A non-psychopath bully after suicide would not participate in a 'suicide celebratory party' etc.
A single psychopath is dangerous enough, but a group of them is devastating as is evidence here. :-/
That has all taken place after the fact. The people who created the celebratory pages are not the same people who bullied her. They are from 4c***, and they are just trying to piss people off. It was most likely just 1 person who caused most of the damage to her, and not a group.
People need to realize that most bullies are kids too. People say she made mistakes because she was just a kid, well guess what, I promise you that most bullies are just kids too and don't think of the consequences their actions have. It is tragic what happened, but just as this girl didn't think of the consequences of her actions such as having sex with another girls boyfriend or creating child pornography, the bullies most likely didn't think of the consequences of their actions either.
We need more education and help for people that are bullies too. I have been on both sides of the coin. I was bullied horribly growing up because I had bad skin, bad clothes, horribly bad teeth, I was skinny and weak, I had asthma, I was poor. I got my ass kicked often, and told that if I ever showed my face in school, I was going to get beaten even more. I faked sick many days to skip school because I was afraid. I never told my mom, because I didn't want her to get involved. I don't blame those guys now, I would shake their hand and hope they offer an apology, but even if they didn't, it wouldn't bother me.
I have also teased and bullied people. I started to watch pro wrestling and practice moves with my friends to be able to fight a little better when I got in high school. There was a kid much bigger than me, who I picked a fight with and choked until he "tapped out" in front of the entire class. I wanted to embarrass him and make myself seem cool. I feel horrible about it now, but at the time, I was justifying it by saying he was bigger than me. I absolutely humiliated him, multiple times, in front of hundreds of other kids.
I had an adult friend meet some people from my high school when I wasn't around, and they apparently they described me as an "a$$hole". I don't know if I was or wasn't. It was so long ago. I thought I was decently nice to most people, but maybe I was a total jerk. I have made a lot of mistakes in my life I want to take back, but they are done, and they can't be undone.
The bullies didn't force this girl to show her breasts in the first place. The bullies didn't force her to have sex with someone elses boyfriend. The bullies didn't force her to commit suicide. She was an emotionally disturbed young girl, and unfortunately it doesn't seem like there was much anyone could do for her. She seems like when people stepped in to help, she told them everything was fine and it was all her fault. She says that if you watch the video. Also, her video is about "being strong" and "being a survivor", so she probably told people she wasn't suicidal anymore, and she wanted to be an inspiration and help others.
Our world can't afford to offer real help to every child who is bullied or expresses suicidal thoughts. We just can't afford it financially. Parents can't afford to keep moving or putting themselves in different schools. Schools can't kick out every person accused of bullying, and there are always two sides to every story, and school officials rarely get the whole truth.
My point here:
Don't put all the the blame on bullies when things like this happen. Just like a kid showing their breasts on the internet, they aren't thinking of the consequences. Girls put on webcam shows to try to feel better about themselves and more loved, bullies tease or beat up other kids to make themselves feel better and more powerful.
We need more education and help for BOTH sides. Bullies are rarely very happy with their lives.
