Anyone ever dated an Indian girl?

If your parents are Indian, then you are aan Indian not a Brit. Living abroad doesn't change your race LOL.
 
Advertise on BHW
enovator said:
What about genetical attraction? If both of your parents are Indian origin, from evolutionary point of view, don't you think you should feel attraction for them?

Take my example. I am Indian myself, that's is why I don't find blonde girls attractive at all. So much so that I don't watch porn clips with one blonde and one brunette...!
Click to expand...
You do not understand how evolution nor genetics work it seems. The more different genes your partner have the less chance of bad genes becoming dominant. So if you are brown guy from India, your best shot for healthiest progeny is white girl from Scandinavia. So the "genetical attraction" of yours is just badly hidden xenophobia.
 
Aulig said:
If he grew up in britain, has the british nationality and feels british, why should he not be british? @zubidoo @fireandgold
Click to expand...

I know right. It can't be that difficult to grasp what I'm saying here surely o_O

Iknowsomethings said:
You do not understand how evolution nor genetics work it seems. The more different genes your partner have the less chance of bad genes becoming dominant. So if you are brown guy from India, your best shot for healthiest progeny is white girl from Scandinavia. So the "genetical attraction" of yours is just badly hidden xenophobia.
Click to expand...

OMG I wish people would stop talking about other people like they're race horses :(
 
Last edited by a moderator:
man is it a " show off thread " stated how many type of girls from different countries you dated before bro ? Beware if u have unprotected sex " if " ....HIV , AIDS is not a joke go around having sex with different girls .
 
i didnt have any experience so far..
but i found an indian girl on Domcop Video look so damned beautifull

Cheers~
 
fireandgold said:
First of all, in my head - you're Indian, just cause you grew up in Britain doesn't make you less Indian (take that to the bank).

so you want to date someone's child because you are someone's child that was told to date someone's child (did i confuse you?)

Anywho, after losing someone I loved and just getting 'sorry' from my friends and family, I've learnt to understand that your happiness is KEY (take that to the doctor).

You've experimented with different cultures (girls) - one more experiment won't hurt you.

Personally, I'm thinking of dating ...
Click to expand...

Are you by any chance his Delhi girl? ;) Also, what's your real motive?

MrMagicHands said:
I'm a British guy and although my parent are both of Indian origin I have always considered myself British. I've never dated or been in any romantic association or relationship with an Indian girl before.

As I'm British, I've only really found other British girls or from English speaking western countries as relationship material due to cultural similarities (I've always felt there has to be some common social grounds for a relationship to really work!)
Ethnicity has never really bothered me much, most of my past experiences have been diverse but mostly British, I've dated a British carribean girl for some time, two British Pakistani girls (one of them was a true relationship my best <3) Turkish (worst experience!) and in high school a British Chinese girl (also quite serious until I got to college) but most have been English white.

Internationally - only South African and Canadian at Uni over three years and a brief fumble with a Vietnamese girl.


Thing is my parents for about a year have been pressuring me to look for an Indian girl and they're more interested in Indian girls form India - over the course of this year I've met numerous Indian girls and although I'm not usually the one to tar people with the same brush I have to say in every single case up till now I've never met any girls who are so stuck up in my entire life!

Every single little thing with them seems to be a close-minded act of judgement and worse, their families are always more interested in family background and personal income and net worth than the quality of the guy himself.
This has been the case with all of them. There is always an aura of coldness I sense about them that I've never felt with any girl before. Every single one is so obsessed with wanting to be 'western' that they're just tripping over their own feet in the process and don't seem to be at peace with themselves at all (or anyone else).

Thankfully, now I think I've managed to find a girl who is suitable. From Delhi but is studying here down to earth - not completely self-consumed like the others not judgemental or interested in money or just settling in the UK for the sake of it and just happy go lucky - maybe I just like her because she's different to all the others I've met so far during my travels to India but I just wanted to ask for anyone with experience with Indian girls is there any particular social trajectory they like? What kind of things in your experience makes Indian girls different and how can you bond with them (socially and emotionally) I might not be too familiar with things culturally but I have a good feeling about this one and am very very eager to give it a shot!

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Click to expand...

If its all about bragging then let me chip in too.. ;)

I have stayed in London for around 3 years and have dated several girls from various nationalities (Europeans being the most common) except for Indians from India.

I am an Indian myself and what I feel is it was very easy for me to make a European girl feel comfortable and were definitely easy to talk too. Europeans are generally known to be more "practical" and so being emotional and showing that you understand their emotions really worked well for me whereas Indians are too used to seeing the emotions flowing around from everywhere (movies, parents etc.). So, what Indian girls prefer nowadays is being practical which is exciting for them I suppose.

