Give Leith Some LOOOOVEE Advice!

[jazzc]

explain to her how to rank #1 after penguin

He isn't trying to get laid with you, you know...

 

[techcrunked]

 

[Corrupt]

She then said I looked pretty fit and she asked if I was ripped

That set the deal.
Just be yourself man, don't TRY to do anything, not even try to be yourself, Just BE yourself. Let it flow naturally. Girls pick up on when you're intentionally trying to do something pretty quickly as well, and that's an instant turn off

 

[Leith]

So, you 're well on your way of proving me wrong! Keep it up!

Man, today I felt like not talking to. But then I remembered how you owned me above with your post so I thought to myself, "I AINT GONNA LET MYSELF DOWN" and just went for it. Glad I did.. and like I said in your PM, give me 2 weeks.

EDIT: Il try post a photo soon, once I get with her. Il blur the main bits out obviously for privacy

 

[brainstorm1]

Is she in your class? If she is, then I would suggest asking something class related. Saying something witty about the class to lighten the mood with some comedy. Once she chuckles, introduce yourself.

If she isn't in your class, I don't think it is cheesy at all to ask her where something is. Don't ask for a tour, but ask for one specific thing. Once she helps, ask her how long she has been there. Then where she is from. Introduce yourself..

The only way you have a real shot is if you can get to a party with both of you. Do NOT make an attempt the first time you drink. Only use it as a way to talk to her a lot more openly and vice versa. See what she gravitates to. Use the alcohol to your advantage to learn and not make a fool out of yourself (which is fine after you are a bit more friends with her).

EDIT: Didn't see the extra pages. Looks like you have broken the ice already.

I then said, joking, it's probably you. She laughed and said thanks, you're so sweet bla bla..

Bad idea man. Don't do this again. That's too easy for them.

Also, I don't know where you live where girls just ask to see your abs, but I want to move there. P.S: Pics or she doesn't exist

 

[Stupid Smurf]

Man, today I felt like not talking to. But then I remembered how you owned me above with your post so I thought to myself, "I AINT GONNA LET MYSELF DOWN" and just went for it. Glad I did.. and like I said in your PM, give me 2 weeks.

EDIT: Il try post a photo soon, once I get with her. Il blur the main bits out obviously for privacy

Sounds like you're doing well. Keep at it, don't seem too interested, but more importantly as mention, just be yourself.

I'm confused on the edit, why do you need to get with her to post a photo of these ripped abs? Too shy to be in the photo alone?

 

[Leith]

Is she in your class? If she is, then I would suggest asking something class related. Saying something witty about the class to lighten the mood with some comedy. Once she chuckles, introduce yourself.

If she isn't in your class, I don't think it is cheesy at all to ask her where something is. Don't ask for a tour, but ask for one specific thing. Once she helps, ask her how long she has been there. Then where she is from. Introduce yourself..

The only way you have a real shot is if you can get to a party with both of you. Do NOT make an attempt the first time you drink. Only use it as a way to talk to her a lot more openly and vice versa. See what she gravitates to. Use the alcohol to your advantage to learn and not make a fool out of yourself (which is fine after you are a bit more friends with her).

EDIT: Didn't see the extra pages. Looks like you have broken the ice already.



Bad idea man. Don't do this again. That's too easy for them.

Also, I don't know where you live where girls just ask to see your abs, but I want to move there. P.S: Pics or she doesn't exist

LOL man, I wouldn't have started a thread just to fake everything. This thread is legit. No bullshit.

EDIT: She did not just randomly ask me if I had abs. I just shortened the story. We were talking about Football and she plays for the college team. She's really good. And then that slowly built to her asking.

Sounds like you're doing well. Keep at it, don't seem too interested, but more importantly as mention, just be yourself.

I'm confused on the edit, why do you need to get with her to post a photo of these ripped abs? Too shy to be in the photo alone?

I said Il get a pic of me and her later on once we're together to prove that I did it, as Jazz didn't think I could.

