Are relationship still worth it as a man

It isn't about whether relationships are good or bad, it is about finding the RIGHT partner.
If you find somebody who shares the same goals and has the same commitment, then they can help you and support you in many ways.
If you find the wrong partner, then they can certainly destroy everything you are trying to build.
Some people would rather not take the chance of finding the wrong person or are afraid to get into a relationship.
When you do settle down, then your partner should be your best friend and closest ally.
 
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So people are hugging trees these days I heard.

The importance of companionship, affection, & support
"1. Companionship / Belonging
2. Affection (Verbal and Physical)
3. Emotional Support / Validation

For couples, these needs are ideally met in the partnership. Strong couples are able to be good companions (sharing their day to day lives, personal histories, and interests together), give verbal and physical affection (affirmations, hugs, sexual intimacy, compliments, etc), and provide emotional support (being there to help during tough times, validations when the person is struggling, etc)."

Well, I don't know who will validate your business idea. An idiot from Reddit? Maybe. Will it be successful? In 5000 years maybe you'll get 1 click.

The result of missing out on this and resorting to stuff like alcohol will be this:

"As adults, not having these met adequately leads to feelings of loneliness and sometimes can move into hopelessness or depression. Most adults can manage some periods of time without these being adequately met, but it is important for our overall health that they are attended to."
 
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A relationship with a girl who is good and right for you is uplifting and keeps you moving forward
The main thing to realize is that if you get "bad girls", you choose them yourself, do not blame them, try to understand yourself and your priorities.
Look not at the appearance, but as an equal person
 
Cristof Oropagani said:
A relationship with a girl who is good and right for you is uplifting and keeps you moving forward
The main thing to realize is that if you get "bad girls", you choose them yourself, do not blame them, try to understand yourself and your priorities.
Look not at the appearance, but as an equal person
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No man is perfect.
You can make someone worse or better. ;) Both literally and figuratively.
 
Companionship from your partner
Quality time from your partner
 
someone you can share moments with, I knew a couple that never had nothing sexual related they are like friends girl and boy but they are in a relationship, just enjoy the company cudle, and walk taking the hand of each other, if you feel alone a women won't fill that empty space, could be a friend, dog, cat, your work, a sport, a relationship anything that you feel pation to do, and a realation was something real because was the begining to form something serious a family now no one want to form a family and with current worl situation is even harder
 
Hey man, I have a girlfriend and I love her very much. I think of us as a team.. relationships are like that so have her as a support and I bet you will be soaring high.
 
Norman_drey said:
aside from sex what else a young man can benefit in a relationship?
am starting to think being in a relationship is of no use.
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Yes they are! Men are babies most times or should i say want to be babies most of the time because of the responsibility they carry. That's why as a man, be intentional about "courting" a lady. Yes, i did not say dating because it has given room for awful, and nasty behaviors in relationships been justified. But when you are courting a lady, there are intentions laid straight, you both are expressive, holding back nothing, growing and working on each other as well.
And as a man, if that woman you want to be in a relationship with doesn't come with 'peace of mind?' Then let her go, your woman is suppose to annoy you, but it comes with a positive peace of mind. It all balls down to you "FINDING THE RIGHT WOMAN".
 
companionship? someone to go through this wild adventure that is life with? good relationships aren't about sex imo. hell, at some point your pecker will betray you and her breasts will scrape the pavement! me? i seek someone i can laugh with as we change diapers. dang old threads getting bumped, speaking of old! :eek:
 
a relationship with a female has no use, most of the time you don't gain, empirically speaking. but when life gets a little boring and when the logic doesn't logic, they're good for such moments c:
 
Well i am agree that its very hard these days but i hate when people say they dont want to mary ,dont want to build a family because its not worhing nowadays

Yea i know how it is but what we do we stay single all our life like retards ?

No my people we need to fight and try to find a wife and build a family and create childs

Thats way god leave us on this earth and its our duty

This thing with no life ,no family its a satanic thing so dont let it take control over you

Ok beying single its better and nice etc but after all you need to build a family

Dont give up my people
 
icekomugi said:
a relationship with a female has no use, most of the time you don't gain, empirically speaking. but when life gets a little boring and when the logic doesn't logic, they're good for such moments c:
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As a woman I have the same feeling about relationships with men. And don't go all 'oh, but men PROVIDE' on me because I had one like this too and it was toxic af, wanted to separate me from everyone else and close me at home basically, even though he knew that I don't want to start a family/have kids he'd try to force that. He knew I was already working and about to go to college but still was going with this crap. I'm not your motherfuckin mail order bride...
 
Norman_drey said:
aside from sex what else a young man can benefit in a relationship?
am starting to think being in a relationship is of no use.
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Kevin Samuels offered some good advice in this regard. He said that when you're in your early 20s, work on yourself first, and then, once you're successful, women will automatically come into your life.
 
Norman_drey said:
i think the only thing most girls can offer is sex, maybe am wrong lemme hear from you all
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It`s a good thing that you are thinking it. Do you also want her to offer you money? lol. I wonder what you offer as well..
 
Its value isn't automatic, that's for sure. Depends heavily on finding someone genuinely compatible and both partners being willing to put in the effort to build something mutually supportive.
 
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