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Can anyone spare a kind word for a stranger? This isn't the kind of place I would normally come for emotional support. But ngl, I'm low on friends.

I was already having an off day, some accounts banned, small annoyances. I asked for some help in a thread on Reddit. As sometimes happens, I got off on the wrong foot and got dog piled and banned from the sub. In the process, people said so pretty mean shit, as anonymous shit talkers on the internet do.

But they scored. I don't know why, but I really let it to get it to me. They got under my skin and I'm sitting here doubting myself and feeling like a complete failure. And now I can't shake it. Right in the feels, make a grown man cry shit. :weep:
 
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oops, shit happens on reddit. Been banned on a regional one before for no fault of mine. But that doesn’t mean shit to me. I joined the sub back with another account.

Don’t get sucked into online fights. Your life is much more than these bits and pieces. Don’t take it personally.

Cheer up, coz BHW loves you. :)
 
don't let reddit ppl get to you. there are so many bitter people that have nothing better to do than troll. most of them are losers so you are a better person than them.
cheer up :)
 
Remember, every great story has moments of doubt, of challenge, and of adversity. It's in these moments that your true character is forged. Embrace the criticism, for it only serves to sharpen your resolve. Let it fuel the fire within you, propelling you towards your own greatness. In the grand scheme of things, the opinions of others hold no weight compared to the strength of your own convictions. Your worth is not determined by the fleeting words of passing strangers, but by the unwavering faith you have in your own abilities. Each step you take, each hurdle you overcome, brings you closer to the summit of your aspirations. The path you tread is yours alone, and it's the journey itself that shapes you into the person you are destined to become. So, do not falter in the face of doubt, for it is merely a footnote in the epic tale of your life. You are the protagonist of your story, the hero of your own narrative, and nothing can diminish the brilliance that is uniquely you.

Everyone, except you, will be forgotten and lost in the vastness of time. It's only you, the lone survivor, and the ultimate victor in your story.
 
MAF Publishing said:
Can anyone spare a kind word for a stranger? This isn't the kind of place I would normally come for emotional support. But ngl, I'm low on friends.

I was already having an off day, some accounts banned, small annoyances. I asked for some help in a thread on Reddit. As sometimes happens, I got off on the wrong foot and got dog piled and banned from the sub. In the process, people said so pretty mean shit, as anonymous shit talkers on the internet do.

But they scored. I don't know why, but I really let it to get it to me. They got under my skin and I'm sitting here doubting myself and feeling like a complete failure. And now I can't shake it. Right in the feels, make a grown man cry shit. :weep:
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buy a proxy - a new account - go back to the sub - start again
 
it was a bad day, but the good thing is that you can try tomorrow, and hope you can succeed and see a new post of how much progress you made and that you are recovering again, keep you head up my king that your crown is falling, move on from this bad day and let's make tomorrow a gppd day! ;)
 
Thank you all. Really, truly. Sometimes if you want to believe bad things about yourself, it's easy to believe them even from idiots. And they caught me with my shields down.
 
MAF Publishing said:
Can anyone spare a kind word for a stranger? This isn't the kind of place I would normally come for emotional support. But ngl, I'm low on friends.

I was already having an off day, some accounts banned, small annoyances. I asked for some help in a thread on Reddit. As sometimes happens, I got off on the wrong foot and got dog piled and banned from the sub. In the process, people said so pretty mean shit, as anonymous shit talkers on the internet do.

But they scored. I don't know why, but I really let it to get it to me. They got under my skin and I'm sitting here doubting myself and feeling like a complete failure. And now I can't shake it. Right in the feels, make a grown man cry shit. :weep:
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Ehhhh. You know, that's my normal day getting freelance clients on facebook. My posts get so much flaming I usually either not post at all and only comment / dm or post with comments turned off (yeppp, there's a feature like that, how nice). Still get crazy people in my dms though. I really, really need to make a sale (or better 10 lol). During sales dms right now. Some guy yesterday was so aggressive, insulting... He was almost placing an order (it was at contract stage) but he started to treat me like shit, fuck, people treat janitors better... I looked at these messages and lost motivation to write a mean response even. I just stopped responding. I'm supposed to send him a contract draft but I just can't anymore. He sounds like he'll be making trouble (if the transaction would finalize at all, it's possible he'd complain there are no chargebacks in the contract and not buy). Hopefully someone else who isn't a psycho will come and buy something. Spilled an ocean of tears over situations like these... Then started to insult them back... Now I'm in ghosthing / blocking stage. Which is probably the best reaction, maybe sometimes insulting one of them back for psychological health benefits, knowing that you can also respond in that way and don't need to be nice and polite all the time is freeing, but honestly, at some point it all feels like such a waste of time... So just block and neeeext. Ugh I want to run ads for myself, but I'm afraid I'd just get more conversations with these psychos and pay for them insulting me whole day.

So, you know - you're not alone. Real life isn't motivational pseudo-business yt video, people have real problems while hustling.
 
SilverClouds said:
So, you know - you're not alone. Real life isn't motivational pseudo-business yt video, people have real problems while hustling.
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Thanks for sharing man. It really helps to know other people struggle with it. I'm trying to toughen up.

It's not like I haven't been on Reddit for years and been the toxic internet jerk myself from time to time. ... But sometimes shit catches you off guard.
 
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