Ok mate, you will hardly find anyone on these forums to talk about this, but yet I have some free time.
First of all please learn some English grammar, and put some freaking points and commas. Also don't use that ugly color, my eyes are bleeding, lol... (Not that my grammar is perfect, but I try...)
So, here is how male brain works. Imagine you are in an empty room that has nothing, but 20 monitors in it. This room is the part of your brain that likes women. As you are currently so much in love with this 1 girl, that all the monitors are showing this very same girl. This is making you retarded. And yes I mean a social invalid that can't make a phone call without feeling awkward. In order to fall out of love with this girl, you will have to fill these monitors with DIFFERENT girls. That's right, this is the only 100% working way. Just find some other girls to chase. OetherS, that means more than just 1, and you will be fine. Been there, done that.
As long as all the monitors are showing the same girl, you wont fall out of love. Find some new girls and fill your monitors with as many girls as possible. As soon as you get 3-4+ different girls you will stop CARE at all about what you are talking, how do you behave, etc. This will help you to act normal, and not like a retarded 13 years old virgin looser.
Telling her that she is the most beautiful girl and you love her
over the phone is probably the biggest mistake you can ever make. Don't get me wrong, you
can't tell her this if you meet in person as well. You just can't tell her how beautiful she is, she probably already knows that. Of course you can say that she looks pretty for your date, but never say that she is the most beautiful girl you met (srsly WTF?!). NEVER. PERIOD.
I guess she might be really beautiful, which makes it logical that SHE KNOWS she is hot. Pointing the obvious will not make her fall in love with you. Almost exclusively. Perhaps there were tens of other guys telling her how beautiful she is, and by stating this, you are in no way distinguishing from the others. Crazy as it sounds, girls DO NOT want you to tell them how beautiful they are, to give them flowers, and to be super nice and gentle with them. There are plenty of losers already doing this, just to bump her ego. And this is exactly what this girl used you for. Don't be ashamed, and don't take this personally, just enter the real world.
Yet if you ask a girl "What do you want from a man?" She will most likely respond: "I want him to be charming, to be nice with me, to treat me well, to spoil me, to give me flowers, to be romantic, to tell me how beautiful I am, yada yada..."
A FUCKING BULLSHIT!!! SHOCKING, yeah?! Following this strategy of being the nice guy is probably the fastest line to the friend zone, in which you already are (No, there is no chance you can get out, It's too late now). I can't explain why every girl will actually say they are looking for a nice guy, when in fact they aren't. Being the nice guy is a good strategy once you have found the love of your live, and you already live together, or things are becoming pretty serious. Of course you will be the nice guy for a girl you want to spend the rest of your live with, but in the beginning you can't get her on by being the nice guy. Yet, the nice guy is the worst strategy to get her to like you, or to get in her panties. I expect some BHW female members to even argue with me, but this is an open forum where everybody shares his opinion. This is my opinion.
So, you don't have to be the nice guy. Never. It just won't work to get her to like you or just sleep with you. Of course there are exceptions, especially with girls who haven't got many boyfriends in the past, this is where the nice guy strategy
might work. But most of the time for hot chicks it will almost certainly fail.
Again, don't take me wrong - you don't have to be the jerk, badass who is making her cry or anything. This also works, but there is a middle stage that really do wonders. I call this middle stage being a
MANLY MAN.
If you go back in time, man were the hunters, who were hunting wild animals and feeding the whole tribe. Do you think that a real hunter who is killing wild animals on daily basis will go and cry about a girl, and telling her how beautiful she is? No! He is going to her, saying "I WANT YOU", because this is what he wants and he knows that. He doesn't have to be romantic or anything, he is just choosing her. This is MANLY. Do you think the hunter will go and write poems for her? Or maybe get her flowers every time they meet? No! Manly mans do not write poems, songs, make hours of call phones just to tell her how beautiful she is. No, no no... They call her on the phone and ask for a date. This is how you tell a girl you like her.
So once again - what women want from a man? They want a
Manly man. Simple as that. If you ask what man want from women? Simple... man like feminine women... WOAH!
