i cant talk to girls.

[BreaknBrix]

OP YOU'RE IN LUCK CAUSE I DISCOVERED A SHOCKING WAY TO TALK TO GIRLS!

It's called, "The Granny Method".

Approach elderly women and have conversations with them. Just start off asking directions to a random place. If you're shopping, stop and ask them about a recipe. OR, if you really want something effective just go volunteer at a senior center (not a home). It's mostly women who go to senior centers to play bingo, take computer lessons, do ceramics, watch movies, etc. In the seduction community this was something we use to do and it HELPS A LOT.

Older women are much easier to talk to. There's no sexual tension which makes it easier to be yourself, have small talk and learn about people.

You can pick your own hours and go in whenever you want. It's more like getting free coaching than doing volunteer work.

And if you do that for a few months you'll notice it becoming incredibly easier to approach women your own age. At first I was going in twice a week for a few hours. Then once a week. Twice a month... once a month etc. My first couple weeks I didn't say much of anything but after a short time the women start talking to you. If you're a nice dude with even a little bit of personality you'll notice something very strange. These women will start pulling out pictures of their family. They will SHOW YOU their daughters, granddaughters, etc and say shit like, "you remind me of my grand daughter. you know she's single? you should meet her" yada yada.

You realize that old vagina has access to lots of young vagina.

There are other things you can do too. Go volunteer at a breast cancer awareness group. Go to NA meetings. AA. Sex addicts anonymous. Anorexia and bulimia support groups. Rape survivor groups. You get the drift...

-BB

 

[phirex]

for as long as i can remember, i constantly fail to initiate conversations with girls. perfect example: im out tonight at a nice nice bar/club on south beach (dont go out very much anymore, just got over a bad relationship) and there is this girl who has been giving me the 'hairy blow eye' all night. she was very pretty and certainly do-able. she must have made at least 5 attempts to get me to notice her and dance with her. Every single attempt was deflected because im an absolute pussy and have no idea how to interact with random girls like that.. it seemed like she was just waiting for me to the 'the man' and walk up and start talking to; but i couldn't. i feel like if i did walk up to her and start talking, i would just blurt out some random, unrelated, incoherent nonsense and make the whole encounter awkward as fuck... So i just didnt talk to her and eventually left. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who have this same issue. But for the ones who dont, how the heck do u do it? how do u deal with the social pressure of possibly being rejected and the possibility that you just might make an ass out of yourself?

Alcohol works.

 

[HoNeYBiRD]

one question remains: do you drink (enough) OP?
some people just can't relax without booze, it has another plus: you won't care that much, if you're getting rejected

it helps if you have buddies who don't have problem talking to girls, so when they start to talk to one which is in a group, you should be near too and chat up the girl's friends, you don't really have too much choice anyway or the situation will become awkward very fast, just go with the flow

another approach: wait for the girl, they do initiate sometimes, i remember girls outright asking for my number, random girls grabbing my ass on the dance floor and so on, girls just wanna have fun

if you can't man the fuck up, just go out whenever you can to up your chances, it's a numbers game

if you want even easier girls than club sluts, go to music festivals, clubs have some unwritten rules or boundaries, festivals not really, everybody is more relaxed, ppl are more friendlier and oftentimes girls just walk up to you and start talking about some random shit, they want to sit in your neck to see the concert better etc., it's really not that hard to pick up girls there
festivals>clubs

i'm not too friendly most of times with strangers, i only care about those who are close to me, i'm not interested in ppl, i don't really care what they have to say, what they do, what they like, even if it's the hottest chick, i don't care, but if i want to close the deal, i need to put myself in a different mindset which makes me look like at least from the outside that i'm interested, you need to be a half decent actor, don't forget to smile sometimes, try to be funny, but not too funny...yadda yadda

contain your spaghetti OP and don't spill all over the girl when you make your move and you'll be fine
GL

 

[soulcollector]

Sounds like you might like guys OP. Lucky for you you're in south beach. Tranny city.

