Advice needed on ex gf

1. I am drunk right now because of her

Was not going open this but I was talking about old FB accounts on another thread.

SO WHAT SHOULD I DO. I THINK HER AND I NEED TO TALK ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN. OTHERS SAID NO.

So I like this girl at my job for 5 years. We could never date because we were. Both with somebody else.

We started serious talking in February of this year

Beginning of April she was having family and health problems, thought had breast cancer but was cyst. Grandfather was sick. Son high cholesterol, etc.

Around April 15. Same day she was in hospital for grandfater, I injured my leg, doing trampoline with my daughter for one hour. I was on lot of medicine for pulled quad.

That day she thought I said something I did not say. She block me on Fb. Will not talk to me for about a month. She did not even tell me why she block me. I tried ask her but she will not tell me

So I was like fuck her to all of our coworkers friends.
Then end of April we say hi and bye

Late May we were talking more and more a few days later Then this slow guy comes up around may 21, told her what I said.

She confronted me about it. She said I need keep my mouth shut or she going tell Hr. I was like fuck this too much problems. That was a month ago when I said that. I was piss

From June to now been going out with different women.

One was my ex From like 5 to 7 years ago ( she got a rich man, I am the other guy. She lied to me. I am ok) was giving me a lap dance in a bar. Still seeing her. It went viral at my work.

Her friend told me what she thought I said and about that girl lap dancing.

My boss (link later. I got hit by armor car). Had going away party a week ago. Her and I had work together for food and beverage at the party. Small talk hi, etc

On Wednesday I set fake FB account said hey not sure if I have right person. I did not say what you thought I said and some other shit. I just want peace

Since Thursday her and I talking more and more. She even gives me that sexy smile now every time I walk by

Then she brings up to her friend today what I thought I said and other shit like lap dancing

What she thought I said. send me naked photos. It was google translate. She speaks Spanish. First time google fucked on me. She speaks English. Her friend said got mis translated

I just want have sex with another girl on Facebook. No I did have sex with her, every few weeks.

Past few days I was thinking what do I want from her, coworker peacefully, friend or more

Her friend said I think he LIKES you. I was like don't say that

She thinks I made the fake profile. I did. I tried tell her that but her boss was there. Then she left and I told her got interuppted.

Security guard seen us talking after 4 or 5 months. Says to her I just want to be FRIENDS. I said to security don't say that. He ask that is want you right. The original plan was to clear my name and be more peaceful. Never thought in million years her and I talk

What should I do. I know for girlfriend go slow.
We been through a lot so peaceful
Friends not sure about. My feelings for her is coming back


Should we have the talk about what I said and ex gf
Some odd reason the universe does not want us be together.

Then top it off.

I am separated from wife, recently about january. She lives in another state

My daughter wants us be together but not in love with wife. Like and care for her but not love. 15 years of marriage.

Miss my daughter a lot. Loss relationship because of her

The context of this thread is out of place and i cannot understand it fully.

From what i can get out of this clusterfuck is that you are emotionally invested in a girl that is totally playing with your emotions. See all the shit that she made you go through, its not worth your time or effort. This girl is just a waste of time and i highly recommend that you stop any interraction with her. She is totally having her way with you and you are just dealing with it and taking it all in. Stop now.

I was reading this post and then my neighbour came by and we read it together.

She said this post really changed her life and it touched my heart. My village people are so grateful.

Wow thanks for sharing.

I don't know about your GF buy you should start article writing service

Heiko said:

The context of this thread is out of place and i cannot understand it fully.

From what i can get out of this clusterfuck is that you are emotionally invested in a girl that is totally playing with your emotions. See all the shit that she made you go through, its not worth your time or effort. This girl is just a waste of time and i highly recommend that you stop any interraction with her. She is totally having her way with you and you are just dealing with it and taking it all in. Stop now.

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Was drunk last night and on cell phone and this auto correct

Cliff notes

This girl and I like each other long time but we we were with somebody else

In about March this year we started dated

In April she thought I said something did not say. We stop talking. I said fuck her.

What she thought I said send me naked photos of her. She did not tell me any of this. I wanted talk about What happen she did not

I found this through her friend 3 months later. I

In May we started talking then few days later, a slow guy fucked it up again by saying I said fuck her

From then until now we did not talk

In july, this other girl gave me a lap dance at a bar, went viral at my job. Still having sex. My ex gf did not like it so much.

Last week manager had good bye party. The ex and I had work together. Said hi and small talk

Every since Thursday we talk more and more

Yesterday, her friend talk to her and told her I did not say what she thought I said and also about the other girl giving me lap dance.

Her friend told her she thinks I like her again. I was like don't say that

The security guard seen us talking and told her that I just wants to be friends. I said don't say that

Then he ask me want do I want. I said I have no idea. Original plan be peaceful coworkers. To stop the hate

Friends, I am not sure because one of us might develop feelings again

It just seems like the universe or something does not want us be together that is why all kinds of problems happen her and I

Question

You think I should talk to her about our first fight where she thought I said something.