The booty call: "Hi there, would you like to go out with me to ...do something...?" So, you don't have to state the obvious that you like her. By calling her and asking her out, you make it pretty clear that you want her, and she knows that. If she puts her bitch shield up and ask "Who else is coming?" just respond as a MANLY MAN who likes girls. "Nobody else, just me and you on a date, you dumb bitch!".
Ok, forget about the "dumb bitch" part, but I guess you got it right. You are a man who is expressing his wishes, because this is what man do. If man like something he is
ACTING in order to get what he WANTS. Writing poems, talking with her for hours on the phone is exactly like being a hunter who goes to the deer and ask her to come and suicide, so he doesn't have to kill her. Ridicolous, right?
That being said, you have to become a manly man. Start acting like a man, who wants something and ACT to get what he wants. This is what man do. Change your walking to appear as manly as possible, train your voice to become deeper, train 3 times a week (no need to become Mr. Muscle), enjoy your life because you are a man who gets what he wants. Don't be a pussy talking on the phone for hours, this is what women do. Leave the talking to them, this is women's strength.
If she sees a manly man, she will have to make sure that you are an actual man. This is the casual bitch testing. You might ask her to do something, and she will try to make you do something different, just so it happens her way. Don't let this happen. Learn to say a freaking "NO!". You are the man, you pick whatever you want, you do whatever you want, you fuck whoever you want. You will be amazed but the easiest way to get super hot girls is by saying NO to pretty much anything. Super hot chicks almost never get a NO for an answer, especially fro man. Saying NO to anything will make her wet, true story.
Real life experience: One of my hottest real life female friends once asked me for a lighter. I gave her my lighter, so she can light up her cigarrete, and she really liked the lighter as it was shining in the dark or something. This lighter costed me less than $1. So she asked me to give her the lighter. "-Whaaat? I would NEVER EVER give my lighter, get your own...lol". She asked me again several times, then she started begging me to give her the stupid lighter. No, no, no, and no. This super-hot girl started hugging me and asking me what do I want from her in order to give her the lighter (Here you have to stay calm and say there is LITERALLY NOTHING she could EVER do to make me give her the freaking lighter. O yeah, this drove her crazy as she was almost kissing me at this moment... and I was STONE COLD serious about my intentions not to give her the lighter). She knew that the lighter was a cheap one, yet she really wanted it. Why? Because nobody, especially other man, never refused anything to her. At this point she didn't want the lighter, she just wanted to hear yes and get what she wants, because she is a super-hot girls and other man would kill to give her a present or something, so she could be happier. I guess I was one of the first to refuse something to her... and that something was a stupid freaking ligther, haha. Long story short I banged her so hard, she will never forget. I also didn't gave her the lighter, yeah!
One more piece of advice - when you take her out, better go for an "action" date where you guys are supposed to do something, instead of talking. Talking is women's strength. Acting is man's strength. So, take her out to play some bawling, pool, or even climbing a mountain. If you get her on a dinner where you have to talk a lot you will be screwed, unless you get better.
Hope this helps.
Regarding this very same girl. Here is what you do. Your chances are currently below zero. Trust me, I know. Wait 7-8 days and call the bitch on the phone. The call duration cant be more than 45 seconds. Simply ask her out on a date. She will most likely refuse. Tell her you appologize for your earlier dumb behaviour and you tried to follow your friend's advice and tell her how beautiful she is. Tell her that she is not actually that beautiful and there are plenty of better girls you see everyday, but you only said this because your friend gave you this advice. Say sorry that you lied to her, and that you really wanted just to sleep with her as you find her very hot and you think she would be a nasty girl, but after the past 7 days you realized this was the wrong approach. Tell her that it doesn't matter now, because you realized your dumb mistake to play someone you are not. Without saying anything else wish her good luck in life, and appologize for trying to use her. Then hang up the freaking phone.
She might bite this and call you back, agreeing to meet you. Or she might not. It doesn't really matter, because you already blew your chances with a big trompet.
And seriously dude, where are you in the SERPs????
