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Anyone else here get jealous?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by blackma, Aug 8, 2011.

  1. blackma

    blackma Power Member

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    Met this girl. Got on really well with her. She is very pretty.

    Gutted. She has a boyfriend.

    I feel fucking sick any time I see her and have resorted to completely avoiding her or anywhere where she might be.

    This isn't rational, just cant help feeling nauseous with jealousy any time I see her or her picture appears in a friends album on FaceBook.

    I know I have no real feelings for her but I feel like I am under a fucking spell or something.

    :-(
     
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  2. GrizzlyAdams

    GrizzlyAdams Regular Member

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    Ecstacy would very likely make it MUCH worse.
     
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    GrizzlyAdams Regular Member

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    Haha maybe. I guess it is in the mindset of the beholder.

    Anyways, OP. It sounds like you have absolutely no game if you let a bitch get to you like this.

    May I suggest learning the way of the Don Juan?

    http://www.sosuave.net
     
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    Orbify Junior Member

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    fuck bitches, I get jealous every time I see someone making 3k/month from passive IM. Those threads have a fuken spell on me! I always avoid them
     
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  6. blackma

    blackma Power Member

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    I've been in this situation before. When I had gotten over it I looked back and thought how fucking crazy I was for letting myself getting like that.


    And here I am again :-(
     
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    I agree, women come easily and I spend almost 4 years going through chick after chick to find the gf I have now and couldn't be more happy. However, I get jealous when I see people making good money either with their own business or just in general online.


    An to OP if you think it bugs you now imagine actually being the Boyfriend and having chumps trying to go after your girl ALL THE TIME. fucking annoying. You eventually get over it but when your in a newer relationship with that person it can really test ya. I say move on, Ive been in your place and its unhealthy. Go screw one of your fuck buddies and go meet a bunch of other girls and you'll forget about her in no time and maybe by the time you run into her again she'll be single.
     
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    Don't feel bad or depress yourself about this stuff man. Everyone was in your position at one time.

    Think of it like IM, you're a noob with women just like you were a noob with Internet Marketing when you first started. You have to learn, because it is all a game, and just like Search Engines (women) you have to manipulate them.

    Read that forum I showed you. You can either become a pimp with the ladies and have them clawing at you, or you can be a loser that settles with the first women that sucks his dick, and marries and has children with her. It's up to you.
     
  9. Whitegold

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    Then you probably are and didn't even know it ... that's how tricky some spells are . .you probably weren't the intended victim either !
     
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    Are you falling in LOVE?! :)
     
  11. Autowriter1

    Autowriter1 Newbie

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    It's simple, you want what every guys wants, A GIRL. See guys are willing to put up with just about anything, because we're stupid when it comes to relationships. We will adapt to any girl as long as they give us a chance, and that's how it will stay forever.
     
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    Try this one on for size.

    My ex-gf of 3 years got in contact with me. We broke up a year ago. Claims she changed, and things will be different.

    Yet, i see her hollering at this dude she claims is her friend that she friended because he reminded her of me.

    I'm about to take out the scissors on this one.
     
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    Strygwyr Junior Member

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    This forum has entirely too many personal problems involving women. Everytime I log on someone is breaking up with someone, or having their heart broken - reminds me of a reality tv show or some shit.
     
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  14. blackma

    blackma Power Member

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    no. I am very shallow and let my emotions run away with me.
     
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    Funny I don't think I have ever been jealous over anything like that. I mean its nice to have money but it's like being jealous of somebodys high score in tetris.
     
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    Back in the day, I use to be a big time poster on that forum!

    OP,

    Everyone goes through that at some point, and you eventually get over your crush. You don't have anything real or deep with this girl, so move on with your life. Just accept that she with someone else and dont facebook stalk her!!!!:D
     
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  17. blackma

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    On the contrary. I do everything to avoid seeing her. Even deactivated my FaceBook.
     
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    Part of life. You'll move on for sure. It doesn't matter what type of jealousy you have. :)

    I would rather get jealous of millionaires. Because they get hot gals every now and then ;) . It could be because of the way things work around me. But i would rather have money that gives me more options for getting girls than becoming jealous for single gal. :p

    I guess it's life afterall. Jealousy phase stays for sometime and we get over it.
     
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    really idiots who believe in love before marriage
     
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    cry on her shoulder
     
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