 

[Andres1986]

UPDATE 2:

Today was a fucking amazing day! Okay here goes. Today I walked into college and I was listening to music. I found out that our classroom for registration had changed into a 2 chair routine/scheme. So basically 1 table = 2 people. Before it was a table and 6-7 people. And guess who sat next to me? YEAH, YOU GOT IT RIGHT!

So basically she was already sitting there and I just walked in with my music on. The professor told me to settle in at the new seat and she smiled at me bla bla. We have 10mins in registration before we go to our first class. I said hi to her and she asked me a few questions about where I was previously staying (London) and how I found Scotland. We had a nice chat, couple of laughs.

We went to Maths together. I had the urge here to just tell her I like her but I wanted to keep it going for a bit longer. Went into Maths and everything was normal. She sat on the same table but we did not speak at all.

Next time I saw her was at Lunch, in the cafeteria. She was ordering for food and I asked her if she wants to just chill out after lunch and she said yeah sure. At this point, her friends were winking at me from a few metres away (cuz they know what I'm trying to do).

At lunch we just spoke about hobbies, and how I found the college quite big and so on. She then asked me who she thought was the hottest girl in the year. Guess who I said? I said it was Rebecca (some obese girl in our year) and she laughed. I then said, joking, it's probably you. She laughed and said thanks, you're so sweet bla bla..

She then said I looked pretty fit and she asked if I was ripped. I showed her my abs (BOOM , IM A RIPPED MOTHERFUCKA). She said it was pretty good.

Lunch was over, and we went to usual classes. After school, I caught her and I said it was nice speaking to her. I wanted to ask for her number but thought Il wait till tomorrow or a few days after. We hugged, and then left.

WHAT DO I DO NEXT GUYS? Anything new I could try?

She asking you who did you think was the hottest girl was a HUGELY tricky question which you probably shouldn't have answered in the way you did, as that's what she expected from you, because that's the way 99% of men interested in her would answer. In my opinion and with all due respect, I think you are making a big deal out of this girl, and that's the reason why you are nervous around here, which might turn against you at the end. My suggestion? keep talking to here but also start talking with 9 new girls. Im sure you could find 9 more hot girls in a college that spark your interest. If things don't progress with these girls just make friends with them; hot girls have hot girlfriends. You say you are good talking to females, so that shouldn't be an issue for you. So now you are talking to 10 girls, plus you are also socializing with their hot girlfriends, so you have around 30-40 girls in your social circle including the one who motivated you starting this thread ("What? who? oh right the girl that sat next to me that time, yeah she's cool, she's a nice actress" You aren't on that stage yet? you'll be, give it a few days ). Now also start befriending the guys; they are probably very curious on how you are always surrounded with girls already, so they'll very likely start coming to you on their initiative. Set a few of them up with some of the girls in your circle. You'll be a GOD to them since that moment. And male friends will give you access to new females; girlfriends, sisters, etc. So you are now at a stage where you are socializing with probably a 100 different people between man and (mostly) women. You'll be having great time with your new friends and dating left and right at this time. Now, will all this this help you with that particular girl that caught your attention in the beginning?. "What? Who are you talking about man? Gotta be more specific than that". Yeah man focus, the girl that sat next to you that one time. But it's OK, I can't expect you to remember her clearly among all the other girls in your life by now, several of which are probably even hotter. So back to the question, the answer is: Yes, it will very likely help you. You are now the popular cool guy in college with a ton of friends and always surrounded by girls. Chances are she wants to be one of them. If not who cares, I know you wont.

 

[toptoptop]

Say that you want to fuck her.

