what is society or what is happening
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The good side of learning everything is, it's give you insight into the field, what to anticipate, sometimes save cost and what not.

While the bad side is, it spread you too thin to achieve anything.

I'm not saying it's not doable, you may not be ripe for that yet.

You need to learn to stay organize and have a workable system.
 
OP you sound like you have more than enough technical skills to make it in this world, you just need to fix what's between your ears.

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1. Learning Never ends, and even though we can't learn everything as there are "X" amount of things to learn
2. I am having good skills in some fields, eg. I can start any IT business, Yes I can

But I am not starting as I don't know why, Presently I am feeling insulted :(
 
go for a vacation again and come back . join for art of living classes and attend regularly ... morning time do yoga and meditation ... dont sit alone anywhere .. spend time with your family members .. visit nearby temples in your area daily .. do this for 2 months and u feel positive energy flowing in your body with clarity of thoughts . hope this helps in achieving ur goals.
 
Op..Take this quote and think about it:

The number one reason people fail in life is because they listen to their friends, family, and neighbors. ~Napoleon Hill

You already know how to be successful because you were successful before. The only person who can make a change in your life is "YOU". Commit to one project and work your a*# off to make it successful. Don't just write about it on a forum take action now!
 
We all go through tough times, however you have to be who you are independently
and let everything be an accessory to the successful life you build. Never and I mean
never make a girl your key motivation.

-RK
 
What is it with kids these days? Break up with the girlfriend and then decide to dedicate their lives to SEO and IM

OP, you might find some success if you actually finish something that you start.

Nobody here can give you the kick up the arse that you need.
 
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