HallLiz
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Life lesson #53 never take dating a foreigner or traveller seriously. These types of people don't want to settle down yet.
Your young so get over someone by getting under someone.
If you can't get over a girl I would not recommend getting high or fucked up. As you might learn this to be your coping technique, which could turn into addiction. I'm high a.f. while I writing this, so I hope this makes sence.
Your young so get over someone by getting under someone.
If you can't get over a girl I would not recommend getting high or fucked up. As you might learn this to be your coping technique, which could turn into addiction. I'm high a.f. while I writing this, so I hope this makes sence.
googleagent59
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- Aug 6, 2010
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Smoke green joint,get a idea and start new IM journey {Challenge 1000$ a day - in 6 months}
Abudence
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- Jul 7, 2014
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You could accept human nature as a real thing. Look around everyone is like a animal. Doing whatever their brain feels to do. Sex, scam, and coke. Welcome to earth. Nobody here loves anyone. It's a brain game, but honestly you will find someone who will legit love you. You will find them and you two will be two brains always pushing emotions around. I can talk to someone and go see them and then do whatever with them. Then never contact them again and they sometimes flip out. Marriage type of relationships are not for humans, but good for geese. So be a human or pretend your a geese.
ambushiv11
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Give it time. The only advice I can give on this. Been there (not in love but a hard to take breakup)
PinguSpy
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- Dec 7, 2007
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Feb/2017 I breakup. (3 years of relationship).
Pain like fuck. Took me 6 months for the pain to completely goes away.
And then on March/2017 I meet 1 girl, she's very cute, happy go lucky. Really kill my boringness because she like to talk alot.
Very good girl, own 5 street cats, she even buy large amount of food to give to street dog/cat everday. Pure altrusim.
She also just breakup with her bf too. Because her bf is cheating on her. Her bf is like model or something, can flirt with many girls very easy.
Long story short, I couple with her in July/2017 .
I thought she's a good girl.
She even cry, asking me to trust her, that she's not a cheater.
Because well I feel something different toward her.
My dream never lies, if i dream a girl cheat on me, it always 100% true. This happen with my 3 previous relationship.
Today 27/OCT/2018 - I just breakup with her.
I have no problem with that. But I hate this kind of feeling like.. 18 months you know her, how high value she was in your eyes, how much you trust her..
But in just one night you know everything that she's not a girl that I thought she was!
She lies to me so many things lol. +she's a cheater. Fuxx. I almost got a heart attack though .
Seeing the conversation that my friend gave it to me. (I ask my friend to flirt with her - end up she's super easy girl, with just a few k you can take her to the bed)
Ahh what can I do. I just gulp this pain.
Now I got paranoid with women.
My exgf is a singer.
I have no luck when it comes to relationship (maybe).
Next year im getting 30. While most of my friend already married and here i'm. Getting dump by a girl that i trust and love so much.
P/S seems like i will suffer from breakup -every single year
Pain like fuck. Took me 6 months for the pain to completely goes away.
And then on March/2017 I meet 1 girl, she's very cute, happy go lucky. Really kill my boringness because she like to talk alot.
Very good girl, own 5 street cats, she even buy large amount of food to give to street dog/cat everday. Pure altrusim.
She also just breakup with her bf too. Because her bf is cheating on her. Her bf is like model or something, can flirt with many girls very easy.
Long story short, I couple with her in July/2017 .
I thought she's a good girl.
She even cry, asking me to trust her, that she's not a cheater.
Because well I feel something different toward her.
My dream never lies, if i dream a girl cheat on me, it always 100% true. This happen with my 3 previous relationship.
Today 27/OCT/2018 - I just breakup with her.
I have no problem with that. But I hate this kind of feeling like.. 18 months you know her, how high value she was in your eyes, how much you trust her..
But in just one night you know everything that she's not a girl that I thought she was!
