Do your parents really know you?

georgetoons

georgetoons

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Hi bhw fam,

So I wanted to start this thread out of curiosity to see if I can relate with some on you on this.

Lately I have been thinking about how little my parents really know me.... My whole life has basically been a lie to my parents...

I love them more than anything but they are very traditional and I have never been honest, for example:

Where are you going? lie.
What time did you get home? lie.
Who was with you? lie.
Do you have a gf? lie.
What do you need the money for? lie.

The biggest lie I have probably told them was this:

I asked my dad for 300 dollars to go to a chris brown concert, Chris brown was rejected from coming to Australia because of the thing with Rihanna. I instead used the 300 dollars to throw a party and paid for a dj and photographer. The party ended up being the news as it was an open party on a facebook group and over 250 people showed up. A gang called "apex" ended up trashing the house and also someone was stabbed. My parents never found out and to this day think I went to a Chris Brown concert that night.

The list goes on and on but I have realised that I lie too them so much and have been for most of my life.

Now that I am growing I have started to think about it wrong and trying to fix it as it has become more of a habit then anything now.

Do you lie to your parents so they can hear what they want or is it just me?

If you do, what is the biggest lie you have told?

I am 23 btw :)
 
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georgetoons said:
I instead used the 300 dollars to throw a party and paid for a dj and photographer. The party ended up being the news as it was an open party on a facebook group and over 250 people showed up. A gang called "apex" ended up trashing the house and also someone was stabbed.
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I've seen this before lol. A movie called Project X
 
Where are you going? I tell them
What time did you get home? I usually say idk, i'll try come home "tonight" back when I was younger and use to live with them
Who was with you? yeah i'll tell them
Do you have a gf? yes lezs are hawt
What do you need the money for? yeah, told mum before imma ape 10k in btc she looked at me like okay, "as long as you know what you are doing" luckily.. that worked out just fine i guess :cool:
 
I can go wherever, whenever and with whoever i want basically,
I can tell or not, it won't really be a problem neither, i spend most of the day outside in fact,
It all depends on how mature & responsible you're, and i can tell you that I'm more restrictive on myself than they're on me,
If they see you as a fully grown up man, it won't be a problem anymore

I used to lie a lot back in time tho,
Running out of school, college to spend most of the day on road or playing games,
Ofc, i had to lie to get the money for all of these stuff, or taking other kids money with some groups,
Some parties here and there, but not really fun of them, they're hell boring for me,

The biggest lie would go to pretending to be struggling with making money for months while i was making X10s as they do,
A big surprise with a nice car and they went crazy, that's one of my favorite memories, shocking them really hard :D
 
hideath said:
I can go wherever, whenever and with whoever i want basically,
I can tell or not, it won't really be a problem neither, i spend most of the day outside in fact,
It all depends on how mature & responsible you're, and i can tell you that I'm more restrictive on myself than they're on me,
If they see you as a fully grown up man, it won't be a problem anymore

I used to lie a lot back in time tho,
Running out of school, college to spend most of the day on road or playing games,
Ofc, i had to lie to get the money for all of these stuff, or taking other kids money with some groups,
Some parties here and there, but not really fun of them, they're hell boring for me,

The biggest lie would go to pretending to be struggling with making money for months while i was making X10s as they do,
A big surprise with a nice car and they went crazy, that's one of my favorite memories, shocking them really hard :D
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Yeah you are kinda like me. That is how it is for me now. When you start making your own money and they see you have matured and provide for the family they get off your back.

I mean.. my dad being the traditional Greek he is will always be on my back no matter how old/mature I am but thats why I love him :)

Congrats on buying them a car bro it is one of my dreams to buy my dad a car, last year I gave him 10k when I made quite a bit of money from crypto and have never felt something better in my life :)

Keep grinding bro and stay off the road ;)
 
xReminisce said:
Where are you going? I tell them
What time did you get home? I usually say idk, i'll try come home "tonight" back when I was younger and use to live with them
Who was with you? yeah i'll tell them
Do you have a gf? yes lezs are hawt
What do you need the money for? yeah, told mum before imma ape 10k in btc she looked at me like okay, "as long as you know what you are doing" luckily.. that worked out just fine i guess :cool:
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What nationality are you?
I am also a lez btw :)

P.s sounds like you have a nice relationship with your family happy for you :)
 
I used to be like you. I didn't know my parents just like my parents didn't know me.
What I lacked was proper communication with my parents.
Like, when I wanted to have a conversation my parents didn't like them. When they wanted to have a conversation with me, I didn't like it. So we avoided having a meaningful conversation altogether.
However, after coming to realize that, we did learn more about each other and how we can't change who we are but to just accept who we are.
So I stopped lying because there is no need for that anymore.

