Is it okay to hurt your partner?

[beythegreat2]

My girlfriend has been hitting me everytime she's angry. I've got a lot of scars every now and then. Do you think I should break up with her?

 

[chewba]

Yes, leave her asap and don't come back to her! It's definitively not ok what she's doing.

You should also document/take pictures of your scars and keep these pictures save from her.

 

[ePrime]

No it's not okay. Breaking up or not is your call, but definitely not OK.

 

[Deleted member 1013995]

Just leave. Law sides with women, don't look for equality.

 

[Deleted member 658642]

My girlfriend has been hitting me everytime she's angry. I've got a lot of scars every now and then. Do you think I should break up with her?

Of course you should. Why is this even a question? Nobody should tolerate domestic violence.

 

[Dopious]

Only hitting should be done in bed, everything else is a no go.

 

[xGODx]

Hit her back. Just kidding but you should break up with that girl as there is no respect in your relationship

 

[xtCode]

Don't even think twice. Get out of there. Im not gonna tell you to man-up, stand your ground, or confront her. Shes never gonna be fixed. Get out of that relationship asap

 

[Mrnewbie]

She needs therapy, but that is not your problem. OP, how do you know that the hitting will not turn into something deadly? You need to leave the relationship ASAP before this escalates even further.

 

[beythegreat2]

Thanks for the advice. I've been trying to tell her its not okay but she keeps on doing it. She even calls my parents saying that I was the one who's hurting her

 

[chewba]

That's called Perpetrator/Victim Reversal. A lot of people will not believe you, because she's a woman. So take pictures and - most important: just leave her. Don't try to argue with her. Just leave.

 

[AmberJones]

youd be dead meat by the time you get married, yeah break up with her ......no man can tolerate women like that

 

[Mr Positive]

I would breakup over a phone, file a complaint and get a restraining order for safety

 

[CreativeDaddy]

What do you think?

 

[thedorf]

Thanks for the advice. I've been trying to tell her its not okay but she keeps on doing it. She even calls my parents saying that I was the one who's hurting her

Leave now. Don't let yourself get into a situation where you get arrested because of her. So many red flags here. Get out quick.

 

[Thunder Digitals]

Thanks for the advice. I've been trying to tell her its not okay but she keeps on doing it. She even calls my parents saying that I was the one who's hurting her

You should leave that toxic person ASAP. Before she accuses you of anything else.

Because the law will side with women and you can't do shit about that.

 

[mindeswx]

That is a definition of a psycho, she should be good in bed because she's so 'emotional', so keep her as a side bitch, but definitely get a real woman.

 

[Deleted member 658642]

That is a definition of a psycho, she should be good in bed because she's so 'emotional',

Nah. He should cut all contacts with her. Keeping someone like that in your life just for sex will inevitably backfire. Psychos will go to any lengths to get what they want.

 

[Dopious]

Nah. He should cut all contacts with her. Keeping someone like that in your life just for sex will inevitably backfire. Psychos will go to any lengths to get what they want.

Been there, done that around when I was 20, not recommended. Nice fck, but boy was she a psyko, never again.

 

[mindeswx]