0xxi3
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- Mar 25, 2016
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Too many people in here fail to realize that OP has a different world view. A totally different world view. I guess it's hard to realize that people on BHW come from different religious and cultural backgrounds.
Any advice for OP? Not really. You should do what you think is right, nobody can tell you otherwise, you should be happy with your choice and you should either accept it or, depending on how you feel about it and what relation you two have, talk to her? I will choose to assume that marriage for you means much more than for most Western people, who seem to be posting stupid stuff in this thread.
In my opinion, you should feel free to talk to your long-term partner and feel free around them. In the modern (read: Western) world, you marry not in order to survive (as in e.g. third world countries where a big family will ensure your future), but because it's so much simpler and better to live with someone you love.
Any advice for OP? Not really. You should do what you think is right, nobody can tell you otherwise, you should be happy with your choice and you should either accept it or, depending on how you feel about it and what relation you two have, talk to her? I will choose to assume that marriage for you means much more than for most Western people, who seem to be posting stupid stuff in this thread.
In my opinion, you should feel free to talk to your long-term partner and feel free around them. In the modern (read: Western) world, you marry not in order to survive (as in e.g. third world countries where a big family will ensure your future), but because it's so much simpler and better to live with someone you love.