Xmas day split up with gf.

Okay, here is what you do. Meet up with her in person, and beg her to get back with you. Tell her you just wanna have that feeling again, even if it's just for a minute or two, then you guys can't break up. Cry if you have to, so she says yes. Once she says yes, wait a minute, then dump her. You win, you dumped her. Now leave. :banana: One of my friends did this back in high school and it actually worked lmfao (immature, I know).

I'm kidding, kind of. Just move on buddy. You'll find someone better for you.
 
You'll hear advice from many people like: get over her or forget about her but they don't know how it truely feels. I've been in the same position as you.

The best advice i can give you takes time but basically IMPROVE ON YOURSELF. Go to the gym, let yourself loose on a punching bag and get all that anger out first.

Then work on your body, eat healthy. Gain a 6-pack, get a decent haircut and make sure you run into her, act like you're better off. Let her know she made a huge mistake.

Mine came crawling back. I only hope the same for you friend. Good luck!
 
Don't go after bitches like that and concentrate on learning new tricks to make money. If you can focus well on your IM efforts like your life depends on it .. and then you will start getting breakthroughs. Good luck !
 
I have noticed one thing. Most chicks are not down with IM. In my eyes I think its actually a major turnoff for most of them. So unless you are making alot of money which in turn gives you wealth, power, and status, not that many girls are going to be supportive of your IM ventures. I wish it wasnt so either but this is what I believe.
 
Ok losing a GF on Xmas is hurtful, but just think how much better it will make you feel when you find someone new and they hear how you recently became single.

Heres my Xmas story.... Im the father of three wonderful little people "kids" and we all know how breakups/divorces go with kids and money etc...


Well........ Mom filed a Motion in Court to stop my court ordered visitation and it was so harsh and slanderous that the Court got the DCF/CPS "the people who come to your house and think your a child abuser" This was earlier last week. We the Court held a hearing and I won, unfounded B.S. Well this was my Xmas present "Mom trying to take the kids away" It didnt work and backfired. But she kept them from me yesterday so I feel your pain in losing someone. I lost my three kids on Xmas... But I see them this Wen.

As a "IM" I have to look at everything and see if there is any good in it. Well... I found some.

Im building a niche site about this.... Since I live in FL all records are public record under the sunshine laws here. I bought a domain and im gonna adsence the hell out of it. Lots of long tail keywords with high paying adwords. Over the past three years its been one hell of a mess. So maybe you can turn it into something good. People love to read about other peoples drama.

Hope this finds you well and keep your chin up... The sun is shining today....
 
You'll hear advice from many people like: get over her or forget about her but they don't know how it truely feels. I've been in the same position as you.

The best advice i can give you takes time but basically IMPROVE ON YOURSELF. Go to the gym, let yourself loose on a punching bag and get all that anger out first.

Then work on your body, eat healthy. Gain a 6-pack, get a decent haircut and make sure you run into her, act like you're better off. Let her know she made a huge mistake.

Mine came crawling back. I only hope the same for you friend. Good luck!
This is the best advice, YOU do YOU. Improve yourself in every way, when you do run into her again it will put a huge smile on your face to see her draw drop when you have a better body, better clothes and more money.
 
I see there is already a similar thread but I thought I would say that I also got dumped xmas day. I got the whole let's be friends crap. We were together 6 months. And she hated me doing IM and not having a job where I leave home to go to. She thinks I'm pretty much hopeless.

Moving on from here my first goal is to lose a hell of a lot of weight I'm going to walk twice a day because I'm feeling pretty depressed about being dumped xmas day which also happens to be not too much before my bday.

I think I have really lost a hell a lot of trust with anyone outside family. I really feel like I have been played big time. I know life's not over I'm not dying etc etc but yeah I know some of you would know the feeling when you really love someone when they walk away from you how much it hurts.

Sorry I just had to get this off my chest.

--Rarez

It's a good idea to walk. Also there are plenty more girls billions of them. Take care and good luck to you!
 
I see there is already a similar thread but I thought I would say that I also got dumped xmas day. I got the whole let's be friends crap. We were together 6 months. And she hated me doing IM and not having a job where I leave home to go to. She thinks I'm pretty much hopeless.

Moving on from here my first goal is to lose a hell of a lot of weight I'm going to walk twice a day because I'm feeling pretty depressed about being dumped xmas day which also happens to be not too much before my bday.

I think I have really lost a hell a lot of trust with anyone outside family. I really feel like I have been played big time. I know life's not over I'm not dying etc etc but yeah I know some of you would know the feeling when you really love someone when they walk away from you how much it hurts.

Sorry I just had to get this off my chest.

--Rarez

Dude join the gym and start weightlifting, it'll help burn that fat off and you'll gain muscle as well. It also helps to take out your anger/frustration.

Deadlift, Squat, Bench, Row, Overhead press are all you need bro :).

That sucks your GF split up with you, but every cloud has a silver lining. Go get swole and make her jealous.
 
Get over it.

When I first looked at the title of this thread, I thought the title was: Angry Xmas - gay split up with gf.

Stupid me.
 
disregard females - acquire w/e bla bla bla you know the drill,

quit bitchen on an IM forum and pick your balls off the floor, have the last laugh when you drive by her in your pimpen ride all from IM funds, just slip her the bird then out the window :)

wait you forgot,,

while driving by slipping the bird in your pimp ride, she is gonna see your new and improved beauty in the passenger seat! haha

oh yea also remember there are 3.5 billion other females on this planet!
 
The ratio of boys with girls is 1:15 meaning you do have 14 more girls who will be with you. now go and find those 14 in the billion of girls in this cruel world. :)
 
1.Read good dating books and learn seduction
2.Work on your weight
3.Make 10 x the amount you are making through IM and live a porch life.

DO THE 3 THINGS AND SHE WOULD BE BACK IN NO TIME
 
Erf ! Looks like alot of people are in your case these times ^o)
 
Yes I did enjoy the good times and we had quite a few of those. Your right it is time to move on and I will.

Yes, again your right I need to do what I want to do and that is IM/Offline Stuff. I don't want to be some tyrants slave.


As they say in fight club....Let the chip's fall where they may.

That's your problem right there, you think its beneath you to work for someone else. If your not making enough from IM right now, you should work for someone else to make more money. Save up some money,do some research when you have free time. Then once you have enough saved up and researched enough,then do a blitz to get your IM career going.
 
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