Fear of getting married

Well,, dont take it so hard,, do you feel confortable with that person??

Best thung that happend in my life is was the moment i meet my wife!! We are 6 years togther,, we have a kid,, value them more then my own life,, i was like you at first,, your whole life is changes, so atleast go through thus changes with someone close ;) wish you best
 
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SlickSocials said:
Well,, dont take it so hard,, do you feel confortable with that person??

Best thung that happend in my life is was the moment i meet my wife!! We are 6 years togther,, we have a kid,, value them more then my own life,, i was like you at first,, your whole life is changes, so atleast go through thus changes with someone close ;) wish you best
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One thing I know for sure, I can't get any better wife than her. I mean, its this girl or none. Yes I do feel comfortable and just like I mentioned, everything has been great for the last 5 years, it's just me never being ready for a commitment. Any commitment that would result in bringing even the slightest change in my current life. But I really hope I get used to it somehow. the first few weeks or months would be the toughest for sure.
 
USA282 said:
One thing I know for sure, I can't get any better wife than her.
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My first post was a humor one albeit true but if that is how you feel my guess is you'll be just fine.

Life changing events cause trepidation in most people and often it is fear of the unknown as opposed to fear of something real and at hand.

Were I a betting guy I'd say you have 63 years of wedded bliss ahead of you.
 
I want to get married like you, but I have not got a girlfriend yet T___T
 
I want what I want when I want it. I think its just a piece of paper and an excuse to have a big party.

Fact if you take the money you spend on the wedding and invest it instead, it will change your life for the better.
 
It will pass brother not a big deal i was feeling the same back then when i was 15 and got married
 
This is called getting cold feet. it's a natural feeling when going through an emotional time like this. You are putting everything under a microscope and over analyzing. Imagine getting a call from her saying she has terminal cancer. I bet you would value the time and relationship a lot more. Live life like you're dying. Because you are.
 
Marriage for me is of top importance because I plan to only do it once. Its not only my word its my relationship with my wife and the mother of my future kids. Also, if you have faith its a commitment to God.

Be open with your partner to get rid of the fears. Fear = False Events Appearing Real

Find out now. I wish you well GL
 
USA282 said:
One thing I know for sure, I can't get any better wife than her. I mean, its this girl or none. Yes I do feel comfortable and just like I mentioned, everything has been great for the last 5 years, it's just me never being ready for a commitment. Any commitment that would result in bringing even the slightest change in my current life. But I really hope I get used to it somehow. the first few weeks or months would be the toughest for sure.
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you just said " I can't get better than her" then it's a no brainer man. Jesus my girlfriend asked me today when we are getting married, are her parents well off? gotta think about the future dude hahahaha. Pretty sure I am going to marry her soon, found out my her father owns part of KT in Korea, moving there soon no worries hahahaha. hope all goes well man you been with her a long time for a reason
 
USA282 said:
One thing I know for sure, I can't get any better wife than her. I mean, its this girl or none. Yes I do feel comfortable and just like I mentioned, everything has been great for the last 5 years, it's just me never being ready for a commitment. Any commitment that would result in bringing even the slightest change in my current life. But I really hope I get used to it somehow. the first few weeks or months would be the toughest for sure.
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It's pretty normal that you get scared the last days before marriage. Just get over it and marry this girl if you already say "the last 5 years were great" and "i can't get any better wife than her". You will regret it someday when you're not marrying her in 2 days , i am sure. If you are marrying her, then have a good wedding;)
 
HallLiz said:
I want what I want when I want it. I think its just a piece of paper and an excuse to have a big party.

Fact if you take the money you spend on the wedding and invest it instead, it will change your life for the better.
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I like going to weddings for the food, especially when the newly weds spend $$$$ on good catering. One of the more memorable weddings I went to was one I was taking photos for a few years ago that had some AMAZING food. The wedding itself was bland and the location was terrible, but that food made up for it.

Unfortunately, many of the other people I know are cheap and just get married "under the table"; you don't know they're married until they tell you because they didn't bother having a celebration. I mean, it's their choice, but some days I wish I had more weddings I could attend.
 
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