Give Leith Some LOOOOVEE Advice!

[Stupid Smurf]

Try the three B method. Be excellent, Be desire-less, and Be gone.

Be Excellent: Make yourself look excellent in her mind. Could be through action or words.
Be Desire-less: Don't care if you hook up with her. If you really want something, other people can sense that and it can push them away. So when speaking with her (if you figure out how), try to just be chill and calm about it. Also don't speak too much, keep yourself mysterious. The shyness may actually help you there with talking less.
Be Gone: Don't be available to her. The more available you will be, the less interesting you will seem. Obviously, you will need to spend time together, but don't be available every time she wants you to be (that's a hard one).

To ask her out? Speaking will help, and finding out some of her likes. Or ask her if she likes a certain type of food and invite her out for it. Doesn't matter if she says she likes it or not, you need to take charge. Then once the date is set, don't speak to her again until that day. Be gone.

Hopefully that made sense?

If not.. just tell her you want to show her one of your "methods" back at your dorm room.

 

[meathead1234]

or say like this: "I am Jr.Vip in BHW and I have 740 reputation points"

^ This. Works every time.

 

[Leith]

^ This. Works every time.

Hehehe

 

[Leith]

Try the three B method. Be excellent, Be desire-less, and Be gone.

Be Excellent: Make yourself look excellent in her mind. Could be through action or words.
Be Desire-less: Don't care if you hook up with her. If you really want something, other people can sense that and it can push them away. So when speaking with her (if you figure out how), try to just be chill and calm about it. Also don't speak too much, keep yourself mysterious. The shyness may actually help you there with talking less.
Be Gone: Don't be available to her. The more available you will be, the less interesting you will seem. Obviously, you will need to spend time together, but don't be available every time she wants you to be (that's a hard one).

To ask her out? Speaking will help, and finding out some of her likes. Or ask her if she likes a certain type of food and invite her out for it. Doesn't matter if she says she likes it or not, you need to take charge. Then once the date is set, don't speak to her again until that day. Be gone.

Hopefully that made sense?

If not.. just tell her you want to show her one of your "methods" back at your dorm room.

Thanks for the points man! Tomorrow, I'm talking to her, whatever happens. This is a promise guys.

 

[artyjon38]

Read up on some seduction techniques on reddit. A common mistake that I have made and have watched my friends make is fall into the friend zone with a girl. Once you're in the friend zone she doesn't look at you with any amount of attraction even though you clearly want her. check out r seduction it has given me some pretty good info on pickup techniques and different ways on approaching women in several different public settings with confidence.

Best of luck

 

[Leith]

Read up on some seduction techniques on reddit. A common mistake that I have made and have watched my friends make is fall into the friend zone with a girl. Once you're in the friend zone she doesn't look at you with any amount of attraction even though you clearly want her. check out r seduction it has given me some pretty good info on pickup techniques and different ways on approaching women in several different public settings with confidence.

Best of luck

Thanks, and yeah, Il make sure I don't fall into the friend zone / friendly zone too much. Tomorrow, Il be speaking to her. JazzC actually just raised some good points and I need to prove him wrong!

 

[VinBed]

Ignore the other advice in this thread.

Is she in any of your classes? Sit next to her.

Talk to her as if she is anyone else. Never give her any special attention or treatment.

Attractive women live their lives being given free shit by males and being treated like princesses on a daily basis. She EXPECTS you to do the exact same. She does NOT expect you to treat her like an ordinary person. This is the key to success - you have to do the unexpected and be 100% confident in yourself when doing so.

PRETTY GIRLS AREN'T SHIT - give it 10 years and her looks will be running out. This is the sad reality that women face, while men generally become more attractive over the years. Remember this when you talk to her - her good looks are a temporary thing, just like everything else in life.

If you are sitting in class next to each other and you can eventually get her to initiate idle chat with you, or ask you class-related questions and whatnot, that is a sign that she is warming up to you.

Do not start off by asking her out. Maybe compliment her shoes - always avoid complimenting her beauty until you are actually dating.

Talk to other women, especially in front of her. Make friends with a girl who is less attractive. You don't necessarily have to sleep with other girls, but it's fine if you do.

Women want to be made to laugh.

The final lesson I can give you is that you should never put all of your eggs into one basket. There isn't much of a point. There are many beautiful women out there, and quite a lot of them have boring and uninteresting personalities.

My experience? I've dated dozens of women and each one has been quite different. Be ruthlessly casual about it and you will have women demanding your commitment.

 

[_Sunny_]

One more I wanted to raise is, today, she asked the teacher what my name was. Because I was new, she prob wanted to find out. That was it.

