Guy Blackmailing my GF, What to do ?

Chees said:
If he uploads the photos on FB or people.com contact the admins and they will remove them. Also I cant see why she is SO worried about underwaer photos. Lots of girls are uploading those on their FB profiles and other places. But ye this guys a dick and I understand why you're mad at him, I would be too. He deserves a good beating.
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I pretty much agree with this. From my own (female) perspective, I honestly wouldn't be mortified to have underwear photos leak onto the net. I may be a tiny bit embarassed if my family ever saw them, but I'd just laugh it off. What's the worse that's going to happen? A bunch of preteens fapping to you somewhere on the bowels of the internet? :rolleyes:

On the other hand, I can understand being upset because of the nature of the e-mails because the guy is obviously very manipulative and lewd. It can be pretty scary to be the target of that sort of fixation.
 
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Thx all for the help,

Below arbydee2 has done a trace on the IP Address from the originating ip found in the Email Header, and this proves that The person is sending these emails from a 3G Vodacom Connection, From inside South Africa,

So I don't think that name is his real name.

Im going to contact vodacom within the next our, and report back to you.

Rica was implemented in south africa, so you can't own a phone number without registering that 3g or phone to your name and address, Im sure with some Police investigation, this person will be tracked.

srb888 said:
You can find him here:
Code: 
http://www.google.com/search?q=matthew.diggins%40live.com&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a
From a pdf link in that search, I got his phone (Assuming that he is the same person):
Code: 
MATTHEW DIGGINS 520‐624‐1744

ref.:
www.tucsonaz.gov/water/docs/testers_list.pdf
Code: 
http://maps.google.com/maps?q=520%E2%80%90624%E2%80%901744&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&hl=en&tab=wl
May be this is his office/home.

OK, I will admit that I may be totally off the wanted person, so let authorities handle this.

You may find more such details now from that search.

If I find anything more on him, I will post it here. But make sure that this is the same man and don't take law in your hands. Let it be handled only by proper authorities. They can zero onto him within minutes.
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arbydee2 said:
Code: 
Host name:    vc-41-19-195-220.umts.vodacom.co.za
Country:     South Africa South Africa
Country Code:    ZA
Region:    Gauteng
City:    Pretoria
Latitude:    -25.7069
Longitude:    28.2294
Whois* Information
NetRange: 41.0.0.0 - 41.255.255.255
CIDR: 41.0.0.0/8
OriginAS:
NetName: NET41
NetHandle: NET-41-0-0-0-1
Parent:
NetType: Allocated to AfriNIC
RegDate: 2005-04-12
Updated: 2010-11-09
Ref: http://whois.arin.net/rest/net/NET-41-0-0-0-1

OrgName: African Network Information Center
OrgId: AFRINIC
Address: Level 11ABC
Address: Raffles Tower
Address: Lot 19, Cybercity
City: Ebene
StateProv:
PostalCode:
Country: MU
RegDate: 2004-05-17
Updated: 2010-06-28
Comment: AfriNIC - http://www.afrinic.net
Comment: The African & Indian Ocean Internet Registry
Ref: http://whois.arin.net/rest/org/AFRINIC

OrgTechHandle: GENER11-ARIN
OrgTechName: Generic POC
OrgTechPhone: +230 4666616
OrgTechEmail: [email protected]
OrgTechRef: http://whois.arin.net/rest/poc/GENER11-ARIN

OrgAbuseHandle: GENER11-ARIN
OrgAbuseName: Generic POC
OrgAbusePhone: +230 4666616
OrgAbuseEmail: [email protected]
OrgAbuseRef: http://whois.arin.net/rest/poc/GENER11-ARIN
There, contact the isp provider and see if you can get a trace. If you're serious about this, you can hire a legal firm to get a court order to trace this.
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How do you know that hes skype name is "matthewdiggins"
Tracing email header leads to Mauritius.
Ill check "matthewdiggins" ip as soon as he logs into skype to see if that matches the one in email header. Just to be sure
 
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If i were you,
Option 1.
Track his location using his ip, hire a few huge guys in his area, give him a black eye and also make sure that no one's gonna celebrate father's day for him.
Option 2.
Get a few hackers, hack into his computer, delete all the pictures, spread virus, and so on. Maybe if he got paypal etc, transfer the money to pay the hackers
 
arbydee2 said:
Code: 
Host name:    vc-41-19-195-220.umts.vodacom.co.za
Country:     South Africa South Africa
Country Code:    ZA
Region:    Gauteng
City:    Pretoria
Latitude:    -25.7069
Longitude:    28.2294
Whois* Information
NetRange: 41.0.0.0 - 41.255.255.255
CIDR: 41.0.0.0/8
OriginAS:
NetName: NET41
NetHandle: NET-41-0-0-0-1
Parent:
NetType: Allocated to AfriNIC
RegDate: 2005-04-12
Updated: 2010-11-09
Ref: http://whois.arin.net/rest/net/NET-41-0-0-0-1

