I have no friends in this life :( Im so bored :(

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Invest in your self. If you can go to a hypnotherapist to become more outgoing and social. I would suggest going to one of richard bandle's seminars. I heard it is good and I am saving up enough to go there my self. Change you beliefs and attitude and your whole life will change. Invest in your self. Go to a hypnotherapist man. Invest in your self. you can become confident in as little as 2 sessions. Trust me.
 
@dynamic1

it`s not like my whole post is related to something or everything you said...
...please do not get me wrong. but you tend to hear all the same stuff over and over again in threads like this.

i just think it`s important that you socialise especially when you are young - but of course not with his old and seemingly "not so good" friends.
doing it later will steal you all the memories you should gather in that age.
that doesn`t take away the ability to reach potential.
it is just that doing something with 20 years of age ain`t the same as you would be doing it in the 30`s....
...the rest of my post isn`t about you - it is general rant from my side of things.

no means to offend you or strip your post apart.

have to pick an (to me) important line up...
...of course i have seen people come and go in my life - but some stayed t`ill today.
...i am in your age-range too. but not being socialised too much in younger years does bring a lack of learning things in social-engagement. and can be dangerous for later years.
...i just think it is more than important to get into that learning curve.

i hope you get what i wanted to point out - and your toes don`t feel stepped on anymore.
 
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Don't you go to school or anywhere else. How come a 18 years old guy don't have friends. When i was 18, i had almost thousand friends. Go out. Speak to new people. You can't make friends by whining at BHW.

When you were 18 you lived in a different world. :)
 
Hey bro
get some classes or join a gym
you'll meet people there.
 
Invest in your self. If you can go to a hypnotherapist to become more outgoing and social. I would suggest going to one of richard bandle's seminars. I heard it is good and I am saving up enough to go there my self. Change you beliefs and attitude and your whole life will change. Invest in your self. Go to a hypnotherapist man. Invest in your self. you can become confident in as little as 2 sessions. Trust me.

is a myth .

my suggestion for you

if you earn 100$/day

share to forum and build community help
after that create a thread 100$/day meet up ( cafe or pub)

you need to give something to get something
 
I have friends but don't want to hang out with them.

But seriously OP you don't even have 1 good friend???
 
$100 per day. Wow wish I was making that! I take my hat off to you. Don't worry about the friends part. The odds of you going through life and not making any are in the zillions. Take your money and head off backpacking in Asia or somewhere. Not only will you have a good, cheap and adventurous time, you'll get to meet people along the way. Good luck!
 
Scale until you reach making thousands a day , and then you can buy anything you want . Women , cars , you will get attention and you will feel happy .
 
Use a site like meetup dot com to meet people who have similar interests to you.

Anytime I move city I join a bunch of meets and have got great friends out of them.

There are groups for every interest and its low pressure.
 
Enough has been said and I'm sure your cup would be already full by the time you read my post. But I just couldn't stop myself from commenting on this thread because I can see myself in you. I am 22 now, couple of years back, even I was in your shoes, which you are wearing now. I had a few friends but they were pessimistic in nature. They had inferiority complex because I used to earn more than them. It was then I realized that friendship is hoax, the best bet is to meet new people. Visit new places and make new "friends". I go for an early morning jog daily, and during this time I make sure to make a friend. You'd say how do you I do that. I just start talking to people randomly, without any inhibitions, and then within minutes we are friends. I sometimes play cricket or soccer with kids, and believe me it's real fun. I have enrolled in a library near my house. Since I am chess player, I make sure to play a chess tournament once in a week. These things never remind me of my old friends, and to be frank, the best friends I have made are the ones here on BHW. I always thought what is friendship and how can we define it. I got its definition when I met few BHW members. It's then I realized "Two individuals are in friendship, when both of them have no expectations from each other, still they help each other when in need without expecting anything in return".

Mate, you're not trying to think how beautiful your life is. Let's analyze your life and your present situation. You've presented all negative aspects of your life, I'll now try to present positive ones.
1) You're earning $100 per day. When we compare this with other guys of your age, then we find that most of them are wasting their parent's hard-earned money by partying, drugs and other negative things. But your case is different. You are a pillar of your family. I'm sure your parents would be damn proud of you. Nothing can be better than making your parents proud by your efforts.
2) You've a Purpose in Life: Most of the people don't have a purpose all their lives. They keep living their life aimlessly. Don't you think you are way too special because despite being just 18 years old, you know what you want to do and where your passion lies. Many guys spend their entire life for finding their passion.
3) You've Money to Spend: LOL... I didn't want to point this out but I just felt to cheer you up. You're 18 dude, I hope you aren't single. :P IF "Unfortunately" you're still single, then it's high time you got a girlfriend. Enjoy life. Don't let money and success get over your head but at the same time there's no harm to spend few hundred bucks for partying and enjoying once in a month. Set monthly goals, and when you achieve those goals, then give yourself a treat. Dude one more thing, what about your parents. Make them your best friends. Just be frank with your parents and see how much fun you'll have. All the best. Keep enjoying life.
 
Go out and do something, join an art class or whatever (also, have you seen the movie Yes Man?), or just go sit in the bar and drink alcohol, maybe you meet someone.
I was once at a local club waiting for my friend, sitting and drinking shots 'n stuff and had these 2 girls come next to me dancing. They clearly had fun (drunk) and tried to fire some conversation up but I was like totally ignoring them apart from a sad "hey".

/foreveralone.jpg :rolleyes:
 
mawise86, get yourself a pet, like a german shepherd or golden retriever for example. A dog can be a great friend. Plus you will have to take your dog out for a walk every day and sooner or later I guarantee you will have friends with pets, and who knows.. maybe even a girlfriend with pet. ;)
 
Scale until you reach making thousands a day , and then you can buy anything you want . Women , cars , you will get attention and you will feel happy .

I don't agree.. Why wait so much, when we can enjoy the present. We must enjoy the present in the best possible manner.e Living in present is always better than living in castles of dream.
 
Hi,

The first thing you need to figure out how to kill depression. Because from your post and tittle I see you are in the nearly deep depression.

I had similar situation when I moved to other town ( 600miles away .. ) I was just finished school at that time, so believe me how it was hard to find new good friends. But now i'm good with that. You're still very young, join art classes as everyone was offering, attend marketing,networking,business events, and god damn it, don't sit here and ask about how to find friends, go to facebook search for groups in your local town. You can become 'social' people very fast using facebook. And believe me, there are meet-up groups and more.. you can turn this online social life to real social life.

I understand how you feel right now, but if you feel like that - posting posts about asking how to find friend by using BHW - this will be bad only for you.

Oh right and also, you said you have/had friends, but they are very bad friends ( criminals? ) if so, don't even think to hang out with them. This is bad choice, and if you do, start hanging out with bad people, you will probably end up in the jail or even worse can happen.

Anyway, you have money, that means you succeed ( $100+ a day from IM ) like others ( probably more than 90% ) can't succeed.

Think like that:

1 Mission - Make Money From Online, no 9-5 job = Succeed.
2 Mission - Find new friends = Pending.

Oh and one more thing, If you want take a step for your health and find a friend, I offer you to find running group in your town. You can find very fast your friend and also - be healthy and fit! :) I found many friends just by running with running groups :)

Good luck with you second mission :)
 
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Bullshit. lol

It might sound funny but if he has the money he can go to some very good hypnotherapist. Life is what you think it is.
Also, learn magic tricks and amaze people. People will crave for your attention. Read some self help books or just listen to your favorite music before you go out. It makes you feel good.
 
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