She has no idea that I know. She keeps bringing it up to her friend and about the other girl giving me lap dance. Brought it up a month ago and again last night

People at my job said no

I say only way move forward

Do I want to friends with not sure

I accomplish what I want, stop the hate

bluematter said:

I was reading this post and then my neighbour came by and we read it together.

She said this post really changed her life and it touched my heart. My village people are so grateful.

Wow thanks for sharing.

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Thanks a lot for reminding me of Fuckbook.

Men get over it there are 7billion people in this world you will find one someday. I just think you are pushing yourself here and thus not enabling yourself to do other things in your life. If you ask me I'd try to find a new job and just forget about her, if she tries to contact you after you find another job great, if not leave it. Don't stress yourself over a girl, you are a grown up man.

mikey29 said:

Was drunk last night and on cell phone and this auto correct

Cliff notes

This girl and I like each other long time but we we were with somebody else

In about March this year we started dated

In April she thought I said something did not say. We stop talking. I said fuck her.

What she thought I said send me naked photos of her. She did not tell me any of this. I wanted talk about What happen she did not

I found this through her friend 3 months later. I

In May we started talking then few days later, a slow guy fucked it up again by saying I said fuck her

From then until now we did not talk

In july, this other girl gave me a lap dance at a bar, went viral at my job. Still having sex. My ex gf did not like it so much.

Last week manager had good bye party. The ex and I had work together. Said hi and small talk

Every since Thursday we talk more and more

Yesterday, her friend talk to her and told her I did not say what she thought I said and also about the other girl giving me lap dance.

Her friend told her she thinks I like her again. I was like don't say that

The security guard seen us talking and told her that I just wants to be friends. I said don't say that

Then he ask me want do I want. I said I have no idea. Original plan be peaceful coworkers. To stop the hate

Friends, I am not sure because one of us might develop feelings again

It just seems like the universe or something does not want us be together that is why all kinds of problems happen her and I

Question

You think I should talk to her about our first fight where she thought I said something.

She has no idea that I know. She keeps bringing it up to her friend and about the other girl giving me lap dance. Brought it up a month ago and again last night

People at my job said no

I say only way move forward

Do I want to friends with not sure

I accomplish what I want, stop the hate

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Plain and simple. She is not worth your time. If she didn't let you score 5 years ago then she will never do it. You are wasting your time with this woman and that is all because you're emotions are all over the place. Man up and stop contacting her, say hi to her at work but nothing else. Don't try to resolve something that cannot be resolved. Just let her go. Out of your mind and in real life.

FIREBOSS said:

I don't know about your GF buy you should start article writing service

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I’m dead. LMAO.

Make her be mad at you.

"Mad at you" and "Mad about you" are very close.

And act like she is already in love with you madly, don't care if it's not true. It will be if you act like that for a while.

Love (and Life) is not about facts, it's about the energy you are emitting.

Forget about your needs. be careless and just dance through life and you will become irresistible.

Heiko said:

Plain and simple. She is not worth your time. If she didn't let you score 5 years ago then she will never do it. You are wasting your time with this woman and that is all because you're emotions are all over the place. Man up and stop contacting her, say hi to her at work but nothing else. Don't try to resolve something that cannot be resolved. Just let her go. Out of your mind and in real life.

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5 years ago we were both with somebody else.

Her last real boyfriend year ago
Me: last real relationship January this year

Stop contacting her. We did not talk 4 months. We just now started talking and laughing since Thursday. Only 2 days.

When I make her laugh it mostly in a group.

In group we barely talk but we talk when we are alone.

When we talk alone small talk and current events.

We do smile at each every time we pass by about 20 times a day.Out of those 20 times, we talk maybe 4 or 5. 1st and last time we pass by hi how are you and bye see you later. Then one of those 4 or 5 times is work related. She smiles at me first.

Time wise no time really invested, besides last night when got drunk and wrote this post and now. I am the border waiting to cross United States. 45 minute wait. So I have nothing else to do

Not sure what I want from her, coworker or friend.

What I want, for us talk about what happen instead of us going through somebody else. She needs tell me what problems she has with me instead of going through friend.

So real this story

It sounds honestly like she doesn't want to talk to you. And in that case I'd ignore her then try to seduce at a later date. Move on my friend she probably doesn't like that you get drunk & open up about things. You must learn to open up about things sober. You did it right in this thread I would break up with you just over that.

BreaknBrix said:

It sounds honestly like she doesn't want to talk to you. And in that case I'd ignore her then try to seduce at a later date. Move on my friend she probably doesn't like that you get drunk & open up about things. You must learn to open up about things sober. You did it right in this thread I would break up with you just over that.

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We are talking. Just started talking this week.

Got drunk because I do know what I want with her. I mean by that do I want her as coworker say hi and bye or as a friend, how was your day off, etc. Plus saturday night

I want to take it slow.

Not really want a relationship with anybody enjoying my freedom. Got a few girls on the side. No strings attach.


The main goal that I accomplish was stop the hating and say hi and bye.

Did not expect us talk so fast

Right now we are only talking alone. My reason, too many people know our situation.

They are going start talking, like you 2 back together. You and her going get married and have kids. People try make me jealous.

Not sure her reason but I kind of think same as mine.