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I'm getting back into cold approach pick up tmrw, any tips?

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  1. PBNSurprise

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    i'm going out to the clubs/bars with some buddies that do pick up tmrw. we're planning to cold approach and meet new girls. anyone have tips/advice on how to effectively cold approach girls at bars/clubs and have things actually go somewhere besides a couple minute interaction?
     
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    I wish
     
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    accepting all tactics and advice available (plz legal), i am an open minded lad (PM me if you got some juicy info/leaked methods). thank you all
     
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    I though you we're a baller PBN? What baller needs advice! Just roll up in your Rolls Royce, $2,000 attire, $10,000 worth of jewels and all will be well. If that fails then show them your $30/day OGAds dashboard? Who needs conversation!!! o_O
     
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    this might actually work
     
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    I wouldn't say I'm a pro in the field but back in the day (before fiance) I would approach someone saying some absurdly stupid and funny things but with the highest confidence ever and a nice smile. They laughed, we got drunk etc. So, as for me (not being a Brad Pitt type of handsome guy) humor was the one that always worked. If you got the looks you're usually already halfway there.
     
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    Usually a 'Hi, how are you?' works 99 of the 100 times for me.

    But it also may be my looks of course.
     
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    Open all
    Minimize between sets
    Focus on the upsides
    2 steps forward one back
    Get her to invest
    track your progress
     
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    Actually a decently good book with a really stupid title. It's really about cold approach. The trick is say something funny and WALK AWAY. Repeat a few times. The book explains why.

    The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
     
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    Just show them payment proof and you are good to go
     
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    Tip #1: Stop thinking in terms of 'cold approach' 'sets' and all that other bullshit

    You are an internet marketer, you know how this shit works. These pickup artists are teaching the most SIMPLE skill in the world, but they add all this bullshit jargon to make it sound more complicated than it is, to sell you some bullshit products.

    Find a girl you like, walk up to her, introduce yourself, have a conversation, DONE.

    If it works out, good. If it doesn't. move on to the next one. There are billions of girls out there

    The girl will decide INSTANTLY whether she wants to take things further. No amount of 'character' or funny pick up lines will change that. These pickup specialists want you to think that girls don't care about looks, and they only care about confidence and all that other bullshit, but it's not true, trust me.

    You win some, you lose some.
     
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    i c, unfortunately you can't automate traffic in cold approach pick up like you can with internet marketing. so instead of having 100s of me walking up to girls all over the city in different bars, it's only 1 of me doing it which results in less traffic and of course less leads :( this is one of the reasons why i prefer online dating but i'll see what i can do with cold approach tmrw
     
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    tell them you can make them famous on instagram
     
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    Naah, I mean, you understand how people make money on the internet .. These 'pickup' artists are internet marketers. There's no need to buy into it all .. Use the fundamentals, and go and approach.

    My point is, there are more factors that are out of your control than the pickup community think. Go and approach as much as you can, and just be yourself. There are no magic tricks that will increase your chances .. You can learn all of the best 'Pickup tricks', but at the end of the day, it's all an act, and the girls can spot that a MILE away man. Just be yourself, if she doesn't want it, then walk off and find another.
     
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    there is one reason guys go out clubbing. there is also one reason women go out clubbing
     
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    99% of the people who watch pickup channels are serious geeks .. Nothing wrong with that at all, but the point is, these magic tricks that they promote are not going to turn a 2/10 geek into a charming, charismatic alpha male
     
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    I was listening to this song as I was typing .. Coincidence? haha

     
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    You can always ask the girl of she want to be your review copy. You will leave a honest review on her Facebook account.
     
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    i will try this for sure

    i don't think going out and approaching as much as possible is the answer... that is not very effective, it's better to approach when you have an in or an opening to do it well

    women go clubbing to party with friends i believe