for as long as i can remember, i constantly fail to initiate conversations with girls. perfect example: im out tonight at a nice nice bar/club on south beach (dont go out very much anymore, just got over a bad relationship) and there is this girl who has been giving me the 'hairy blow eye' all night. she was very pretty and certainly do-able. she must have made at least 5 attempts to get me to notice her and dance with her. Every single attempt was deflected because im an absolute pussy and have no idea how to interact with random girls like that.. it seemed like she was just waiting for me to the 'the man' and walk up and start talking to; but i couldn't. i feel like if i did walk up to her and start talking, i would just blurt out some random, unrelated, incoherent nonsense and make the whole encounter awkward as fuck... So i just didnt talk to her and eventually left. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who have this same issue. But for the ones who dont, how the heck do u do it? how do u deal with the social pressure of possibly being rejected and the possibility that you just might make an ass out of yourself?