OrgName: African Network Information Center
OrgId: AFRINIC
Address: Level 11ABC
Address: Raffles Tower
Address: Lot 19, Cybercity
City: Ebene
StateProv:
PostalCode:
Country: MU
RegDate: 2004-05-17
Updated: 2010-06-28
Comment: AfriNIC - http://www.afrinic.net
Comment: The African & Indian Ocean Internet Registry
Ref: http://whois.arin.net/rest/org/AFRINIC

OrgTechHandle: GENER11-ARIN
OrgTechName: Generic POC
OrgTechPhone: +230 4666616
OrgTechEmail: [email protected]
OrgTechRef: http://whois.arin.net/rest/poc/GENER11-ARIN

OrgAbuseHandle: GENER11-ARIN
OrgAbuseName: Generic POC
OrgAbusePhone: +230 4666616
OrgAbuseEmail: [email protected]
OrgAbuseRef: http://whois.arin.net/rest/poc/GENER11-ARIN

There, contact the isp provider and see if you can get a trace. If you're serious about this, you can hire a legal firm to get a court order to trace this.
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How did you get this information? What tool have you used?
 
pavan said:
you can get the sender's ip from the email
(see my first post for reference)

and then trace the IP
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Yes, that's what I did. Now I found it.

I was tracing the first ip: 65.55.90.158 and the information I got was about a Microsoft network in the U.S.

I tried the 2nd ip and I got the real info.
 
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Half of the world is naked on the Internet and even Osama had porn. Who gives a shit and if your girlfriend is hot all the better. You are working yourself up over nothing but I agree with some of the others that there maybe more to the story.
 
Why dont you just get a hardcore porn picture (not showing face) and say its your GF . infect it with the worst virus known, then send it him!! His computer will mess up bad, making him format and lose the pictures
 
ContentCreation said:
Why dont you just get a hardcore porn picture (not showing face) and say its your GF . infect it with the worst virus known, then send it him!! His computer will mess up bad, making him format and lose the pictures
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Nice idea. :eek:
 
Thx, It seems the Jacques Hendricks you are talking about is a SNR at Vodacom.

Here is his Facebook Profile http://www.facebook.com/jacques.hendricks

tonegawa said:
Hey,

I tried to trace the ip from this site:

http://www.whatismyip.com/tools/ip-whois-lookup.asp

It looks like his real name is "Jacques Hendricks"

Maybe you can search him on google and ask your girl if she recognizes him.

EDIT:

mmmm, searching from google, it looks like it's a fake name of a scammer:

http://www.google.com/support/forum/p/gmail/thread?tid=2e75998904e9211b&hl=en
http://www.google.com.bz/support/forum/p/gmail/thread?tid=66c0f49736df5fad&hl=en
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Ok is there anybody willing to help me build a type of virus that can be downloaded with a Image file or something similar. so I can email it to this Guy and either destroy his PC or a Virus that Can steal his details ?
 
bullseye123 said:
Ok is there anybody willing to help me build a type of virus that can be downloaded with a Image file or something similar. so I can email it to this Guy and either destroy his PC or a Virus that Can steal his details ?
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That's a good way to piss him off, the images are saved in email and god knows where else.
 
bullseye123 said:
Ok is there anybody willing to help me build a type of virus that can be downloaded with a Image file or something similar. so I can email it to this Guy and either destroy his PC or a Virus that Can steal his details ?
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Go ahead, take the worst advice and lose your leverage by commiting a crime yourself. *Facepalm*


You can handle this the right way by ignoring the blackmailer AND reporting him to the authorities. Make sure your gf tells you the truth, make her aware that if she lies it'll make things worse when you report the incident. I agree with the underwear comments, I wouldn't be bothered either if someone threatened with spreading them if I had no problem with them taken in the first place (in this context). I dunno, sounds more like something uhm, something kinkier from her past/present OR a cyber-hook up gone wrong, the classic horny girl sends nudie pictures to unknown horny male and gets blackmailed. I had a dumb friend of mine make the same mistake. She has a cool BF, so she kept the relationship and has an upcoming wedding plus a nice collage of her nude photos and her info doing the rounds all over the internet.
 
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I hope you will get that guy in prison, at least he should go to his local police. He doesnt deserve bother you and your gf.
 
Hey bro I'm from south africa, pm me, let's go sort this fucker out. Lol

The police in this country won't do shit, they are to lazy and corrupt
 
I don't think she is telling you the truth about what is in the pictures.

I'm thinking that the pictures are more hardcore than what she is telling you and she is very afraid that her friends and family are going to see them.

Before you go any further, you better get her to tell you the real story.

Her deleting the other emails raises a huge red flag.
 
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