SquirlyNutz
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- Feb 20, 2009
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Are there any ex-smokers here ? How did you quit? I really need to quit and tried gums/patches and nothing worked. 
I have had many friends who were chain-smokers. I volunteered to ensure that they quit smoking. Actually, smokers have to be dealt at a subconscious level. Following are few techniques I used to help my friends to quit smoking:
1) Public Oath: I asked them to take an oath publicly that they would reduce the number of cigarettes smoked daily. Once they had taken an oath publicly, then there was a guilt factor involved if they smoked front of those they took oath. This meant that now they would only smoke when they are alone.
2) Promise to their Loved ones: I made them give a word to their loved ones that they would not smoke. Ones you're giving a word to your loved ones, then you're emotionally liable to avoid smoking. This worked fairly well, but in some cases, they just gave in to the temptation.
3) Gifts/Rewards: I am pretty mad guy. Once I decide to get something done, then I stretch myself until I achieve my goal. There were couple of guys who used to always smoke when they were alone, so I decided to start a competition. Those able to control the temptation would get a party from my end. I used to spend my pocket money on the party, but it was worth it because I helped 4 out of 6 guys to quit smoking.
Friend, you can do this on your own. Use the above mentioned steps and I am sure you'll able to quit smoking. Actually, I would recommend you to start a journal. Start writing the thoughts coming into your mind when you want to smoke and also note how many times you were able to suppress the thought. It's a gradual process. You can't quit smoking instantly. IF you're a chain smoker, then you might take months, but if you smoke say 4-5 cigarettes a day, then it would be fairly easier for you to quit smoking. Channel your thoughts towards explaining yourself why you need to avoid smoking. Once you're able to feed into your subconscious that it's bad to smoke, then you can deal with this problem quite easily.
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Two days ago I went cold turkey and thought I was going to die. I did not sleep all night. Finally by 11am yesterday I had to get cigs. Some people can go cold turkey but I can't. Weaning is best for me.
I've read and heard from other smokers, that weening yourself off is a great way. Say you smoke a pack a day, then smoke half a pack, then 6 or so the next day. Then try 3-4 per day for a week. Then drop down to 1-2 for 2 weeks. After those two weeks, do not smoke any. Hope this helps. It worked for someone else I know. Unless you're up for cold turkey quitting.
Due to Allen Carr this is not a good way, since you focus more on cigarettes and therefore they gain more value in your perception.
I am smoking almost 20 years now and tried every "helper". Nothing worked, since the only way is mental power and a strong will. It is the same like the get rich quick things, the only thing that works is a strong will and endurance.