AI is also destroying my dating experiences, it sucks

Yeah, please, give me your haha, because I’m a very introverted guy still relying on dating apps, sad but true.

And AI… the same crap that’s generating those shitty videos on Xvideos and YouTube, low-quality songs somehow ranking on Spotify, garbage comments on BHW, and spammy articles all over the internet, apparently destroying every human experience it touches, is now ruining dating apps too.

Here’s the main problem for me on apps like Bumble and Tinder: people are using Gemini or ChatGPT to “upgrade” their photos. Now everyone suddenly has super high-quality, professional shots. Even grandmas are posting princess-style portraits. Or Disney-themed photos. Or those dramatic, cinematic rain-on-the-street pictures. And TikTok is full of tutorials showing exactly how to generate these perfect AI photos, and people are actually doing it.

So what’s the problem?

The problem is that ugly people suddenly look like supermodel versions of themselves. Their facial expressions, imperfections, everything is fixed. They look way better than they truly are. This was a problem ten years ago, I'm sure, but right now, everybody has access to it, so it's out of control

Then, when you meet them in real life, you get disappointed because the expectations were built on something that isn’t real. Lmao, we're so cooked, even my Tinder old ladies and MILFs on Bumble are illusions now.

And I’m speaking as a guy, but I’m sure plenty of men are doing the same thing and “scamming” women with ultra-edited professional shots. It’s not a gender-specific issue.

Have you ever met someone from dating apps using AI to look way more beautiful and got frustrated during the first meeting?

Venusaur said:

The problem is that ugly people suddenly look like supermodel versions of themselves. Their facial expressions, imperfections, everything is fixed. They look way better than they truly are. This was a problem ten years ago, I'm sure, but right now, everybody has access to it, so it's out of control

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Even ugly girls needs sex, have mercy and bonk her.

So you’re getting catfished by grandmas? Damn… Glad I’m long gone from the dating scene :/

Venusaur said:

They look way better than they truly are.

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AI is my only hope to look good.

This has been a thing way before AI. Women have always edited their photos. They know their angles, the best lighting, rarely have body photos etc. What I learned online is that women are generally 2 points above their looks scale online than IRL. So if you think you’re meeting an 8 chances are she’s actually a 6. I’ve never met a woman online and had her be what I expected. They always look worse in person.

The flip side to this is men usually look BETTER in person because they haven’t learned the art of catfishing or simply too lazy to give a fuck.

Regardless it’s a huge problem because all these women get huge inflated egos and think they’re better looking than they actually are. Women complain they can’t find men and that’s because they aim out of their looks match. Majority of women are fuckable but not cute enough to date. So the good looking men run through them.

Average women are way more ran through than the beautiful ones and I will die on this hill. Good enough to fuck, but not date. When women are lonely or newly single there’s always the local Chad ready to fuck them and never take them seriously.

spmgd said:

This has been a thing way before AI. Women have always edited their photos. They know their angles, the best lighting, rarely have body photos etc. What I learned online is that women are generally 2 points above their looks scale online than IRL. So if you think you’re meeting an 8 chances are she’s actually a 6. I’ve never met a woman online and had her be what I expected. They always look worse in person.

The flip side to this is men usually look BETTER in person because they haven’t learned the art of catfishing or simply too lazy to give a fuck.

Regardless it’s a huge problem because all these women get huge inflated egos and think they’re better looking than they actually are. Women complain they can’t find men and that’s because they aim out of their looks match. Majority of women are fuckable but not cute enough to date. So the good looking men run through them.

Average women are way more ran through than the beautiful ones and I will die on this hill. Good enough to fuck, but not date. When women are lonely or newly single there’s always the local Chad ready to fuck them and never take them seriously.

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When was the last time you had a date lmao

spmgd said:

This has been a thing way before AI. Women have always edited their photos. They know their angles, the best lighting, rarely have body photos etc. What I learned online is that women are generally 2 points above their looks scale online than IRL. So if you think you’re meeting an 8 chances are she’s actually a 6. I’ve never met a woman online and had her be what I expected. They always look worse in person.

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I'd be embarrassed to make that statement.

Zombie Pop said:

So you’re getting catfished by grandmas? Damn… Glad I’m long gone from the dating scene :/

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exactly, porn probably destroyed my brain, now I can't resist a grandma or weird taboos

and now even old ladies installed gemini on their phones and they are playing with nano banana to look like professional model and fool stupid young men like myself

Venusaur said:

exactly, porn probably destroyed my brain, now I can't resist a grandma or weird taboos

and now even old ladies installed gemini on their phones and they are playing with nano banana to look like professional model and fool stupid young men like myself

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Your brain was gone well before you porned out... everyone knows that.

just buy AI-powered female sex robots
problem solved

Venusaur said:

ugly people suddenly look like supermodel versions of themselves.

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the same thing happens when you take tren

Forget these shitty apps where women act like princesses and men like mops. They make everyone depressed (mostly men in fact) and sometimes broke as well because these apps are not free if you want to stand out. Tinder algo buries your profile after a few days.
Best love stories are with someone you know from school when you were young. Try to contact some of your old friends and see how it goes

Yeah man it’s happening everywhere dating apps feel like a showroom not real life and meeting people feels like opening a mystery box now

spmgd said:

This has been a thing way before AI. Women have always edited their photos. They know their angles, the best lighting, rarely have body photos etc. What I learned online is that women are generally 2 points above their looks scale online than IRL. So if you think you’re meeting an 8 chances are she’s actually a 6. I’ve never met a woman online and had her be what I expected. They always look worse in person.

The flip side to this is men usually look BETTER in person because they haven’t learned the art of catfishing or simply too lazy to give a fuck.

Regardless it’s a huge problem because all these women get huge inflated egos and think they’re better looking than they actually are. Women complain they can’t find men and that’s because they aim out of their looks match. Majority of women are fuckable but not cute enough to date. So the good looking men run through them.

Average women are way more ran through than the beautiful ones and I will die on this hill. Good enough to fuck, but not date. When women are lonely or newly single there’s always the local Chad ready to fuck them and never take them seriously.

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what a true statement that is, NEVER has a girl showed up to a date looking better than her photos...maybe once actually but its usually like aww man this is a bummer of a situation I have gotten myself into lol

I love your posts bro, always entertaining lol