She lies to me so many things lol. +she's a cheater. Fuxx. I almost got a heart attack though .
Seeing the conversation that my friend gave it to me. (I ask my friend to flirt with her - end up she's super easy girl, with just a few k you can take her to the bed)
Ahh what can I do. I just gulp this pain.
Now I got paranoid with women.
My exgf is a singer.
I have no luck when it comes to relationship (maybe).
Next year im getting 30. While most of my friend already married and here i'm. Getting dump by a girl that i trust and love so much.
P/S seems like i will suffer from breakup -every single year
kveldulv
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OP, focus on other things. Everyone says it gets easier with time, because it does.
A lot of it is just internal brain chemistry doing your head in.
Make sure you throw out any of her stuff (clothes etc) that's still around your house.
Delete/Block from facebook and chat programs so you don't keep going over old shit in your head.
You'll have lots of unanswered questions about why she left , how could she, did she lie etc.
You won't get any answers to these questions, so make peace with that.
Don't bother trying to contact her.
Good luck.
A lot of it is just internal brain chemistry doing your head in.
Make sure you throw out any of her stuff (clothes etc) that's still around your house.
Delete/Block from facebook and chat programs so you don't keep going over old shit in your head.
You'll have lots of unanswered questions about why she left , how could she, did she lie etc.
You won't get any answers to these questions, so make peace with that.
Don't bother trying to contact her.
Good luck.
beastkay
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- Sep 20, 2018
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Hey man been through kind of same thing but the main thing to focus here is on yourself.
You can't become a waste if any one person has rejected you so just keep that in mind and see yourself growing.
Try to connect with the guys who loves you like your family and freinds mostly with the persons who don't remind of her because that will be shit.
Try to focus on yourself only because I've been gone through the same and it is easy to say focus on yourself but it's fucking hard.
Try to do things which you love like I was literally get distraction with porn so I was watching lot of porn these days but seriously that also remind me of her.
So you've to find your thing and buckle up yourself because other than you no one is going to pick you up everyone will kick you and get off.
So just try, try and try to grind yourself
You can't become a waste if any one person has rejected you so just keep that in mind and see yourself growing.
Try to connect with the guys who loves you like your family and freinds mostly with the persons who don't remind of her because that will be shit.
Try to focus on yourself only because I've been gone through the same and it is easy to say focus on yourself but it's fucking hard.
Try to do things which you love like I was literally get distraction with porn so I was watching lot of porn these days but seriously that also remind me of her.
So you've to find your thing and buckle up yourself because other than you no one is going to pick you up everyone will kick you and get off.
So just try, try and try to grind yourself
- Jul 26, 2016
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I can feel your pain bro. But whenever you breakup or let go of something it tends to get easier every time. Its just the "good relationships" with the dream girl that sting the most when it comes to letting go. You gotta pay attention to the people that you attract into your life. There is a high chance that you will attract other girls into your life that are into this cheating shit as well. Try to reflect on the relationships. See it as a part of your past and look forward to the future.
Think about what was the issue that caused her to cheat on you, was she unhappy, was she unfullfilled, did she just use you as a backup? (Many girls do that when they break up with a guy, it seems like you were just the rebound relationship for this new girl to get over the ex boyfriend. Many girls do that, its not uncommon. These relationships last maybe like 6 months to 1 year, often times the gf will get back with the ex because they have a stronger emotional bond)
About the 30 yo old and not having a wife. It's alright brother, most people go into a relationship because the fear they can't get any better than what they already have. See, i may not be 30 years old yet but i also take time to get the right friends and girlfriends into my life, wanna know why? Because it's my life and i wanna get the best out of it. If you notice that you get played, fooled around or cheated on you just move on, as hard as it is.
If you start to improve yourself and put your priorities first then you will eventually attract the right people into your life. Just keep on moving bro, you got this.
Daggermouthx
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Can confirm. Lots of drugs and partying, then obsession, and finally peace.