Marrying a girl that...?

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I believe you come from a Vietnamese traditional background.....while most of people here come from a western background (you have been "formatted" differently). I do not believe the average BHW member could really help with this...

What you need (I believe) is to talk to several elders (and people from the same generation than you) having the same culture than you.

Something is telling me that your scheduled marriage is maybe an "arranged marriage" : if it is the case then talk about the matter to the 'arrangerS'/'organiserS'.
 
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Dude its pretty much obvious this question will keep haunting you even if you decides to marry her. Not gonna be happy life later. You talk as though born and staying virgin forever kinda mentality. give it few years more and come back into this getting married thing. you're just not matured enough yet now. My 2 cents woth of advice.
 
Capo Dei Capi said:
OP sounds like he is in his early 20's at most, yet he needs to settle down. Like wtf is up with all these die young mentality people on BHW lately.
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Lol... you also agree with the point that 'settling down' in early 20s is not viable?
 
It might be hard in the beginning but eventually you will feel better once you realize your girl is an expert at dick-sucking lol :P
 
freshaero said:
I believe you come from a Vietnamese traditional background.....while most of people here come from a western background (you have been "formatted" differently). I do not believe the average BHW member could really help with this...

What you need (I believe) is to talk to several elders (and people from the same generation than you) having the same culture than you.

Something is telling me that your scheduled marriage is maybe an "arranged marriage" : if it is the case then talk about the matter to the 'arrangerS'/'organiserS'.
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Its 2016, you can pick and choose what you like to do because of the internet giving you knowledge of better things from other parts of the world. Traditional elders are going to be giving bad advice based on old world that they are still hanging onto.
 
You are WAY TOO FUCKING IMMATURE, Way too SELFISH, and under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you get married, even if she is dumb enough to marry you.

Go work on yourself and let this girl get on with her life. DO NOT screw up her life because you are fucked in the head. You need to LEARN a whole different level of RESPECT for women before you even deserve to have someone DATE you much less get married. I don't give a shit where you live, attitudes like yours are what is WRONG with the world.

Kick this girl out of your life and go learn how to make the boy in the mirror become a MAN. I think it's going to take you a LONG TIME. But Maybe then you'll be worthy of having a good woman in your life REGARDLESS of her past relationships.
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You may be a bit put off by what Conrulez said, but it is probably the best bit of advice I've seen thus far. You really need to detach yourself, step back and consider this. If you try to bury your feelings, and marry this girl, it will only fester, just to erupt later into your marriage.

If this happens, you can bet that 5 years from now you will wish to God that you had listened to what conrulez had to say, rather than ultimately screwing up her life, your life, and the lives of any children that were spawned.

Wake up calls can be harsh. Nobody likes to have their flaws pointed out, but the only way to better yourself is to listen to constructive criticism and then act on it!

Until you can get your mindset in order, the only girl for you is a new virgin silicone doll, because she would be the only one who could ever fulfill your requirements, and live up to your standards.
 
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shanna_doll said:
I think my wedding time is approaching and i feel like I should settle down with a girl .. have kids and stuff. So I met this girl, and she is nice etc.. but what's bothering me that she used to suck other guys dicks.. (well how many I don't know but it doesn't even matter.. one is too much obviously..)

It's really bothering me a lot. I just can't imagine her kissing my children with these mouth .. lol . Any advices?

Yeah I know this thread will turn into another troll fest, but I have nothing to lose if I ask for an advice.. Maybe someone has something thoughtful to say.
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If this is not a troll at all I feel really sorry for that girl. No one should marry a guy whos thinking that way.

Probably you should consider some psychological consultation. Get in touch with @pewep he might be able to cure you from this nonsense.
 
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The perfect girl who don't touch any men is sure don't like you because you touch other women before her.
Good luck little boy ^^
 
muscleteen said:
What "advice" are you looking for? There are really only 2 options you can choose from:

1. Accept it. Marry her.
2. Don't accept it. Don't marry her. And if you really want to get married to an oral-virgin, find one.

What "advice" are you expecting exactly?
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That bold LOL
OP you should ask somewhere place than here
 
Capo Dei Capi said:
Its 2016, you can pick and choose what you like to do because of the internet giving you knowledge of better things from other parts of the world.
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I said what you need (I believe) is to talk to several elders (and people from the same generation than you) having the same culture than you.

Capo Dei Capi said:
Its 2016, you can pick and choose what you like to do because of the internet giving you knowledge of better things from other parts of the world.
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Knowledge I am not sure. Information certainly. However, there are information for every taste, every culture.

Me I don't judge anybody. And usually regarding my lifestyle I still prefer a face to face with my advisers because internet (despite of us being in 2016) is full of advisers who don't really know what they are talking about...

Personally I am not an "arranged marriage" guy but I'm not going to advise someone from distance to play the rebel (pressure of his environment) if he is in....
 
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