 

[Leith]

She asking you who did you think was the hottest girl was a HUGELY tricky question which you probably shouldn't have answered in the way you did, as that's what she expected from you, because that's the way 99% of men interested in her would answer. In my opinion and with all due respect, I think you are making a big deal out of this girl, and that's the reason why you are nervous around here, which might turn against you at the end. My suggestion? keep talking to here but also start talking with 9 new girls. Im sure you could find 9 more hot girls in a college that spark your interest. If things don't progress with these girls just make friends with them; hot girls have hot girlfriends. You say you are good talking to females, so that shouldn't be an issue for you. So now you are talking to 10 girls, plus you are also socializing with their hot girlfriends, so you have around 30-40 girls in your social circle including the one who motivated you starting this thread ("What? who? oh right the girl that sat next to me that time, yeah she's cool, she's a nice actress" You aren't on that stage yet? you'll be, give it a few days ). Now also start befriending the guys; they are probably very curious on how you are always surrounded with girls already, so they'll very likely start coming to you on their initiative. Set a few of them up with some of the girls in your circle. You'll be a GOD to them since that moment. And male friends will give you access to new females; girlfriends, sisters, etc. So you are now at a stage where you are socializing with probably a 100 different people between man and (mostly) women. You'll be having great time with your new friends and dating left and right at this time. Now, will all this this help you with that particular girl that caught your attention in the beginning?. "What? Who are you talking about man? Gotta be more specific than that". Yeah man focus, the girl that sat next to you that one time. But it's OK, I can't expect you to remember her clearly among all the other girls in your life by now, several of which are probably even hotter. So back to the question, the answer is: Yes, it will very likely help you. You are now the popular cool guy in college with a ton of friends and always surrounded by girls. Chances are she wants to be one of them. If not who cares, I know you wont.

That's really true man. Il start talking to a few other girls in the coming days. Just want to get this ones number first, and then I can move on from there. Thanks for your very detailed tips/advice.. appreciate the time you took to write it bro.

 

[Stupid Smurf]

I said Il get a pic of me and her later on once we're together to prove that I did it, as Jazz didn't think I could.

That was meant to be a joke about the abs.. guess it fell flat lol.

Good luck in the continued hunt.

 

[_Sunny_]

She asking you who did you think was the hottest girl was a HUGELY tricky question which you probably shouldn't have answered in the way you did, as that's what she expected from you, because that's the way 99% of men interested in her would answer. In my opinion and with all due respect, I think you are making a big deal out of this girl, and that's the reason why you are nervous around here, which might turn against you at the end. My suggestion? keep talking to here but also start talking with 9 new girls. Im sure you could find 9 more hot girls in a college that spark your interest. If things don't progress with these girls just make friends with them; hot girls have hot girlfriends. You say you are good talking to females, so that shouldn't be an issue for you. So now you are talking to 10 girls, plus you are also socializing with their hot girlfriends, so you have around 30-40 girls in your social circle including the one who motivated you starting this thread ("What? who? oh right the girl that sat next to me that time, yeah she's cool, she's a nice actress" You aren't on that stage yet? you'll be, give it a few days ). Now also start befriending the guys; they are probably very curious on how you are always surrounded with girls already, so they'll very likely start coming to you on their initiative. Set a few of them up with some of the girls in your circle. You'll be a GOD to them since that moment. And male friends will give you access to new females; girlfriends, sisters, etc. So you are now at a stage where you are socializing with probably a 100 different people between man and (mostly) women. You'll be having great time with your new friends and dating left and right at this time. Now, will all this this help you with that particular girl that caught your attention in the beginning?. "What? Who are you talking about man? Gotta be more specific than that". Yeah man focus, the girl that sat next to you that one time. But it's OK, I can't expect you to remember her clearly among all the other girls in your life by now, several of which are probably even hotter. So back to the question, the answer is: Yes, it will very likely help you. You are now the popular cool guy in college with a ton of friends and always surrounded by girls. Chances are she wants to be one of them. If not who cares, I know you wont.

Can I sponsor you a new keyboard which has its "Enter" key working?
Really man, reading this post was a big pain to the eyes,but yea, you're right


Sunny

 

[Leith]

Guys - tomorrow, I'm thinking of asking for her number after school. One more thing which I forgot to tell you guys about.