Prob she's a member here at BHW and is already reading your thread

 

[Annah]

Firstly, keep these things in mind:

I MAKE NO EXCUSES AS A MAN
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF
I DONT NEED YOU, YOU NEED ME
IF YOU DONT WANNA BE WITH ME ITS YOUR LOSS!
MY TIME IS PRECIOUS, SO DONT WASTE IT
YOU CANT CONTROL ME
I DONT GET RATTLED BY SETBACKS, I SIMPLY LEARN BY THEM
I CAN GET ANY WOMEN I DESIRE

After this go spank your munky while listening to Britney Spears records coz you're way2awesome for any female on this wretched planet.

Are you mentally challenged or something ?)))))))))))))))


I am really sorry, I do not mean to be a jackass but c'mon, jeeeeeez I can't stop laughing Ima dissect ya poem right away :

I MAKE NO EXCUSES AS A MAN - MEGAFALSE each and every person on this planet WILL make excuses (as a man or woman) at least one time a week.

I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF - MEGAFALSE each person is bound to seek comfort when they fuck up or when they are fucked up, if not found in your vicinity you ARE PROGRAMMED to comfort YOURSELF.

I DONT NEED YOU, YOU NEED ME - This one has the cherry on top. YOU NEED HER BUT YOU DENY IT, prolly you need her more than she needs you coz we can all see that your hands are tired.


IF YOU DONT WANNA BE WITH ME ITS YOUR LOSS! - NOT ENTIRELY TRUE. It's your loss from the very beginning, might be her loss too but this is another fucking story.

MY TIME IS PRECIOUS, SO DONT WASTE IT - This is true but only in the following situation : TELLING IT TO YOURSELF, because NOBODY CARES about wasting YOUR TIME!!! Who the funky fresh are you? Obama?

YOU CANT CONTROL ME - You are already under control by obeying social rules not to mention the code of laws you live by. Ignorant oaf!

I DONT GET RATTLED BY SETBACKS, I SIMPLY LEARN BY THEM - Entirely true although it does not function always like this.

I CAN GET ANY WOMEN I DESIRE - AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA this one is DA BOMB! True but in just one case. You need to relax first, so take a sit... take you weenie out and spank it like it isn't yours till you pass out, while thinking of any woman you desire))))))))))))


Somebody stop meeeeeeeeeeee I can't stop laughing jeeeeeeez!

 

[SebiP]

If you are really that shy , here is my advice , take a piece of paper and write on it :
"Check this out : http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackh...450331-give-leith-some-loooovee-advice-3.html (the full url)

With love , Leith . "
But make sure that you don't make contact with her and just drop it when she doesn't see you . She will be curious and will check it out , and then she will ask about the new guy and will come to you .

Now on the serious part , like all we said , just go and talk with her and you will go on from there , the first step is to make contact .

 

[dario111cro]

Tell her: "Babe, I am going to blackhat you like nobody did before!"

 

[Leith]

Ignore the other advice in this thread.

Is she in any of your classes? Sit next to her.

Talk to her as if she is anyone else. Never give her any special attention or treatment.

Attractive women live their lives being given free shit by males and being treated like princesses on a daily basis. She EXPECTS you to do the exact same. She does NOT expect you to treat her like an ordinary person. This is the key to success - you have to do the unexpected and be 100% confident in yourself when doing so.

PRETTY GIRLS AREN'T SHIT - give it 10 years and her looks will be running out. This is the sad reality that women face, while men generally become more attractive over the years. Remember this when you talk to her - her good looks are a temporary thing, just like everything else in life.

If you are sitting in class next to each other and you can eventually get her to initiate idle chat with you, or ask you class-related questions and whatnot, that is a sign that she is warming up to you.

Do not start off by asking her out. Maybe compliment her shoes - always avoid complimenting her beauty until you are actually dating.

Talk to other women, especially in front of her. Make friends with a girl who is less attractive. You don't necessarily have to sleep with other girls, but it's fine if you do.

Women want to be made to laugh.

The final lesson I can give you is that you should never put all of your eggs into one basket. There isn't much of a point. There are many beautiful women out there, and quite a lot of them have boring and uninteresting personalities.

My experience? I've dated dozens of women and each one has been quite different. Be ruthlessly casual about it and you will have women demanding your commitment.

Thanks for your post man!

 

[FireTheWild]

Attractive women live their lives being given free shit by males and being treated like princesses on a daily basis. She EXPECTS you to do the exact same. She does NOT expect you to treat her like an ordinary person. This is the key to success - you have to do the unexpected and be 100% confident in yourself when doing so.

I second that !

 

[Leith]

Ignore the other advice in this thread.

