Body language is shit

lancis said:
Are you sure she is not cross-eyed? And was actually staring past you all this time?
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Lol, True, it might be to her, that you're stalking her or, is she having High BP that her "crush" sent her a PM?
 
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mancar487 said:
lol was the message you sent her creepy by any chance?
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I have asked her when she'll come out so I can meet her?.. something along those lines..

Yeah, I'm a loser.. And I'm male btw, ignore my username :) But what I feel what's even worse is that my female friends pushed me to just send the message, they were like "yeah it's okay, whatever she responds in the chat she would tell you in the real life anyways". I guess she wouldn't say anything at all lol..

And btw I'm not needy or anything, in the meantime I had a gf, met some other girls as well... but she turned me upside down.. pff..
 
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So, let me get this straight.
It took 1.5 years to send here a message on facebook?

What does that have to do with body language?
 
shanna_doll said:
LOL I can't get myself some because I'm more into emotional stuff than mere sex. Well to be honest I had huge problems before because I was kind of degraded and fucked up by my so called friends in elementary school and I had hard time getting confidence even in high school but after reading some pick up forums (simple pick up forum) I gained confidence and I approached like 5-6 women and it was kinda easy. Now I have confidence and I consider myself pretty (even if that sounds stupid) but this girl.. this girl is kinda scary to me.. and I wanted to approach her but I see her every 2 months or so.. and that happens randomly.. but every time I see her, I noticed some stuff going on so I couldn't stand the pressure and just asked her on FB literally when she is planning to go out so I can approach her.. that has been my message on FB.. and yeah I probably wimped out, but if she likes me, then why she didn't respond at least something that could give me a hint.. -.-
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You asked her when she is planning to go out over Facebook so that you can approach her? Did you also tell her you have 5mg of etorphine and experience embalming a body, too?

You don't message someone over Facebook with a question that could come off as creepy, especially a "pretty girl". They get messaged over Facebook by lecherous people all the time, so the last thing they want is an omega male (this is not necessarily a bad thing)who has been eye-raping them to message them over Facebook of all places. I have autism and even I know not to do this.
 
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All is not lost. Next time you see her and if she gives you the eyes again, feel free to approach her. Just tell her you want to take her to dinner or movie, ask her what she likes, set a date, exchange numbers and take it from there.

Social media is too impersonal. Only useful for casual conv once you have a meaningful connection (after a couple of dates).

Now, if she is there with a boyfriend and doing this...stay away...she's playing games and will with you if you get that far.

As others mention, try having conversations with other girls...opens up your options and the practice will work wonders for your confidence. Talk to girls in locations other than those known for getting hooked up...no expectations so nothing lost.
 
shanna_doll said:
Yeah, I'm a loser..
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Dude your not a luser, don't beat your self up. We all have made mistakes and will probably do in the future considering most of the men are losing there shit when they are near a women.
And yeah you made a mistake so what, big deal, get over it.
 
shanna_doll said:
So there is this girl, she was staring at me for the past 1 and a half years or so.. she wasn't like literally staring but I caught her several times turning around to see me, she was looking at me in a club in a cute way for like 2 hours, she passed me in a club once and when she was soo close to me she raised her head and looked in my eyes for a second.., when she used to pass a shop where I used to lounge with my friends, she was playing with her hair looking at me and I was 99% sure that she is into me. No matter where I stumbled upon her, every time we met each other she was doing some weird stuff like watching me directly in the eyes for long and acting like she is shy even she is actually not.. And much more stuff happened..

I have had a gf before and I met some girls so I'm not a kid, but even my female friend said that this is soo obvious and that I'm just wasting my time because someone else could grab her. She kinda looks like a very serious girl, because she never smiles (guys know what I'm talking about) but still I thought I should approach finally.. However, I don't see her very often, so I couldn't stand the pressure and I just sent her a message on Facebook..

Result: SEEN


Needles to say, I'm feeling like shit, I don't believe any of body language 'signs' anymore. How do you guys deal with this shit ?

tl;dr - met this girl, saw her watching me and doing some stuff I thought she is into me like I have never met a girl that was soo much into me.. result: SEEN on stupid FB
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Maybe she only likes to stare at you... or your messages..

jokes a side let it be a lesson for you next time take actions(not throu facebook messanger) right away
 
shanna_doll said:
I have asked her when she'll come out so I can meet her?.. something along those lines..

Yeah, I'm a loser.. And I'm male btw, ignore my username :) But what I feel what's even worse is that my female friends pushed me to just send the message, they were like "yeah it's okay, whatever she responds in the chat she would tell you in the real life anyways". I guess she wouldn't say anything at all lol..

And btw I'm not needy or anything, in the meantime I had a gf, met some other girls as well... but she turned me upside down.. pff..
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That's not always true, the environment you contact her in can make a difference. People tend to be more conceited online, so she's more likely to think, "Wow, this weird guy just tried contacting me over Facebook! This just proves that I'm hot and irresistible, but I don't want this guy, so I'll reject him and tell all of my friends just how hot I am". However, if you met her in a more "natural" environment (park, school, church, etcetera), she may be more likely to reciprocate your carnal desires.

You're also not a loser just because you cant talk to a girl. A loser is this guy I know who sells drugs out of his mothers house, beats his girlfriend, and acts like he's living the hard life. That is a loser, not you.
 
shanna_doll said:
Yeah, I'm a loser.. And I'm male btw, ignore my username :) But what I feel what's even worse is that my female friends pushed me to just send the message, they were like "yeah it's okay, whatever she responds in the chat she would tell you in the real life anyways". I guess she wouldn't say anything at all lol.. .
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never take dating advice from girls, really. It always sucks. Its not that they are mean, it is just that they respond to different things than what they tell you. Most girls are not consciously aware of the traits and behavious that they find attractive in a man
 
Walk up to her, say hi, introduce your self, have a conversation.

Worst she can do is say no.

Don't try to pick up chicks on FB. It can work..but you have to realize how many messages girls get from guys on FB.
Every time they update their profile pic or anything they get a few messages of guys saying the exact same shit.
That turns girls off.

Confidence is key.
 
Some girls just want YOUR attention instead of YOU. Once she got your attention, got bored and moved onto another guy.
 
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