In short if you can understand and fill in the gap, you'll be good with any girl.. It ain;t that difficult ;)

In order to do that, start with yourself, be more aware and start understanding yourself better (by observing your actions as a third person) and once you do, youll do great
 
Last edited by a moderator:
PixelMathis said:
If your parents are Indian, then you are aan Indian not a Brit. Living abroad doesn't change your race LOL.
Click to expand...
"Indian" is not a race. Its not even ethnicity as there are many different ethnic groups in India. So what Indian is then? Nationality maybe?. As citizen born and living in India . Did he met this condition? Nope. So, he is indeed Brit (as person born and living in the Great Britain).
 
Iknowsomethings said:
"Indian" is not a race. Its not even ethnicity as there are many different ethnic groups in India. So what Indian is then? Nationality maybe?. As citizen born and living in India . Did he met this condition? Nope. So, he is indeed Brit (as person born and living in the Great Britain).
Click to expand...

"Indian" is a race. Sure there are different ethnolinguistic groups but almost all of them are going to have Indian ancestry.

I am referring to OP's race and simply living in a said country doesn't make someone from India a Brit just like how an Ethiopian doesn't become a Caucasian if he migrates to Europe.
 
Omg this is getting a bit annoying now - Republic of India is only about 60 years - an Indian is a citizen of that country. This does not apply here. I don’t say jai hind. I say god save the queen (yes i’m a fan of the royal family).

Where I worked in central London I had people coming up to me and speaking to me in Spanish, Italian and even asked if I spoke Portuguese. Now tell me, in such a cultural melting pot like UK esp London where people can’t often tell who is from where, like in this case, how can you just up and say someone is Indian or whatever just cause of the way they appear? Whatever the case, it doesn’t matter, as long as you’re British at heart!

If you want to be pedantic then call me British Brahmin. I don’t mind that since there’s no friction but British Indian or Indian is stupid and makes no sense.

OK rant over :-/ Back to work.
 
If you move to india and date an indian girl theres a lot of benefits, you can also date their mom, their moms sisters, her daughters sisters, her step sister, then you will live a big happy family..... :P
 
honestly, marriage depends on your personality, the difference between men and women are enormous in undeveloped countries, men and women are raised so differently that they don't know how to communicate with each other, each gender live in it's own world and both hold very backward stereotypes about the other gender, so in my opinion, your best bet is to stay away from traditional women and look for an educated and open minded women, in this case religion or color will not matter, but you're gonna have a high success rate with this type of people
 
MrMagicHands said:
Omg this is getting a bit annoying now - Republic of India is only about 60 years - an Indian is a citizen of that country. This does not apply here. I don’t say jai hind. I say god save the queen (yes i’m a fan of the royal family).

Where I worked in central London I had people coming up to me and speaking to me in Spanish, Italian and even asked if I spoke Portuguese. Now tell me, in such a cultural melting pot like UK esp London where people can’t often tell who is from where, like in this case, how can you just up and say someone is Indian or whatever just cause of the way they appear? Whatever the case, it doesn’t matter, as long as you’re British at heart!

If you want to be pedantic then call me British Brahmin. I don’t mind that since there’s no friction but British Indian or Indian is stupid and makes no sense.

OK rant over :-/ Back to work.
Click to expand...

Don't let it get to you Mate, people have trouble understanding that other people might identify themselves differently to what they were expecting.

Reading that back it sounds like nonsense but I hope you get the gist of what I am saying.
 
Don't listen to your parents on marriage, this one should be yours alone!

And btw Indian girls are ugly as fuck

Both mentally and physically

They are not great at sex and they age terribly.
 
Ultimately its YOUR life. Marry who you want to marry, but be prepared to face the consequences; that might mean your Indian family & friends turn their backs on you and you no longer belong to your british indian community.

Maybe the problem is you're going for stuck up middle class/upper class women that think too highly of themselves. Maybe find yourself a humble village girl ...
 
zubidoo said:
lol @ my parents are Indian but I'm Jamaican

nah bruv you're Indian too
Click to expand...

Wrong. People can identify however they want.

Men can identify as a women, women as men, midgets as NBA players and me as a BMW X5. :D

Millennial FOR EVER!!! :D xD xD xD
 
Advertise on BHW
You must log in or register to reply here.
Sign up now!

Main Menu

Home Main Forum List Black Hat SEO White Hat SEO BHW Newbie Guide Blogging Black Hat Tools Social Media Downloads

Marketplace

Account Selling Content / Copywriting EBooks / Methods Hosting Misc Proxies For Sale SEO - Link building SEO - Packages Social Media Social Media - Panels Web Design More

Making Money

Affiliate Programs Hire a Freelancer IM Journeys Making Money Pay Per Click Site Flipping Want to Buy

BlackHat World

Dispute Resolution Forum Suggestions & Feedback Introductions Lounge
Back
Top