Is she in any of your classes? Sit next to her.

Talk to her as if she is anyone else. Never give her any special attention or treatment.

Attractive women live their lives being given free shit by males and being treated like princesses on a daily basis. She EXPECTS you to do the exact same. She does NOT expect you to treat her like an ordinary person. This is the key to success - you have to do the unexpected and be 100% confident in yourself when doing so.

PRETTY GIRLS AREN'T SHIT - give it 10 years and her looks will be running out. This is the sad reality that women face, while men generally become more attractive over the years. Remember this when you talk to her - her good looks are a temporary thing, just like everything else in life.

If you are sitting in class next to each other and you can eventually get her to initiate idle chat with you, or ask you class-related questions and whatnot, that is a sign that she is warming up to you.

Do not start off by asking her out. Maybe compliment her shoes - always avoid complimenting her beauty until you are actually dating.

Talk to other women, especially in front of her. Make friends with a girl who is less attractive. You don't necessarily have to sleep with other girls, but it's fine if you do.

Women want to be made to laugh.

The final lesson I can give you is that you should never put all of your eggs into one basket. There isn't much of a point. There are many beautiful women out there, and quite a lot of them have boring and uninteresting personalities.

My experience? I've dated dozens of women and each one has been quite different. Be ruthlessly casual about it and you will have women demanding your commitment.

I second that !

Alright

 

[VinBed]

One more tidbit - when asking a girl out, do not use the standard "would you like to go on a date with me?" type of query. In my experience this doesn't quite work as well as something like:

"I'm going to the cafe after class - want to come?"

"Come get a drink with me at [insert name of relevant pub] later."

"Let's grab a smoothie after lunch." (bitches love smoothies)

"There's a [insert relevant band] show/concert at the [insert venue] tomorrow night, are you going?"

What's even better is if you set up your own activity schedule. Several times a week I go to a restaurant or to grab a smoothie or to see a show, and I'll offer up the opportunity to a girl - if she says no, then I'll offer it up to a different girl.

If girl #1 doesn't want to go, then whatever. Girl #2 will probably be more enthusiastic. If not girl #3, then perhaps girl #3? This is very important for reducing your fear of rejection and by always having some sort of activity planned in your busy schedule you become a lot less available to women which sets off the instinctual female competitiveness.


Watch this as well, Tim Ferriss follows a similar strategy:

 

[Leith]

Hey guys, in college right now but currently speaking to her. She's gone downstairs to the office for a bit. So far so good! Thanks everyone for the suggestions.

 

[beauxesprits]

Hey guys, in college right now but currently speaking to her. She's gone downstairs to the office for a bit. So far so good! Thanks everyone for the suggestions.

Great going..... good good.... Waiting for a party.. I hope it will be due soon.. (Leith is in :bouncing: )

 

[Leith]

UPDATE 2:

Today was a fucking amazing day! Okay here goes. Today I walked into college and I was listening to music. I found out that our classroom for registration had changed into a 2 chair routine/scheme. So basically 1 table = 2 people. Before it was a table and 6-7 people. And guess who sat next to me? YEAH, YOU GOT IT RIGHT!

So basically she was already sitting there and I just walked in with my music on. The professor told me to settle in at the new seat and she smiled at me bla bla. We have 10mins in registration before we go to our first class. I said hi to her and she asked me a few questions about where I was previously staying (London) and how I found Scotland. We had a nice chat, couple of laughs.

We went to Maths together. I had the urge here to just tell her I like her but I wanted to keep it going for a bit longer. Went into Maths and everything was normal. She sat on the same table but we did not speak at all.

Next time I saw her was at Lunch, in the cafeteria. She was ordering for food and I asked her if she wants to just chill out after lunch and she said yeah sure. At this point, her friends were winking at me from a few metres away (cuz they know what I'm trying to do).

At lunch we just spoke about hobbies, and how I found the college quite big and so on. She then asked me who she thought was the hottest girl in the year. Guess who I said? I said it was Rebecca (some obese girl in our year) and she laughed. I then said, joking, it's probably you. She laughed and said thanks, you're so sweet bla bla..

She then said I looked pretty fit and she asked if I was ripped. I showed her my abs (BOOM , IM A RIPPED MOTHERFUCKA). She said it was pretty good.

Lunch was over, and we went to usual classes. After school, I caught her and I said it was nice speaking to her. I wanted to ask for her number but thought Il wait till tomorrow or a few days after. We hugged, and then left.

WHAT DO I DO NEXT GUYS? Anything new I could try?

 

[jazzc]

So, you 're well on your way of proving me wrong! Keep it up!

 

[conrad]

explain to her how to rank #1 after penguin