Fuck what all these trolls are talking about bro. They would rather TRY to be funny rather than giving a possible solution. As a guy who has no problems with getting women, this is where normal guys fall and it can happen to any man in love no matter what you look like or how much money you have. You overlook things and second guess yourself to stay in a shitty relationship rather than working on you and finding someone who actually fits with you. Dating isn't a game, I stay single and smash or have fwbs because dating is a very serious thing that will take time, money, and energy.
Plain and simple if you feel she is cheating dump her. Literally, no point in staying if you're not a paranoid person, and don't think hard if you are one or not simply because of this chick, you know if you overreact or not in other life situations deeming you so. Always listen to your gut, if she's not, she shouldn't be making you feel as if she is.
I say, fuck that bitch, dump her, and get on your physical, mental, and financial grind... but yall are still on that loverboy bullshit (which I definitely understand) so if you need a test, here's one as I know no intrusive methods past phishing which anyone can look up but success may be abysmal:
1. Let your phone die
2. Ask to use her phone saying you need to look something up - (if this bitch flinches, hesitates, questions, and doesn't give it up immediately.. bruh don't even trip on some hoe shit. just leave right there.)
3. If she gives the phone take her phone to look something random up that you're interested in.
4. Once you've pulled up a blog article on said thing, walk to the kitchen for a drink or find an excuse to walk away with her phone to see how she reacts.
5. If she doesn't overreact or has no concern, you have free range into her messengers.
If she needs you in the vicinity or to look at what you're doing she's likely cheating or hiding something like texts, images etc... don't even fight to keep the phone or question her as women are gaslighters when emotional and don't take accountability her cheating could be your fault in her head. Just leave, don't be emotional, accept it and try to be happy that regardless of it all, you saved yourself time, money, and energy. Don't stay with a cheater, you're expected to risk your life for this woman and shes likely messing around with others, have some self respect and leave if it is what it is, and don't be afraid to leave at any point if shes not and decides to act up. If you don't feel like this is easy to do past the emotional aspect its because you're not confident, and you're not confident because you aren't grinding improving yourself to be someone to be confident of. Which you can do in a relationship, easier single, but nothing wrong with being in a relationship. Being in a shitty one is, especially when your gut is telling you all isn't well.. AND YOU KNOW IF IT IS or ISN'T.
Another thing to check if she has an iPhone is her Bluetooth saved connections, and her cloud messenger backup in the settings area.
1. Bluetooth will show if shes been connecting to other peoples cars or home systems.
2. People think when they delete texts, images and videos that it's gone forever with apple products but nope, everything is saved as a backup no matter how long back until you delete them from your cloud backup so evidence is likely there.
Don't crashout or act crazy about a bitch bro, especially one that's like this, definitely not worth going to jail over or trying to get over on. The way a man shows people up is by being or becoming a success without them in your life to benefit because THEY WILL SEE IT. Especially with the internet today. Good luck, stay up, don't be surprised about shit, it was already in your gut, men pivot to the next.
I came here for day trading and online money opportunities, been on here for years never posting, and wound up talking bout chicks... that's enough BHW for me today.