In all seriousness you need to grow some balls. Clubs scene? Those girls are getting railed nightly by whoever has the balls to go up to them. It's a numbers game. You get rejected? Who cares. There are hundreds of other options. People always say the asshole gets the girls...no. The persistent/don't give a fuck attitude gets them because eventually you get one to bite. It's a game.

Where are your friends? Coming to BHW for advise is odd. Talk to every girl you come across. Build confidence. Develop a sense of humor. If you can make a girl laugh you can get her. Every time.

Good luck...

Finally someone who gets it. Evryone thinks it over complicated, its not. It a psychology game, you act how you want them to respond by strategic body movements and placements, you show your dominance by pretending to be semi interested in them at times, not totally absorbed. You get to bang them if your consistant and authentic looking (yu gotta learn how to talk, act, and react to women).

If you want a girlfriend those are the places to NOT go pick one up. A girlfriend needs safe and secure haven, plus you'll change up your tactics a bit to meet her needs half way, so she will meet your needs half way. Always be semi serious but funny when asking for special favors, bust her balls on it and you'll get that special favor faster than if you just blatantly just flat out demanded it.

At the end of the day, its how well you know your opponent or counterpart or whatever you wanna call her / him.

 

[Boris66]

You wont loose anything in most of situations if you fail you wont prolly meet those ppl again or they wont even know, and you can still improve even you fail. Next time consider if its again worth to be quiet and scared and end up only with regrets. Good luck OP.

 

[The Cheetah]

Before buying the dog, check to make sure it doesn't have a bigger dick than yourself.

Top notch! /thread

 

[proxygo]

who gives a shit...really

 

[asap1]

Dont know if this is some troll shit or not but here we go.

I think most boys/men start out like this especially if you do not interact with girls at a young age but once you get over your fear the first time you will be fearless for the rest of your life.

I know I was scared to talk to woman/girls even tho I look good.

I would just say "hello" to random pretty girls I see during the day when I pass by them. I then started saying "hello, your {beautiful|pretty}"

And before you know it I was talking to every girl that passed me.

Just do it man, you wont get anywhere being scared.

 

[lightningblitz]

In a far away mystical land called Google, a group of men called PUA's peddle information on how to talk to the hideous beasts we here call women.

In years past these same men were of the guardian class of these beasts, the White Knights. They battled long and hard to protect the beasts and prove their devotion to tame said beast. But after years of service, it never worked.

Cast out from their society, these former Knights formed a secret society known as Pick Up Artistry and met in secret, in their lairs. Training for a new goal, to not befriend and protect these beasts, but to impress them with their sheer will and skills.

These beasts were not impressed by the voice - less, nervous yet loyal White Knights. The Beasts could only be tamed by a man of fiery will and sheer audacity.

Go to the land of Google. Find the PUA's. Then, you will have your answer.

 

[babasss]

hey, firstly pick a hooker, she will learn some things, and you will not be afraid about girls. If not work, pick up another hooker, until you will have more courage, try some bodybuilding...

 

[Capo Dei Capi]

Sounds like you might like guys OP. Lucky for you you're in south beach. Tranny city.
.

The best thing about T-girls is that no condoms are needed since one can't get a T-girl pregnant and worry about CS for 18 years.

 

[MediaMagic]

hey, firstly pick a hooker, she will learn some things, and you will not be afraid about girls. If not work, pick up another hooker, until you will have more courage, try some bodybuilding...

Try a hooker how will that help. That's not real practise lol.

 

[Capo Dei Capi]

Try a hooker how will that help. That's not real practise lol.

Because you will get more comfortable around women and get more experienced having sex. How is paying for a hooker to get better at sex any different than paying a personal trainer to get better at a sport.

 

[proxygo]

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[redrubies]

for as long as i can remember, i constantly fail to initiate conversations with girls. perfect example: im out tonight at a nice nice bar/club on south beach (dont go out very much anymore, just got over a bad relationship) and there is this girl who has been giving me the 'hairy blow eye' all night. she was very pretty and certainly do-able. she must have made at least 5 attempts to get me to notice her and dance with her. Every single attempt was deflected because im an absolute pussy and have no idea how to interact with random girls like that.. it seemed like she was just waiting for me to the 'the man' and walk up and start talking to; but i couldn't. i feel like if i did walk up to her and start talking, i would just blurt out some random, unrelated, incoherent nonsense and make the whole encounter awkward as fuck... So i just didnt talk to her and eventually left. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who have this same issue. But for the ones who dont, how the heck do u do it? how do u deal with the social pressure of possibly being rejected and the possibility that you just might make an ass out of yourself?

