I'm getting back into cold approach pick up tmrw, any tips?

[SEO_Ninja]

again, I think you are missing my point.

I'm not saying to walk up to a million girls and hope for the best .. I'm basically opposing what you are doing now, which is looking for the magical trick that will help to create the opening and all of that nonsense

Seriously, it's a conversation between a man and a woman. There is no need for anything more than:

Hi, How are you?
What's your name?
I saw you from over there and I thought you were stunning, so I couldn't pass on the opportunity to introduce myself.
Where are you from? / What do you do?

Like I said earlier, the girl has already made up her mind by the time you say 'How are you' ... Don't beat yourself up, trying to thing of a funny line or the perfect opportunity to 'open'

*edit* .. I'm not speaking a load of nonsense man, I am speaking from experience been there, done that

 

[MartysW0RLD]

i c, unfortunately you can't automate traffic in cold approach pick up like you can with internet marketing. so instead of having 100s of me walking up to girls all over the city in different bars, it's only 1 of me doing it which results in less traffic and of course less leads this is one of the reasons why i prefer online dating but i'll see what i can do with cold approach tmrw

you just need at least 1 lead / night out - you got this

 

[Memro]

i will try this for sure


i don't think going out and approaching as much as possible is the answer... that is not very effective, it's better to approach when you have an in or an opening to do it well


women go clubbing to party with friends i believe

HAHAHAHA

 

[PBNSurprise]

HAHAHAHA

why do most girls go to the club? i'm talking the grand majority, like 80%+ of the girls. there has to be a common reason

 

[Steven Cutting]

@PBNSurprise don't be so stupid asking questions you know the answer to. Why do the opposite sex go to a club, why are you going to a club? To get the opposite sex right? It is no different for them...we are all human!

You also got to have fun like them but fucking is fun

An internet marketer once said; 'I went to a strip club, there we're half naked girls everywhere'. 90% of us found that hilarious but the other 9% are idiots like you but their remained another 1% which was actually you!

Just be - my fellow Skype group member, just be...

 

[Hawkster]

If you had a big dick this thread wouldn't exist............

 

[Memro]

If you had a big dick this thread wouldn't exist............

cucks are people too

 

[Steven Cutting]

If you had a big dick this thread wouldn't exist............

That is getting a bit personal to the poor OP and also has no relevance to his issue. One could have a large penor yet lack confidence and one fellow forum member should always help out another!

@PBNSurprise clearly has a large penis but the location of his 'device' is a mystery - he could always market it on Instagram!

 

[Memro]

why do most girls go to the club? i'm talking the grand majority, like 80%+ of the girls. there has to be a common reason

just make eye contact and if they blow you a kiss or wink, you wave them to come over. thats what i used to do

 

[Wilson Grant Fisk]

Dude, if you can't pull on New Years Eve, then just give up.

 

[Memro]

Dude, if you can't pull on New Years Eve, then just give up.

cuck detected

 

[PBNSurprise]

just make eye contact and if they blow you a kiss or wink, you wave them to come over. thats what i used to do

i see, ty for the intel

Dude, if you can't pull on New Years Eve, then just give up.

i'll be out with my boys on nye, most of which may or may not pull, pull life is a struggle

 

[Floopa75]

Stick your tongue in her ear

Ask her if she has a Daddy. If not tell her you will gladly fill that role

Tell her she has nice eyebrows

Women love helicopter pilots

 

[Memro]

Stick your tongue in her ear

thats fucking gross bro

 

[BreaknBrix]

AFA actual method or technique it's mostly irrelevant (early on & towards the end). I saw guys plan and plot and scheme memorizing line after line, day after day... then 99% of the time after the opener they'd get blown out... over and over and over.

That's the whole point of the "cold approach". You offer up your ego as a punching bag till it stiffens like concrete. And I went through MONTHS of nonstop rejection before I worked on the rapport building stage.

Then I worked on just rapport for like half a year. The more I worked on that the less interested I got in numbers or sex. It's weird how it works but when you get good at just talking to women... when you're doing that the right way it's like having sex with your clothes on. And that builds your self esteem more than anything including sex itself. Women have no idea how many chicks you've fucked. But they will notice a guy who's comfortable in his skin. And if you're that guy, you're getting laid.

It's really no different than martial arts. You wanna get good at anything you have to practice. Sometimes for years. The good news is when you get good you realize most the things you thought mattered the most... don't really matter at all.

 

[ladyboyboom69]

just go up to her and grab her by the pu••y if it worked for Donald it will work for you....

 

[PBNSurprise]

just go up to her and grab her by the pu••y if it worked for Donald it will work for you....

i see, by the way i very much enjoyed your previous avatar

 

[puddinporge]

Don't go up to a 6/10 and spark a conversation, make sure you stick to the 9's and 10's. Everyone thinks the 6 or 7 is an easier pickup because they are not as good looking - but you see that's the point... the dimes don't get wheeled as often. The male ego is always fearful of rejection which brings us to lesser standards.

I was out for drinks last weekend with some friends.. This gorgeous blonde girl (definitely a 9) says she never gets any attention when she goes out. It boggles me that she's still single and can't get picked up even when she goes out. I guess guys are just petrified of rejection from this stunning pneumatic blonde vixen.

Don't be a putz or a fool. The best way to win someones liking and build rapport is definitely through humor. When I used to go out with my buds and do cold approach we always had a famous one liner.. "Hey, you went to Trinity right?" .. 90% of the time you get a confused no. But you broke some ice and got a chance to get a few words out. Later on in another passing by I would introduce myself and then just start talking.

Get engaged in a conversation, be a gentleman and offer a drink. Make sure you have your chest out too, body language is important!