Please don't flame me, haha.

Today she asked if I believed in God. I didn't know she was very religious so I said no.. (I don't believe in God) and then she started debating. I let her win the debate.

Anyways, tomorrow I'm gonna ask her after school for her number incase I need any help with the Maths C/W.. would that be enough?

In reality, I won't be asking for maths help. Il just text her and start a conversation

 

[brainstorm1]

LOL man, I wouldn't have started a thread just to fake everything. This thread is legit. No bullshit.

I know. That was just a reference to one of those things you see online a lot. "Pics or it didn't happen".

EDIT: Careful if she is religious. That could be a LOT of work and not a lot of payoff. Don't ever discount a quick payoff as they are not perfect model Christians, but be wary of the signs when you need to just throw in the towel.

 

[MafiaBoss]

you bro seems like bit more intrested in this girl maybe she will become ur bride after all this hard work one day.send me a invitation in that case

 

[vulzala]

Best advice by far.

Eww Neil Struass

Anyway just be a fucking man ask her out.. here a revelation for you. WOMEN LIKE TO BE ASKED FOR A DATE!! No Tricks, no lame pick up lines just ask!!
Especially with the crap programs around here these days asking for a coffee or some other shit..they never get asked for a date anymore...

"Hi I really like you and would like to take you out on a date Thursday I'll come pick you up to take you out to dinner at 8pm and then Dancing" Etc Etc

Then she knows WHAT to wear for the date she has time to prepare (shave legs etc..)

Why become friends with her? I bet has heaps and she doesn't need any more fucking friends so just get to the point approach with some balls..
If she says no move onto the next girl and stop wasting time and energy and your life on one chick...
Seriously if a method on here does not work, do you get hung up about it? No you go to the next...

 

[Pringles]

Today she asked if I believed in God. I didn't know she was very religious so I said no.. (I don't believe in God) and then she started debating. I let her win the debate.

That's not good. You need to win those debates (especially on that subject, so easy to win). Hot chicks are always used to the guys giving them everything. You need to win debates and not be that "into" her. She needs you, you don't need her.

For the math thing, say "What's your number? We can work on math together". You are in control here, not her, she needs to know that or she won't respect you as a man. Maybe chicks are different across the pond, but I don't think so. You can work together but she should not be the one helping you.

I agree with the guy that said you need to find 9 other girls to build relationships with. That is great advice.

 

[Leith]

you bro seems like bit more intrested in this girl maybe she will become ur bride after all this hard work one day.send me a invitation in that case

LOL. No way. Marriage is a long way for me. I'm still young

 

[Leith]

THANKS FOR ALL YOUR SUGGESTIONS SO FAR.

LET'S TURN THIS THREAD INTO A THREAD WHICH CAN MAKE ANY GUY GET A GIRL!

Thanks everyone yet again!!

 

[Stupid Smurf]

That's not good. You need to win those debates (especially on that subject, so easy to win). Hot chicks are always used to the guys giving them everything. You need to win debates and not be that "into" her. She needs you, you don't need her.

For the math thing, say "What's your number? We can work on math together". You are in control here, not her, she needs to know that or she won't respect you as a man. Maybe chicks are different across the pond, but I don't think so. You can work together but she should not be the one helping you.

I agree with the guy that said you need to find 9 other girls to build relationships with. That is great advice.

I agree with the part about how to handle the Math. Nice indirect way of getting her number, without making it sound like you're trying to ask her out.

The religious part.. how religious? The OMG, you're going to hell if you don't believe exactly like I do religious? If so.. pull out now!

If she isn't that bad, tricky situation, you don't want her to think she needs to "save you" that's worse than the friendzone. I don't know how the conversation went, or what you believe, but perhaps you could spin it that you do believe, but wanted to see if she'd stand up for her beliefs? Then a comment like, "I don't like those people who claim to believe in god, but won't speak up about him.." or something like that.

This thread is fun. Good luck.