DonKong
Junior Member
- Apr 14, 2024
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I see a lot of people on here, many who are just starting out in business or on their journeys, posting stuff like "My Journey to Make make X amount of dollars", or "How do I make X dollars?", or "How to make X dollars off XYZ IM thing?".
If you're one of those people, stop and listen. This purpose thread is not to shit on anyone, even though I am going to be direct. But I want to be real with ya'll:
You're doing it all wrong. All wrong. And you're fucking yourself over.
Do you think that Bill Gates wanted to make a billion dollars? You bet your ass he did. But you know who else wanted to make a billion dollars? Your liquored-up brother-in-law who can't see his mushroom dick over his beer belly, that's who. And he ain't got it.
Your goals don't matter. Really, they don't. If you're a guy living in Armenia trying to make $30,000 a year to support a family, or a girl living in Pakistan who wants $10,000 a year to get out of her parent's house, or a kid from Minnesota who wants to make $200,000 and finance his grad school, you may superficially have different goals. But really, you all have the same you. You want money, and the more of it, the better.
Even though I used the example of the brother-in-law to make a point, it's not just dysfunctional people who have financial problems. It's teachers, it's supermarket clerks, it's doctors and lawyers. It's good people and bad.
The biggest difference between people who improve their financial situation and those who do not has nothing to with goals.
The difference is between those who focus on the process and those who focus on the performance. Always focus on the process.
Why does this matter? Because you can't control performance. You might have a great PBN and then the Google algorithm changes. You might try your hardest to research how to do paid ads, but it goes bust. You might manage your money wisely, but you lose your job. I could go on, but don't drink the Kool-Aid that the world is perfectly just or unjust. Chance happens to us all, and we control less than we think.
What you can do is learn how to brave the sea of Fortune. Learn how to do IM. Learn good financial practices. Learn how to recognize scams. Learn proper investing (not crypto and other get-rick-quick schemes). Learn how banks work and how to talk to investors. Fail and learn and fail again, and all the time, improving yourself and what you can control.
The money is just a side effect. Be happy, and enjoy your journey. I wish you all the best of luck.
If you're one of those people, stop and listen. This purpose thread is not to shit on anyone, even though I am going to be direct. But I want to be real with ya'll:
You're doing it all wrong. All wrong. And you're fucking yourself over.
Do you think that Bill Gates wanted to make a billion dollars? You bet your ass he did. But you know who else wanted to make a billion dollars? Your liquored-up brother-in-law who can't see his mushroom dick over his beer belly, that's who. And he ain't got it.
Your goals don't matter. Really, they don't. If you're a guy living in Armenia trying to make $30,000 a year to support a family, or a girl living in Pakistan who wants $10,000 a year to get out of her parent's house, or a kid from Minnesota who wants to make $200,000 and finance his grad school, you may superficially have different goals. But really, you all have the same you. You want money, and the more of it, the better.
Even though I used the example of the brother-in-law to make a point, it's not just dysfunctional people who have financial problems. It's teachers, it's supermarket clerks, it's doctors and lawyers. It's good people and bad.
The biggest difference between people who improve their financial situation and those who do not has nothing to with goals.
The difference is between those who focus on the process and those who focus on the performance. Always focus on the process.
Why does this matter? Because you can't control performance. You might have a great PBN and then the Google algorithm changes. You might try your hardest to research how to do paid ads, but it goes bust. You might manage your money wisely, but you lose your job. I could go on, but don't drink the Kool-Aid that the world is perfectly just or unjust. Chance happens to us all, and we control less than we think.
What you can do is learn how to brave the sea of Fortune. Learn how to do IM. Learn good financial practices. Learn how to recognize scams. Learn proper investing (not crypto and other get-rick-quick schemes). Learn how banks work and how to talk to investors. Fail and learn and fail again, and all the time, improving yourself and what you can control.
The money is just a side effect. Be happy, and enjoy your journey. I wish you all the best of luck.