Where are you going? Tell them.
What time did you get home? Tomorrow morning.
Who was with you? My friends.
Do you have a gf? Got none.
What do you need the money for? I lost a shit ton of money in stock market sorry mom
 
georgetoons said:
Hi bhw fam,

So I wanted to start this thread out of curiosity to see if I can relate with some on you on this.

Lately I have been thinking about how little my parents really know me.... My whole life has basically been a lie to my parents...

I love them more than anything but they are very traditional and I have never been honest, for example:

Where are you going? lie.
What time did you get home? lie.
Who was with you? lie.
Do you have a gf? lie.
What do you need the money for? lie.

The biggest lie I have probably told them was this:

I asked my dad for 300 dollars to go to a chris brown concert, Chris brown was rejected from coming to Australia because of the thing with Rihanna. I instead used the 300 dollars to throw a party and paid for a dj and photographer. The party ended up being the news as it was an open party on a facebook group and over 250 people showed up. A gang called "apex" ended up trashing the house and also someone was stabbed. My parents never found out and to this day think I went to a Chris Brown concert that night.

The list goes on and on but I have realised that I lie too them so much and have been for most of my life.

Now that I am growing I have started to think about it wrong and trying to fix it as it has become more of a habit then anything now.

Do you lie to your parents so they can hear what they want or is it just me?

If you do, what is the biggest lie you have told?

I am 23 btw :)
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i like this
 
rhapsodyoffire said:
I used to be like you. I didn't know my parents just like my parents didn't know me.
What I lacked was proper communication with my parents.
Like, when I wanted to have a conversation my parents didn't like them. When they wanted to have a conversation with me, I didn't like it. So we avoided having a meaningful conversation altogether.
However, after coming to realize that, we did learn more about each other and how we can't change who we are but to just accept who we are.
So I stopped lying because there is no need for that anymore.

Where are you going? Tell them.
What time did you get home? Tomorrow morning.
Who was with you? My friends.
Do you have a gf? Got none.
What do you need the money for? I lost a shit ton of money in stock market sorry mom
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Happy for you bro! I am also completly different, I mean, we all are... We are growing up in a completely different generation so as you said, the best is to find that middle ground and try to understand eachother.

A family that sticks together is unstoppable!

My dad used to always give me an example for this when I was young which was pretty cool, what he did was:

He would give me a little stick and tell me to snap it
me: *snap*

Then he would give me 7 sticks (7 members in my fam):

me: *couldnt break it*

Hahaha anyways i think you get the point
 
mKeehl said:
You're still a kid, it's normal
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georgetoons said:
because of the thing with Rihanna
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you mean the thing where Chris Brown physically abused her? beat her in the face, right? multiple times? to the point that she needed stitches? that thing? where she had to go to the A&E several times? and then he just went on his merry way still having fans? after assaulting his partner? that thing with Rihanna?

bruh if i were your parents, i'd rather my child had a party where someone got stabbed than went to support a POS domestic abuser but that's just me ig
 
georgetoons said:
I asked my dad for 300 dollars to go to a chris brown concert, Chris brown was rejected from coming to Australia because of the thing with Rihanna. I instead used the 300 dollars to throw a party and paid for a dj and photographer. The party ended up being the news as it was an open party on a facebook group and over 250 people showed up. A gang called "apex" ended up trashing the house and also someone was stabbed. My parents never found out and to this day think I went to a Chris Brown concert that night.

The list goes on and on but I have realised that I lie too them so much and have been for most of my life.

Now that I am growing I have started to think about it wrong and trying to fix it as it has become more of a habit then anything now.

Do you lie to your parents so they can hear what they want or is it just me?

If you do, what is the biggest lie you have told?

I am 23 btw :)
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Just forward this thread's link to your parents
You're a good boy now
 
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