Bulk Email VPS Hosting that Ignores Complaints?

I purchased a list to send marketing emails for my site. The first few months I'll have a high number of complaints and bounced emails. I have an unsubscribe link and am using a service that automatically permanently removes anyone who unsubscribes, complains or is bounced. Eventually I'll have a clean list but to get to that point I need a VPS host that ignores any issues with complaints. I know this has been discussed here before but I wanted to see a current list of recommendations. Any suggestions?

Thanks!