1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Xmas day split up with gf.

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Rarez, Dec 26, 2011.

  1. Rarez

    Rarez Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 13, 2009
    Messages:
    205
    Likes Received:
    60
    Location:
    Australia
    I see there is already a similar thread but I thought I would say that I also got dumped xmas day. I got the whole let's be friends crap. We were together 6 months. And she hated me doing IM and not having a job where I leave home to go to. She thinks I'm pretty much hopeless.

    Moving on from here my first goal is to lose a hell of a lot of weight I'm going to walk twice a day because I'm feeling pretty depressed about being dumped xmas day which also happens to be not too much before my bday.

    I think I have really lost a hell a lot of trust with anyone outside family. I really feel like I have been played big time. I know life's not over I'm not dying etc etc but yeah I know some of you would know the feeling when you really love someone when they walk away from you how much it hurts.

    Sorry I just had to get this off my chest.

    --Rarez
     
  2. howard_hughes

    howard_hughes Elite Member

    Joined:
    Jul 23, 2009
    Messages:
    5,048
    Likes Received:
    3,684
    Occupation:
    Just Another Digital Marketer!
    Location:
    "Insta Rank"
    Home Page:
    Sounds to me like a..

    Blessing in Disguise :)

    I could never be with someone who won't let me be an IMer for Life :D
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 6
  3. Rarez

    Rarez Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 13, 2009
    Messages:
    205
    Likes Received:
    60
    Location:
    Australia
    Yeah it probably is. Next time I'll learn not to let a chick try control me and not to trust too quickly.
     
  4. davids355

    davids355 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

    Joined:
    Apr 25, 2011
    Messages:
    8,785
    Likes Received:
    6,325
    Home Page:
    Think positive. Enjoy the times you spent with her. But know it's time to move on.

    You can't be with someone that won't let you be yourself!!!
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 2
  5. cronk

    cronk Newbie

    Joined:
    Nov 26, 2011
    Messages:
    17
    Likes Received:
    1
    women just only narrow minded person.
     
  6. kirkonpolttaja

    kirkonpolttaja Senior Member

    Joined:
    Feb 6, 2010
    Messages:
    1,027
    Likes Received:
    669
    There is 2 sides into this, yeah you lost "fuckbuddy" BUT, some doors opened for you :) Now you can do full IM without nagging! Make a newyear promise that you will bank $1.5k/monthly till summer, she will feel like an ass to doubth you :D you get satisfactory + you can have nice summer holiday when you outsource all your stuff in spring.

    I'm glad that my gal doesnt nag about me making money for us, building passive income stream for us.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  7. Rarez

    Rarez Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 13, 2009
    Messages:
    205
    Likes Received:
    60
    Location:
    Australia
    Yes I did enjoy the good times and we had quite a few of those. Your right it is time to move on and I will.

    Yes, again your right I need to do what I want to do and that is IM/Offline Stuff. I don't want to be some tyrants slave.

    As they say in fight club....Let the chip's fall where they may.
     
  8. Rarez

    Rarez Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 13, 2009
    Messages:
    205
    Likes Received:
    60
    Location:
    Australia
    I wish I could bank even $500. 1.5k seems very out of reach. I will prove to her in time that she did the wrong choice by my own means. She will be then have moved on....Sleeping with someone new and yeah would have forgot completely about me. I know what shes like she admitted when we break up or if I killed myself she wouldn't wait long to be fucking some one new.

    --Rarez
     
  9. t0mmy

    t0mmy Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

    Joined:
    Jun 5, 2011
    Messages:
    6,250
    Likes Received:
    12,475
    Location:
    Ireland
    Home Page:
    disregard females - acquire w/e bla bla bla you know the drill,

    quit bitchen on an IM forum and pick your balls off the floor, have the last laugh when you drive by her in your pimpen ride all from IM funds, just slip her the bird then out the window :)
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 4
  10. Rarez

    Rarez Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 13, 2009
    Messages:
    205
    Likes Received:
    60
    Location:
    Australia
    That would be sick =)

    I really have to start to make some decent money sometime real soon sick of the chump change I'm making.
     
