I'm going to buy a plot of land with my best friend because someone else suggested I use the money I bought the car to invest, but haven't figured out how to do itWhy do you need to choose?
If you are managing the same household, you should make these decisions together. You can't just buy land and drop it on her after the fact.I'm going to buy a plot of land with my best friend because someone else suggested I use the money I bought the car to invest, but haven't figured out how to do it
When my girlfriend found out, she thought I would not be able to do it, she just wanted to live a peaceful life and I wanted to make more money and give her a perfect wedding with the biggest diamond ring ever!
Yes, only then you've got the luxury car, the mansion and the money, but you can't get back the woman who once truly loved you so much she didn't care about your money, she only cared about you as a person, and all you can do is paralyze yourself with a life of luxury.Career, once you get that career, you get that money. Now you get all the women, to choose and refuse.
If you are managing the same household, you should make these decisions together. You can't just buy land and drop it on her after the fact.
Even if peaceful life if not your goal, you have to think about who you want to share your life with. I'd be happier living with my family in a tent than living in a mansion without them.
Career, once you get that career, you get that money. Now you get all the women, to choose and refuse.
both. dont overthink. just go for what u want not what other people on BHW wants
Yes, only then you've got the luxury car, the mansion and the money, but you can't get back the woman who once truly loved you so much she didn't care about your money, she only cared about you as a person, and all you can do is paralyze yourself with a life of luxury.
Thanks for the advice guys, I'm going to have a quiet talk with my fiancée about what I should share with her and listen carefully to her ideasA balanced mind is important for taking any serious decision, Both are mutually correlated,
Don't confuse yourself to overthink. The way of life is too short and unpredictable, Anything will happen at any time,
Live happily with what you currently have.
This right here, always should be first. If you don't have food on the table and can provide for yourself, you are worrying about the wrong stuff so career always first.Career must be your priority
sounds more like she doubting your ability to make & retain money to keep yourself afloatI'm going to buy a plot of land with my best friend because someone else suggested I use the money I bought the car to invest, but haven't figured out how to do it
When my girlfriend found out, she thought I would not be able to do it, she just wanted to live a peaceful life and I wanted to make more money and give her a perfect wedding with the biggest diamond ring ever!
No, I hated gambling. I seemed like a boy who hadn't grown up to hersounds more like she doubting your ability to make & retain money to keep yourself afloat
are u a gambler? or a day 1 spender?
that is whyI seemed like a boy who hadn't grown up to her
the vast majority of the current women wouldn't allow me to say so,In this case I chose Woman, they are the best after cats. Make your wife and mom proud.