Still missing her

[Enchant]

All the nice "hit the gym" and "focus on money" stuff is lovely, but..

If you want to grow from this..

Take responsibility and become a better man.

If your woman cheated on you, then you weren't good enough.

Take this opportunity to grow as a man and become the man that women would never cheat on.

It's a hard pill to swallow, but that's the one if you want to have a better life in 10 years.

Or, you can just be that man who wallows and is sad over it.

Woman are always keeping their eyes open for better, so you are right. The most you can do is become so good that she won't risk stepping out of the relationship knowing that she cannot do better.

 

[splishsplash]

Woman are always keeping their eyes open for better, so you are right. The most you can do is become so good that she won't risk stepping out of the relationship knowing that she cannot do better.

Humans are humans..

Men choose gorgeous girls.

Women choose strong, successful men with social proof who lead them in life.

If you're not cutting it for a girl, she'll cheat.

When you really nail it, your girl will die for you. She will not even contemplate cheating.

 

[Elusive Proxy]

If your woman cheated on you, then you weren't good enough.

This is truth ^^^ (90% of the time)

 

[Enchant]

Humans are humans..

Men choose gorgeous girls.

Women choose strong, successful men with social proof who lead them in life.

If you're not cutting it for a girl, she'll cheat.

When you really nail it, your girl will die for you. She will not even contemplate cheating.

And this right here is nothing but the truth!

 

[umbreno]

If your woman cheated on you, then you weren't good enough.

Or maybe his partner could become a better woman here and end things if she thought it wasn’t working out rather than cheat on him?

And what does that even mean… he wasn’t good enough? Wasn’t good enough at what?

Funny if a guy cheats on his missus he is essentially and unconditionally a grade a scumbag. But if some bird cheats on her guy, then he is ‘not good enough’. That wasn’t aimed at you specifically, just a bizarre general consensus on things for some reason that i’ve seen for a minute

 

[zelosog]

if she cheated on you now give her the best show get some new hobby etc start making more money

 

[splishsplash]

Or maybe his partner could become a better woman here and end things if she thought it wasn’t working out rather than cheat on him?

And what does that even mean… he wasn’t good enough? Wasn’t good enough at what?

Funny if a guy cheats on his missus he is essentially and unconditionally a grade a scumbag. But if some bird cheats on her guy, then he is ‘not good enough’. That wasn’t aimed at you specifically, just a bizarre general consensus on things for some reason that i’ve seen for a minute

Maybe people could be better humans.

Maybe people could be kinder.

Maybe maybe maybe.

This is the real world. Sitting hoping for others to change will lead you to a powerless miserable existence dependent on other people.

I agree. She should be a better person, but that's not the point. A lion will do what a lion does. A bear will do what a bear does.

Expecting most humans to be something better is just going to leave you with a sour taste.

I am not defending her in any way.

A better woman would have left him and not cheated, but the end result is the same. He needs to work on being a better man.

It's harsh, I know.

But in life it's just better to take as much responsibility as possible. You are literally taking power.

The world is what the world is. Rather than blame the world for what it is, it's better to mold yourself into a stronger character in order to achieve what you want from the world.

As for the general consensus.. Yeah, but the world has gone very anti-men.

Men *are* biologically more likely to cheat, however.

Women cheat when they are missing something. They are looking for the thing they are missing in another man. When they find it, they generally will die for that man and not cheat.

Some men are more likely to cheat than others. Not all men cheat. (Younger usually)

But, when a non-cheating man cheats(usually a 30+ man), it's usually because he's with a woman that doesn't appreciate or value him, and he's cheating because the other women is giving him the attention.


Literally what people do in the real world is akin to playing World of Warcraft as a level 1 character, and running around getting killed by level 20's and crying that the game is unfair, instead of leveling up.

 

[Master0fPuppets]

Gym time brother. Stay strong! the right on is not ready!

 

[Dopious]

Fck that bitch; there are millions more real women out there that would like you as you are. There are so many Chad answers in this thread from weak men who think money and muscles are the solution; it is hilarious to read. Behave like a grownup man who is not damaged by social media.

 

[IMETA]

Why did you lose her?

 

[UnusualSubstance]

Fck that bitch; there are millions more real women out there that would like you as you are. There are so many Chad answers in this thread from weak men who think money and muscles are the solution; it is hilarious to read. Behave like a grownup man who is not damaged by social media.

When I get a gf should I take her to McDonald's?

Cheap and who doesn't like maccies?

 

[Enchant]

When I get a gf should I take her to McDonald's?

Cheap and who doesn't like maccies?

See how quick she disappear when she see her friends on social media, taking flights to different countries trying other foods.

 

[splishsplash]

Fck that bitch; there are millions more real women out there that would like you as you are. There are so many Chad answers in this thread from weak men who think money and muscles are the solution; it is hilarious to read. Behave like a grownup man who is not damaged by social media.

That sounds nice, but none of us know him..

It's not about "money and muscles".

If you are fat, weak and out of shape, that's not masculine. That shows you have a weak mind.

A strong mind keeps a strong body and resists junk food.

You don't need to be shredded with a 6 pack. This is just sillyness, but you should be in good shape and be disciplined with your health.

Money I agree. Women don't care about you having fast cars and watches.

BUT, what they do like is a man who has is shit in order. If you can't afford to pay your bills then what quality women is going to pick you as the leader of her future family?

