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No blood was spilled so no foul is called.
A little help would be nice
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roydan
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Want a hug?
I ignore the other part of your comment hoping you already understood it was uncalled for.
its been a crappy lifetime. I saw a few days out of it thats when I realised theres a life beyond this hell
"hugs I dont mean no harm but people need to understand too you know.
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I feel for you. I also come from an abusive and dysfunctional family. I've had people close to me take advantage of that knowledge in life also further damaging my mind and emotions.
What you have to try to remember is that you are not your emotions or your thoughts. They come and go but you remain. Feelings and thoughts can't control you if you don't let them.
Don't fear what your family or anyone COULD do or MIGHT do. Those kinds of anxious thoughts will hold you back forever. Like a prison with bars made of fear.
Make your moves against your family or any abuser in silence. Don't tip them off in anyway of your confidence in your plans for the future. No smirks. No comments. Just do what you have to do that will make it impossible for them to stop you from leaving in the ways that you think they will. Then GO!
Good luck.
What you have to try to remember is that you are not your emotions or your thoughts. They come and go but you remain. Feelings and thoughts can't control you if you don't let them.
Don't fear what your family or anyone COULD do or MIGHT do. Those kinds of anxious thoughts will hold you back forever. Like a prison with bars made of fear.
Make your moves against your family or any abuser in silence. Don't tip them off in anyway of your confidence in your plans for the future. No smirks. No comments. Just do what you have to do that will make it impossible for them to stop you from leaving in the ways that you think they will. Then GO!
Good luck.
roydan
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Hugs won't help you solve anything. They will just help you justify feeling sorry for yourself. In your thread you asked for help, and I think you got it from every user who commented.
Yes thats what the hug was for.
Thats the plan sire. I hope you're doing well for yourself!
EpicTasking
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Sounds to me like you are a rich kid. Why not ask for your inheritance in advance and move out from that house 
Yes I am, I am here for a reason mate. I want to break away from all that. All I ask for is help and guidance.
EpicTasking
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It's gonna be hard for you to let go unless you are ready to live broke and start from scratch.
Oh I dont want the cursed inheritance, I want to break away from that filth
I dont mind that at all, I just need a place to myself thats why I am looking for things to do here.
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