  11. xxpaigexx

    xxpaigexx Registered Member

    Joined:
    Apr 6, 2009
    Messages:
    83
    Likes Received:
    27
    Hey bro i have gone through almost the same phase..it wasnt xmas but was on my fucking birthday... that definintely spoils everything right.

    Bro what i learned from that is i need to make more loots and then show off...girls like her dont see the money making potential online.

    all they care about is tweeting, fbooking and blah blah to chat with frnds and keep in touch.

    they dont know that its people like u and i who manipulate them online and make money using them xD

    Well now i guess u got enough motivation to focus on ur online stuffs.

    btw pm me if u like to have me in ur frnds list in skype or whatever xD
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  12. nematoda

    nematoda Junior Member

    Joined:
    Apr 8, 2009
    Messages:
    197
    Likes Received:
    34
    Just be strong...use some blackhat method to get her back.. if not.. Focus on your IM...when you make it.. drive your dream car in front of her apartment.. she will look for you ...don't think about it to much.. .this is 2012...BE FOCUS....she might be a disturbance to your success....Life goes on
     
  13. axus_auto

    axus_auto Power Member

    Joined:
    Jul 13, 2011
    Messages:
    513
    Likes Received:
    502
    That is pretty cruel. You will definitely find someone better.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  14. brkseven

    brkseven Regular Member

    Joined:
    May 14, 2011
    Messages:
    225
    Likes Received:
    34
    It's great news! Seriously, it'll hurt bad for a little while, then it will go away without even realizing it! On top of that, you found the motivation to lose weight! That's for your health! Walk, walk, walk (you can brainstorm at the same time, maybe bring a recorder to take notes), or run, run, run! You'll feel so much better even at your computer, after a good workout, a soothing shower and a sportsdrink or two! Good luck!
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  15. Rarez

    Rarez Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 13, 2009
    Messages:
    205
    Likes Received:
    60
    Location:
    Australia
    Yeah I agree that this girl couldn't not check fb each hour and spoke to her friends more than me over the phone...
     
  16. TheWiTchDocter

    TheWiTchDocter Registered Member

    Joined:
    Sep 21, 2009
    Messages:
    98
    Likes Received:
    17
    Women are a distraction to making money. Yeah you feeling sad right now but you will get over it. When i have a women in my life it keeps me from focusing on my work like a cloud over my head.

    Make the money and the bitches will come out of no where.

    I had a women that thought i am unemployed because i make a living at home and magically pay for all my shit. "women logic"

    Hard to explain how our make money to women they just look at me blankly.

    Basically what you need is a women that likes to shag between your work sessions. If you want company get a dog until you make the cash.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  17. marcus45

    marcus45 Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 29, 2007
    Messages:
    301
    Likes Received:
    52
    Don't worry bro about girls they will come to you if they see $$$ sign in eyes
    as of now focus in making money online.
     
  18. mutatedllama

    mutatedllama Regular Member

    Joined:
    Feb 8, 2011
    Messages:
    445
    Likes Received:
    462
    You now have more free time and (more) motivation to succeed. What more could you need? Prove to her she made the mistake but not to prove her wrong - to prove yourself right.

    Good luck bro.
     
    • Thanks Thanks x 1
  19. switch_2012

    switch_2012 Power Member

    Joined:
    Feb 28, 2010
    Messages:
    504
    Likes Received:
    228
    Occupation:
    IM
    Location:
    UK
    sorry to hear that mate, but if she dumped you on xmas day prob shes not a nice person.. move on mate!
     
  20. DaBlackHat

    DaBlackHat Junior Member

    Joined:
    Apr 24, 2009
    Messages:
    159
    Likes Received:
    10
    Stay motivated on what you want to do, IM.
    She broke up with you, let her go.
    Just 1 more advise, stay active, try to exercise everyday, you will feel a lot better inside, and in time will feel even better from the outside.