Dealing with client suicide

That's hard. I would send a memorial card to the family and maybe some flowers and wish them the best

Swagmonster said:

This is some bullshit. Fuck employers like that. That's why you need to have your own business.

Internet was always about freedom. Freedom of your word, of your opinion, and now it is becoming some sort of a place where you cannot express your views.

Stay anonymous my colleagues. Because one day your tutorial on the internet might be used against you

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yea and then google deranks you, facebook bans you, cloud flair drops you with no notice, chase bank closes your account, paypal just steals what ever money they can. Guess its time to make my own global banks and internet.

foghorn said:

yea and then google deranks you, facebook bans you, cloud flair drops you with no notice, chase bank closes your account, paypal just steals what ever money they can. Guess its time to make my own global banks and internet.

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Let's just move to another planet

I’m sorry .
I hired a company to remove a ton of content an ex plastered all over the net I mean bad,bad,bad content and they did their best. I hope. They promised it wouldn’t take more than two months but i ended having to hire them and rehire them
2 more times for a couple months each time and it wasn’t cheap. They swear they got it all down and there is no more yetI can find more and I send them the urls and they are like we can’t find them?
I was recommended to them by someone very reputable and I guess I just have to accept that it isn’t all gonna go away which breaks my heart in half but what can you do? Not kill myself . I have truly thought about it trust me as my whole family and tons of random friends and associates have seen it or found it on their own by accident cause it was everywhere with my name on it and all.
I have two sons and would just lose my shit if they saw it but so far I think that hasn’t happened. If it does I still won’t kill myself cause I think it would be worse for them to not have me and know about then for them to know about it and still have me. I dunno I’m just assuming - lol. It’s pretty bad so.
What have I learned ? Don’t date losers. Mostly they were hidden cams and that I cannot be responsible for and the rest wasn’t made for the world to see but I still allowed it to be made and trusted him. So .... I dunno.
I say just do the most you can with each client and if you are settled that you did all you could then be good with that.
If you don’t feel you did all you could with that particular client then at least learn from that and carry on doing the best you can from meow on....you cannot control anyone’s mental state or choices.

This thread makes me so happy to live in the US.

Who cares if a guy was racist in the past. There are plenty of things that would turn a man "racist" and as long as they eventually see the light at the end of the tunnel forgiveness should be given.

You UK and European guys are acting like racism should be a death sentence.

foghorn said:

yea and then google deranks you, facebook bans you, cloud flair drops you with no notice, chase bank closes your account, paypal just steals what ever money they can. Guess its time to make my own global banks and internet.

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Guess its time to bring out the rifles. That's tyrannical.

Honestly I can’t believe People here are saying he deserves it and was not good for society.
He was anti a certain religion and now deserves to commit suicide and leave his family suffering?

You’re allowed to have your own thoughts. Atheists hate on Christians all the time and say the most insensitive things and no one cares. You can hate on a religion if you want to. The only time it’s unacceptable is when you start causing damage and being violent.

No your client didn’t deserve to die. I wish he got the help he needed mentally and realized it wasn’t the end.

A name change could’ve solved it, and they can’t see their previous name. Took a 2 second Google search.

7eus said:

This thread makes me so happy to live in the US.

Who cares if a guy was racist in the past. There are plenty of things that would turn a man "racist" and as long as they eventually see the light at the end of the tunnel forgiveness should be given.

You UK and European guys are acting like racism should be a death sentence.

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well, we didn't have riots, protests, random guys breaking into shops and houses to steal stuff, movements like BLM, terms like "White Privilege" etc. because of racism in Europe. So it's actually quite the opposite of what you just wrote. In Europe, the people are fucking each other up over climate change and refugees instead

political sphere is really a rough playground and toxic some people don't use facts and run base on emotional responses. what ever business/ or job ur client had the best advice is to stay away from politics. From what this situations looks like the best advice is to keep fighting and never lay down, not on political belifs but on business and work. If i were ever rejected due to my political beliefs/ and or troll comments I would put that to the side, and present myself to the peoples and or employer that they are blinded and need to focused on what is being marketed and what will bring them income. That is number one, show them whats the cost of limiting advancements in business due to personal affairs. As to ur clients passing, it isnt ur fault he chose to leave his family. he clearly hated his life and needed something to live for. The advice id give him is to never stop on trying to provide from family, thats what men are for. and as for op never let emotions take control they affect ur judgement. just look at what happen to this guy.

This is not technical advice.

If you want to help someone in this situation, remind them it's a big world and cancelling only goes so far.

I was cancelled in 2014, back when it was called de-personing. The people who did this to me were cancelled about a year later.

Looking back, the emotions were pretty powerful. Nothing could have convinced me there was anything worse than having your friends turn on you. After a while, you realize it's better to stick with your principles and you don't need cowards in your life.

LIFE IS HARD!!!!

I would never ever go down that road, but I can somewhat understand how those people reason.

I've seen how they treat right wing people in Sweden. Kids not getting into daycare, getting smoke bombs thrown into your house at night, getting your house burned down, getting your car destroyed, assaulted when walking outside, death threats and threats of rape online and on the phone to your wife. Taking away your bank account, not letting companies hire you. Police harassing you every time you go outside. Lies after lies in the media etc. etc. The list goes on.

They know how to break a man, if you are of the "wrong opinion".

Anywho, you shouldn't get involved in deaths. What the family needs is lawyers and counseling. Not some Internet guy who works with digital communication

Everyone has suicidal thoughts at times because the idea is sold/spread to us through posts like this. OUr brain has to receive the message.

Just have to learn life... and live by the quote "this too shall pass"

That's how life works. Keep at it.

I contemplated suicide a few times in life when i was getting my butt kicked , after losing everything helping others. Felt like I gave the world everything and then nobody gave a shit about me. Which was the truth but i didn't let that change me. I still help others and now I jut work harder and realize the power is in me. I have to want it and it will come.