Bully gets his butt kicked... what's your opinion?

GrizzlyAdams said:

The big kid could have easilly killed that little one if he landed on his neck. It's both parents faults. For the bully, probably bad problems at home that leads him to act out the way he is, and the victim, his parents are probably not as open with him as they need to be or they would have advised him to tell teachers. Or they could be worse and would have encouraged this violence agaisnt the bully (disgusting). It's good that the bully got what he deserved but violence just escalates things in my opinion. The bully needs a real friend, a role-model. a hobby or some counselling. I feel sorry for both of these kids. Because it exploded on the internet it will stick with them a lot longer in their lives then if it was kept relatively private.

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no offense, Grizz, but it's this type of thinking that leads to this kind of thing.

Would YOU like to be taught pacifism while someone is eager to exploit that pacifism? What if someone was in your home right now, punching you or a loved one in the face while you watched?

If you got upset or decided to defend yourself or the loved one, would you feel you needed some kind of guidance or counseling afterwards?

Despite what people may believe, t has always been the kind of world where parents will say "let me teach my child pacifism, because I understand violence isn't the way." Meanwhile, the child says "Let me go punch this fat kid in te face, because his parents have made him a pussy and mines won't don anything about it".

Except now, thanks to mass media, there's a lot more people preaching peace while waiting to get punched in their smiles.

i cant believe this is news. didnt we all grow up like this? anyway, the kid got what was coming, and quite frankly, casey's conduct was beyond reproach. i say that because when you begin inflicting violence on someone and your adrenaline begins pumping, you stop thinking and you keep going and going. he stopped and walked away. he probably did the bully a favor too.

okay lets stop arguing. the little kid is a piece of shit.. hopefully not anymore. the big kid did something called... u ready for this?

SELF DEFENSE

had the kid not started it, the big kid would not need to use SELF DEFENSE. cause and effect. You jump out of a 5th story window, you will probably die. Lesson? DO NOT JUMP OUT OF A WINDOW.

LESSON LEARNED? YES. CLASS IS OVER KIDS.

I'm really just baffled by three things though:

1. this has made world news

2. There's a kid being called a bully and the other kid is 4 times his size, it just doesn't seem right

3. There are people saying either the fat kid or everyone is wrong.

I loved it, reminds me how we did it back in the 90's what people fell to realize is this may had been going on for months or weeks now. The only way to solve a problem like this is to make someone the example.

If you notice after the lil dude got body slammed his friend wanted to step to the plate, and he thought about it, more then likely thinking DAMN! look at the example that was left for me to follow behind I might wanna chill on this one.

1 thing is for sure, nobody in that school is gonna try it again, and at the end of the day fat kid won the war and who knows he might even get some ass from some cute chick name emily.

This no hitting back is bullshit.

A friend mine a few years back literally sent him to the hospital. He didn't fight back because the principle said you'll get kicked out if you hit at all.

Then 2 years ago, some kid thought it would be cool to be a funny guy with me. Punches me square in the face, saying he is too short to hit me(I'm 6'5''). I beat the kids ass and get expelled, the other kid gets 1 week of detention...

Fucked up system man.

tacopalypse said:

they're both retards. no one wins.

brent360, love the avatar btw

haha xD

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I suppose, if you were Casey, then you would have stood there and kept getting punched and did nothing to stop it so you "wouldn't" be a retard?
Cmere and let's see what you would do if I continually kept punching you with my closed fist. Remember, you are going to be labeled a retard for fighting me back, so you better be careful.

I have been there when I was younger. You do your best to get along and stay out of the bully's way. Then there comes a time when you have enough.

I was small for my age and this one dude kept giving me sh*t day after day. Then one day he flipped me in the back of my ear with his finger as I was walking by him and his "buddies". I threw his a** up against the wall and took my forearm under his chin and picked him up off the ground. He was turning blue. I told him that this sh*t was over and he might be able to whip my a** but he was going to have to do it everyday from that point forward if he so much as looked at me again.

Word got around about what I did and I never got any sh*t again from anybody.

I always remember this saying I heard somewhere over the years..." I'm not a bad a** but I can get that way in a hurry if need be".

The best way to stop bullying is to stand up for yourself or someone who can't stand up for themselves.

i've seen this over an over again and i really can't stop laughing when i see how he slams that little prick

My dad used to tell me, "You better not start any fights but if one starts you better be the one left standing"

With all this non violence bs what are we really teaching our kids? I mean really teaching them because I have an answer.

We are teaching them to be dependent instead of self sufficient. If you teach them to run to a teacher no matter what then later in life they will run to the government no matter what. All the government needs to do is keep other armies from invading my country. I will take care of myself.

I was unemployed for 2 years and what did I do? Never took one red cent of unemployment and worked out a plan to start my own business. I found enough odd jobs to live off of.

I have told my kids that they better not throw the first punch but they better throw the last. I don't care if they get suspended because my kid will always have the right to defend themselves. My daughter did get suspended for this very thing.

Hey you guys from Australia..... Keep us informed and if this so called parent decides to sue his parents maybe we can start a defense fund for them.

I have always told my son that if someone hits him first to finish the fight anyway needed. But, if he thinks he can start the fight then it will be me finishing it when he gets home. My son is 13 6'1 195 so I believe that no one will be picking on him anytime soon. Bottom line the bigger kid did what he had to in order to quit the smaller kid from continuing to torment his life.

I saw on a news report that both boys got expelled because that's school policy; which I don't have a problem with because it would be wrong for a school to condom violence. The "Bully" also came out public and said that the boy who he bullied talked smack to him first; which I find hard to believe.

I find it baffling that @workingwhileworking determines a bully based on size and not actions. I enjoyed this story and honestly thought it deserved to be world news. We don't need 24 straight hours covering Japan or Libya. I think it sends a strong message to other bullies around the world.

I like what the boy did to the bully, it was deserved.

I don't see any problem with what the bigger kid did. He stood there and took MORE than one punch, taunting, and embarrassment, and finally when he couldn't take it anymore he took 1 larger action that ended the bullying right there.

He didn't throw the bully on the ground and pound his face in or taunt him while he was vulnerable. He disabled the bully so he would be left alone and then walked away. That may be against school rules, but what else do you expect? To go find a teacher and tell her what's happening? 9.99 times out of 10 he will get his ass kicked EVEN MORE! All the typical suggestions like, try to talk it out, go find a teacher, or just walk away will NEVER work. Maybe once in a blue moon will all that crap work, but eventually the bullying will just start up again.

He did exactly what he should have. Nothing more and nothing less. That kid in my opinion is a hero for what he did and he can be sure that little shit won't be messing around with him anymore.

Rant over

Anyone with a pedagogical degree saying the biggie ought to have told a teacher should be fired on the spot as he or she clearly has no clue how children societies work. In the eyes of his peers, snitching is the biggest sin a kid can commit. It is taught in the very first courses of educational theory.

Secondly, what a teacher could do anyway? We have one victim, one bully and 5 or more buddies of the bully. So it goes like this:
Teacher: Is this true?
Vicitm with an obvious physical advantage: Yes
Scrawny bully: No
5 or more other kids: No
= dead end.

It's easy to suggest alternative methods of behavior but they need to be actually applicable otherwise it's just utter BS worthy of populating an autoblog.

The only one that should be sued is the school principal for failing to prevent the accident. His caste needs to be reminded that their jobs is mainly to employ violence prevention (not through scare tactics), and not simply punishing after the fact (which is using violence in itself). This is not Argentina in the 70s where you got punished for standing your ground.

I would donate for the legal representation of the big kid.