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Career or women?


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Career or women?

This is a question I've been thinking about for a long time, but I still can't make an answer to it
 
Why do you need to choose?
I'm going to buy a plot of land with my best friend because someone else suggested I use the money I bought the car to invest, but haven't figured out how to do it

When my girlfriend found out, she thought I would not be able to do it, she just wanted to live a peaceful life and I wanted to make more money and give her a perfect wedding with the biggest diamond ring ever!
 
I'm going to buy a plot of land with my best friend because someone else suggested I use the money I bought the car to invest, but haven't figured out how to do it

When my girlfriend found out, she thought I would not be able to do it, she just wanted to live a peaceful life and I wanted to make more money and give her a perfect wedding with the biggest diamond ring ever!
If you are managing the same household, you should make these decisions together. You can't just buy land and drop it on her after the fact.

Even if peaceful life if not your goal, you have to think about who you want to share your life with. I'd be happier living with my family in a tent than living in a mansion without them.
 
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Career, once you get that career, you get that money. Now you get all the women, to choose and refuse.
 
Career, once you get that career, you get that money. Now you get all the women, to choose and refuse.
Yes, only then you've got the luxury car, the mansion and the money, but you can't get back the woman who once truly loved you so much she didn't care about your money, she only cared about you as a person, and all you can do is paralyze yourself with a life of luxury.
 
A balanced mind is important for taking any serious decision, Both are mutually correlated,

Don't confuse yourself to overthink. The way of life is too short and unpredictable, Anything will happen at any time,

Live happily with what you currently have.
 
If you are managing the same household, you should make these decisions together. You can't just buy land and drop it on her after the fact.

Even if peaceful life if not your goal, you have to think about who you want to share your life with. I'd be happier living with my family in a tent than living in a mansion without them.
Career, once you get that career, you get that money. Now you get all the women, to choose and refuse.
both. dont overthink. just go for what u want not what other people on BHW wants
Yes, only then you've got the luxury car, the mansion and the money, but you can't get back the woman who once truly loved you so much she didn't care about your money, she only cared about you as a person, and all you can do is paralyze yourself with a life of luxury.
A balanced mind is important for taking any serious decision, Both are mutually correlated,

Don't confuse yourself to overthink. The way of life is too short and unpredictable, Anything will happen at any time,

Live happily with what you currently have.
Thanks for the advice guys, I'm going to have a quiet talk with my fiancée about what I should share with her and listen carefully to her ideas
 
Of course Career.. If you have skills to improve your career to be the best, you naturally have skills to attract women.
 
I'm going to buy a plot of land with my best friend because someone else suggested I use the money I bought the car to invest, but haven't figured out how to do it

When my girlfriend found out, she thought I would not be able to do it, she just wanted to live a peaceful life and I wanted to make more money and give her a perfect wedding with the biggest diamond ring ever!
sounds more like she doubting your ability to make & retain money to keep yourself afloat
are u a gambler? or a day 1 spender?
 
sounds more like she doubting your ability to make & retain money to keep yourself afloat
are u a gambler? or a day 1 spender?
No, I hated gambling. I seemed like a boy who hadn't grown up to her
 
Career, ofc. If you're satisfied with your career progress and you feel comfortable financially, you'll naturally be less stressed/anxious and happier. And that will, in turn, pave the way to success in other areas of your life like love and sex :)
 
I seemed like a boy who hadn't grown up to her
that is why
to her (and me without more context), this sounds like an impulsive decision.
Buying a house is a big decision, especially if it is a first house.
Typically, you usually buy it alone or with your other half, not best friend.
You share rent with your best friend, not house deed.
 
OP do you mean women or woman?

Chasing women isn't something I look forward.

But yes, would be great to have someone special to share my life with.

One should balance things IMO.

No need to think in terms of binaries.
 
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