for as long as i can remember, i constantly fail to initiate conversations with girls. perfect example: im out tonight at a nice nice bar/club on south beach (dont go out very much anymore, just got over a bad relationship) and there is this girl who has been giving me the 'hairy blow eye' all night. she was very pretty and certainly do-able. she must have made at least 5 attempts to get me to notice her and dance with her. Every single attempt was deflected because im an absolute pussy and have no idea how to interact with random girls like that.. it seemed like she was just waiting for me to the 'the man' and walk up and start talking to; but i couldn't. i feel like if i did walk up to her and start talking, i would just blurt out some random, unrelated, incoherent nonsense and make the whole encounter awkward as fuck... So i just didnt talk to her and eventually left. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who have this same issue. But for the ones who dont, how the heck do u do it? how do u deal with the social pressure of possibly being rejected and the possibility that you just might make an ass out of yourself?
i cant talk to girls.
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JackTheStripper
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Girls are overrated anyways. They talk too much and bust your balls if you use the computer all day. If you really want to pick up some girls, do what every social awkward guy does, learn to play the guitar.
donArmando
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Mate, Believe in yourself, at the end she is just a girl, a human being just like you.
Whenever you want to go to talk to a girl, try to talk, maybe for how she looks, how anybody on the club looks, or what is she drinking, or things like that, things that actually are there, on the club, no need to be romantic there.
Whenever you want to go to talk to a girl, try to talk, maybe for how she looks, how anybody on the club looks, or what is she drinking, or things like that, things that actually are there, on the club, no need to be romantic there.
King_James
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You're both gonna be dead in 200 years. Da fuck you care then? Just do it, because it doesn't matter.
Nothing matters, but you can make sure to enjoy it while you are here instead of pussing out.
Nothing matters, but you can make sure to enjoy it while you are here instead of pussing out.
Trepanated
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Next time it happens, walk up to the girl and deliberately say something ridiculous/incoherent/nonsensical.
Nothing bad will happen.
And once you say the most stupid thing you can think of and realise nothing bad happens, you'll find it much easier to speak to the next girl.
true that, girls are overrated. However, there arent many pleasures in this world that compare to fucking a girl who wants to be fucked by you.
SMMCity
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Before buying the dog, check to make sure it doesn't have a bigger dick than yourself.
yeah the perceived fear is always worse
augmentedprofit
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The best thing you can do is not give a Fck what they think and just say what you want, bitches love that
it's like you overthinking about something that is has not occurred.
just relax, go talk to her and just think like how you talk with your friend. this because you assume she is very special, ex : oh I can't touch her , she is invulnerable, she's out of my league and blablabla.
wizard04
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Dude WTF
You just go and fucking dance with here dons say shit. You are in a club not in a debate club, don't talk be mysterious go and grab her and dance and start kissing her neck then go to the lip...after a while grab her ass while dancing to see is she is enough relaxed with you.
This instructions are not a joke, they fucking work!
You just go and fucking dance with here dons say shit. You are in a club not in a debate club, don't talk be mysterious go and grab her and dance and start kissing her neck then go to the lip...after a while grab her ass while dancing to see is she is enough relaxed with you.
This instructions are not a joke, they fucking work!
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netmoney1
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Sounds like you might like guys OP. Lucky for you you're in south beach. Tranny city.
In all seriousness you need to grow some balls. Clubs scene? Those girls are getting railed nightly by whoever has the balls to go up to them. It's a numbers game. You get rejected? Who cares. There are hundreds of other options. People always say the asshole gets the girls...no. The persistent/don't give a fuck attitude gets them because eventually you get one to bite. It's a game.
Where are your friends? Coming to BHW for advise is odd. Talk to every girl you come across. Build confidence. Develop a sense of humor. If you can make a girl laugh you can get her. Every time.
Good luck...
In all seriousness you need to grow some balls. Clubs scene? Those girls are getting railed nightly by whoever has the balls to go up to them. It's a numbers game. You get rejected? Who cares. There are hundreds of other options. People always say the asshole gets the girls...no. The persistent/don't give a fuck attitude gets them because eventually you get one to bite. It's a game.
Where are your friends? Coming to BHW for advise is odd. Talk to every girl you come across. Build confidence. Develop a sense of humor. If you can make a girl laugh you can get her. Every time.
Good luck...
LostConnection
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Reminds me of Raj from the Big Bang Theory. Just even more sad, if that is even possible.
laur.laurix
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I use cloroform....it make them listen everything i say.
rutchiekens
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Forget the social pressures, forget the rejection, what you think of yourself is more important than what others think of you...