Making more money IS good, but even if you're just a plumber, you should still be a focused disciplined man who has his life in order.

But usually, men who make money are disciplined, focused, confident. This is why women go for men with money. It's not the money, it's who they are.

You should dress well and take care of your appearance. Laziness/apathy is not attractive.

You can't just be a fat slob with no money on universal credit and expect that there are millions of quality women who would like to be with you. It's not real.

It's actually EASIER than ever today to get a quality woman, because most men are weak, emotional and feminine. Hell it's easy to dominate in business. In the 80's men were fucking killers. Today, they're afraid to even pickup the phone and make a call.

This is not about some stupid instagram image of being a playboy millionaire. It's about being a quality man who is driven by his goals, not his emotions.

It's not a healthy approach to say "fuck that bitch". That is exactly what the super-feminine men are doing. Hating women because they can't get quality women. She's not the devil because she cheated. Sure, it's a little shitty, but shit happens. Deal with it, man up and move on. Ask why it happened and what you need to do in the future to not let it happen, instead of just taking the stance of blaming the girl. I guarantee that approach will just lead to more girls cheating, or eventually settling for a really low quality woman.

Woman are always keeping their eyes open for better, so you are right. The most you can do is become so good that she won't risk stepping out of the relationship knowing that she cannot do better.

Which is absolutely fine for any young man or woman.

No one owes anyone shit.

Why should a girl stay with someone if she finds better? She doesn't owe that person anything. If THEY are not doing a good enough job to be the best partner for her then tough.

Likewise for guys.

People are only young once, and they SHOULD be using that time to find the best partner for their life.

It's different if you're 40 and have kids. You've made your choice and you shouldn't be looking for others unless you have a toxic partner..

But for someone young, now is the time for them to date and find the right person.

Acceptance is the path to happiness and power.

 

[deppo]

When I get a gf should I take her to McDonald's?

Cheap and who doesn't like maccies?

If she knows you got options she won't leave you whether you take her to mcdonald's, kfc or starbucks. Trust me on that.

You do not need Michellin restaurants to keep a girl.

She just needs to know that she can be easily replaced within 1 day. That is all.

 

[Enchant]

That sounds nice, but none of us know him..

It's not about "money and muscles".

If you are fat, weak and out of shape, that's not masculine. That shows you have a weak mind.

A strong mind keeps a strong body and resists junk food.

You don't need to be shredded with a 6 pack. This is just sillyness, but you should be in good shape and be disciplined with your health.

Money I agree. Women don't care about you having fast cars and watches.

BUT, what they do like is a man who has is shit in order. If you can't afford to pay your bills then what quality women is going to pick you as the leader of her future family?

Making more money IS good, but even if you're just a plumber, you should still be a focused disciplined man who has his life in order.

But usually, men who make money are disciplined, focused, confident. This is why women go for men with money. It's not the money, it's who they are.

You should dress well and take care of your appearance. Laziness/apathy is not attractive.

You can't just be a fat slob with no money on universal credit and expect that there are millions of quality women who would like to be with you. It's not real.

It's actually EASIER than ever today to get a quality woman, because most men are weak, emotional and feminine. Hell it's easy to dominate in business. In the 80's men were fucking killers. Today, they're afraid to even pickup the phone and make a call.

This is not about some stupid instagram image of being a playboy millionaire. It's about being a quality man who is driven by his goals, not his emotions.

It's not a healthy approach to say "fuck that bitch". That is exactly what the super-feminine men are doing. Hating women because they can't get quality women. She's not the devil because she cheated. Sure, it's a little shitty, but shit happens. Deal with it, man up and move on. Ask why it happened and what you need to do in the future to not let it happen, instead of just taking the stance of blaming the girl. I guarantee that approach will just lead to more girls cheating, or eventually settling for a really low quality woman.




Which is absolutely fine for any young man or woman.

No one owes anyone shit.

Why should a girl stay with someone if she finds better? She doesn't owe that person anything. If THEY are not doing a good enough job to be the best partner for her then tough.

Likewise for guys.

People are only young once, and they SHOULD be using that time to find the best partner for their life.

It's different if you're 40 and have kids. You've made your choice and you shouldn't be looking for others unless you have a toxic partner..

But for someone young, now is the time for them to date and find the right person.

Acceptance is the path to happiness and power.

Once again he delivered nothing but the truth. I love your posts man, so much value.

 

[Enchant]

If she knows you got options she won't leave you whether you take her to mcdonald's, kfc or starbucks. Trust me on that.

You do not need Michellin restaurants to keep a girl.

She just needs to know that she can be easily replaced within 1 day. That is all.

If you aren't valuable, she don't care if you can replace her mate. In fact she would be happy you replaced her, because she is tired of you.

 

[deppo]

If you aren't valuable, she don't care if you can replace her mate. In fact she would be happy you replaced her, because she is tired of you.

My dear boy, a man with options is valuable by definition.

 

[Enchant]

My dear boy, a man with options is valuable by definition.

To an extent, you can have options. But those options may not be quality.

 

[deppo]

To an extent, you can have options. But those options may not be quality.

Indeed, I am not referring to replacing a 9 with a 2. I am talking about similar level options.

 

[Enchant]

Indeed, I am not referring to replacing a 9 with a 2. I am talking about similar level options.

Okay, now I see what you are saying.