You poor thing. My youngest son is very shy and he freezes up around girls. It's a shame because he is so handsome, smart, and funny. He could probably get any girl he wanted. He had a girlfriend for two years and came out of his shell with her, but then they broke up and he is back to the same thing again with social anxiety. Although I can't relate because I never shut up and can carry on conversations with complete strangers, I know what you're going through because my son goes through the same thing. I have no advice for you, but you are not alone.

 

[redrubies]

I would just say "hello" to random pretty girls I see during the day when I pass by them. I then started saying "hello, your {beautiful|pretty}"

I like this advice a lot. I am going to tell my son to try this.

 

[PurpleLaze]

OP, disregard everything about methods. You do not need them at your level.

Get out of your head and just walk up and talk to the next girl you make eye contact with/desire to make eye contact with. Until you thoroughly convince your subconscious that women are not aliens, fairies, or snowflakes but often just fun and interesting people you will remain uncomfortable in settings where you're expected to initiate to close (which is everywhere).

You felt she was expecting you to "man up" and do it. This is because your instinct was telling you the same thing. Trust this feeling, it will expand and I promise you it will take you fantastic places.

You learn to talk to women by talking to women. That's it. You will experience awkwardness, you will be embarrassed, but these experiences are invaluable in teaching you to be comfortable being the best of yourself around women and people in general.

 

[PHPInjected]

I would just say "hello" to random pretty girls I see during the day when I pass by them. I then started saying "hello, your {beautiful|pretty}"

And before you know it I was talking to every girl that passed me.

Todays generation of girls/women consider this creepy. Think of it from their perspective, there is someone they don't know who goes around saying "Hello you are beautiful/pretty" to any random girl they find attractive. I never had to do this, but I saw it happen a lot on my campus.

Its better to start off with a simple "Hello, how are you" or common ground such as the weather being hot/nice/cold or a shirt they may be wearing. If you go straight to "Hi, you are pretty" they assume you have an agenda.

 

[PinguSpy]

Smoke some coke, and here you go...

And after u get the girl, just please retire from that "coke". Use it for 1 time purpose only.

 

[royserpa]

What if OP is into grandmas?
There WOULD be sexual tension! :0
The is not foolproof xD

OP YOU'RE IN LUCK CAUSE I DISCOVERED A SHOCKING WAY TO TALK TO GIRLS!

It's called, "The Granny Method".

Approach elderly women and have conversations with them. Just start off asking directions to a random place. If you're shopping, stop and ask them about a recipe. OR, if you really want something effective just go volunteer at a senior center (not a home). It's mostly women who go to senior centers to play bingo, take computer lessons, do ceramics, watch movies, etc. In the seduction community this was something we use to do and it HELPS A LOT.

Older women are much easier to talk to. There's no sexual tension which makes it easier to be yourself, have small talk and learn about people.

You can pick your own hours and go in whenever you want. It's more like getting free coaching than doing volunteer work.

And if you do that for a few months you'll notice it becoming incredibly easier to approach women your own age. At first I was going in twice a week for a few hours. Then once a week. Twice a month... once a month etc. My first couple weeks I didn't say much of anything but after a short time the women start talking to you. If you're a nice dude with even a little bit of personality you'll notice something very strange. These women will start pulling out pictures of their family. They will SHOW YOU their daughters, granddaughters, etc and say shit like, "you remind me of my grand daughter. you know she's single? you should meet her" yada yada.

You realize that old vagina has access to lots of young vagina.

There are other things you can do too. Go volunteer at a breast cancer awareness group. Go to NA meetings. AA. Sex addicts anonymous. Anorexia and bulimia support groups. Rape survivor groups. You get the drift...

-BB